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Date: November 23, 2022
If you wouldn't be ok seeing her with someone else, it would be quite hard to be friends.
Think about it, if she is in a relationship and you are her friend, she should be able to come to you if she's not doing great and trust you won't be trying to break her relationship to get a chance, you should be able to be supportive and even help her with that relationship. If you are not willing to do that, you won't be able to be any good as a friend.
Yes very true I’m aware talk is cheap etc. I’m happy to talk about it as much or as little as he wants to. I appreciate the comment.
Hello OP, I have the same issue! But not just with my boyfriend, it happens with my parents, friends, colleagues and sister sometimes. Even though I love them all dearly and enjoy their company most of the time. It just so happens I go out more with my boyfriend as we live in a different city now.
I’ve never been able to work out why it happens to me, it makes me feel like I’m not interesting or worth talking to, but also that I’m not putting in enough effort. Sometimes I genuinely just don’t feel like being overly chatty and I’d prefer to not talk much, not sure if you experience that? Sometimes there really just isn’t much to talk about, short of pulling random topics out of the air. And sometimes my boyfriend isn’t that talkative either, so it’s a two-way street.
Maybe you could try some ice breaker type things to reignite the convo? Nothing too crazy, just like pre-plan some topics that you can both engage with, things you saw or read that day, something someone said at work, I dunno. Or something you saw on Reddit that made you laugh or cringe. Try taking the things you’d talk about at home out to dinner with you as well as bouncing off things you experience while you’re out?
Sorry for the lacklustre advice but I hope it helps knowing you’re not the only one!
Sorry what? He made jokes about you being difficult to impregnate? That’s so weird? Like he was expecting you to fall pregnant and then he was going to make you get an abortion? He puts his hands on you and on your throat???
Get OUT OF THERE. PLEASE. This guy is 8 months into manipulating you. He is abusive. He has gotten you pregnant on purpose and is now making you go through an abortion. This is him finding ways to CONTROL you and show that he has power over you. He is already abusing you.
One more time: your boyfriend is already abusing you.
You’re a grown woman, you don’t need his sh*t! Find a worthy man who will take care of you and your baby if you want the baby. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this AH.
Your mental illness isn’t your fault, but your healing is your responsibility. This man has had 20 years to get help. 20 years to recognize that stringing his wife along while obsessed with someone else is wrong and to try to make a change. 20 years to come to her with the truth himself and ask for her understanding while he gets help. He chose to hide it and be a shit partner to her for 20 years while blaming and bashing her online and having a one sided emotional affair behind her back. He chose to feed his obsession by essentially stalking this woman for 20 years instead of getting help. He chose to use OP for the financial stability she provides while telling strangers online how much he wants to leave her and would if he wasn’t so financially dependent on her.
As someone who struggles with mental illness, the idea that we’re so utterly incompetent and incapable of self control that we shouldn’t be held accountable for decades of neglect and deceit is just insanely offensive. OP’s husband is not some helpless baby who has no control over his actions. And OP does not exist for the purpose of being a whipping boy for her sick husband. She’s her own person whose life and happiness matter outside of being a partner to someone who has never acted like a partner to her. Kindly sir, pull your head out of your ass and stop acting like his needs should always take priority over hers no matter what he does.
Maybe not ??♀️
He's a misogynistic POS that's just told on himself.
You are of course not wrong. He is, 100%
Way to pull a definition out of your ass.
OP better tell her to go and prepare for divorce
Wow. That’s pretty fucking harsh. She’s making excuses for him because she’s only halfway committed to acknowledging his behavior is unacceptable. She doesn’t want to believe it, but she took this step of posting here, and to me that is an excellent sign because even if she’s aggressively in denial, she’s nonetheless thrown out a line to drag her out of it. I don’t think it’s a waste of anyone’s time at all. I think the things people said will stick with OP. Just her asking is further than so many people even get. This is not a person who needs more harsh treatment; she gets plenty. Yes it’s frustrating but that makes me want to comfort and protect OP, not attack her.