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Room for online sex video chat Lisa_Alyson
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Date: November 5, 2022
I’m not saying it’s about money. I’m saying that if the boundary was “no doing this until we’re married and stable and seeking to build a family, etc”
That would be reasonable. To say “no doing this unless or until you ‘put a ring on it’” is transactional and toxic and just simply “lock it down” relationship culture.
As if a ring is something that demonstrates commitment, if that’s what you think I got some single mother statistics to show you.
You're going to kill yourself asking someone with an ED to eat more. This disease will take everything from him AND you.
I understand your reluctance to have sex with him. People, usually women, need to feel safe and supported and loved to fully engage in great sex. Both partners need to be into it and when one party isn't, it brings the whole thing down.
None of this is your responsibility. You are not his care giver (that's the work load you're taking on) and you have problems and desires of your own. You didn't sign up to take care of him and that alone is enough to make you feel vulnerable.
Ask yourself if caregivers to the sick want to sleep with their patients. They don't. They see them at their worst, they clean them up at their worst, and thata just not sexually appealing.
YOU also deserve to be gratified before, during, and after sex. Relationships are not always 50/50 but you've been putting in 80 and I think you've noticed that that effort is no longer sustainable for you.
Don't feel guilty about that. Just talk to your boyfriend about this. He needs to know, an ED and being emotionally fragile is no excuse for neglecting your needs.
He's being taken care of all around and you're, what? Getting a warm body to sit next to? C'mon now. That's not a relationship.
Okay. First thing is she broke her ethical code. She might be doing a masters but she is a manipulative idiot. Don’t fall for the heeby jeeby nonsense designed to take power over you. Tell her she is clearly a narcissist and to work on herself before dispensing advice. She isn’t supposed to discuss anyone’s mental problems and intruded into your room without permission. Put a lock on your door and tell her to get her head seen to. She knows your secrets, so they are not secrets anymore. Accept these. From now on do not engage with her. Tell her that you will report her behaviour to her academic tutor.
You are worried about him but what about YOU? You have one life. You are wasting your life right now. Time to live your life and begin the process of separating. I would say have a talk with him about this now being a friendship only and start the process of him finding a new place to live. End it.
Own it. Don’t laugh it off.
Ask her why she doesn’t feel the same? Why is it a problem?
Maybe you aren’t compatible.
He’s 36, and he’s whining that he isn’t getting offered food and then acts as if he’s in a position to lecture a 34 year old woman about your behavior, coupled with that vague “trouble” line? Stop brewing his coffee. He needs to snap out of that right now and stop thinking that you’re his surrogate mother. And I’m a dude saying this.
yes, but the likelihood of both failing is miniscule.
Dude never got his swimmers checked. If they have spent 5 years using condoms only then this was not unlikely to happen if he was still fertile.