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You should be asking yourself, what is driving him to put you through those tests. He wants to know that you value him and miss him when he is not there.
The testing however is childish and he should learn to express what he is feeling or thinks he is not getting from you.
Like saying, I do not feel like you miss me when I am away. Or, I would like you to show me that you want me to be around when I go out or away, etc.
Now if the expectations are made known, you know if you can do things to meet them or discuss if it is not reasonable to some degree.
Otherwise it is just a passive aggressive way to try and see if you care for him or not. That is not a good cycle to remain in.
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Sometimes your only choice is to remove the cause of the insecurity
I don’t condone the aggressive name calling but OP he has a point.
One who two consenting adults are friends with is no one’s business
Two
That’s hypocritical asf
You may raise the child but bar one little organs your contribution in making the child is nothing
Run like hell
Ew. Is this real? Just stop if it is. Allow your man some time with his barber
You should be asking yourself, what is driving him to put you through those tests. He wants to know that you value him and miss him when he is not there.
The testing however is childish and he should learn to express what he is feeling or thinks he is not getting from you.
Like saying, I do not feel like you miss me when I am away. Or, I would like you to show me that you want me to be around when I go out or away, etc.
Now if the expectations are made known, you know if you can do things to meet them or discuss if it is not reasonable to some degree.
Otherwise it is just a passive aggressive way to try and see if you care for him or not. That is not a good cycle to remain in.