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Sex is absolutely not the solution here. It may keep her around a little longer, but she's going to leave you eventually. My advice is to let her go. The longer this goes on, the more it'll hurt.
You’re in your 30s and have plenty of time to start over. Regardless of your age or what you put into the relationship, there isn’t any way to move on. You said it yourself. You can and should start over.
I want to say this plainly: this man has proven that he can kill you. This stuff escalated and if you stay and nothing changes, it is most likely that he will kill you. He threatened you with a weapon over a simple request of being left alone. Whether he keeps his weapons or not, what’s stopping him from doing it when you get into a worse fight?
He doesn’t work. He’s an addict. He doesn’t seem to be actively working on his mental health. He’s abusive. What do you get out of this relationship exactly that you don’t want to throw away? 2 years of you holding everything down and nothing changed positively. Don’t fall prey to the sunken cost fallacy.
Do not marry him. Leave as soon as you safely can. Contact a women’s shelter for help and guidance. Get far away from this man and protect yourself. Then focus on getting therapy and building your life up again. You deserve to be safe, loved, and supported. Never has my husband ever exhibited any form of violence toward me when we have disagreements. We talk and come to an understanding. When we ask for space, it’s given. Your experience is so sad and abnormal. I’m sorry.
Thanks friend! I appreciate your input.
See a therapist. You are wrecking sex and this is going to eventually cost you this relationship. Your partner accepts your face and wants to date you regardless. They have no problem with your face. If he wanted to just look at random body parts, he would watch porn. Your face and the intimate bond between you is key to a healthy sexual relationship. You will never have a normal relationship until you get over your insecurities.
Hon, we can't ignore the age gap because all your troubles flow directly from it. He pursued a kid in high school or just out of it, while he was a grown-ass adult. He was happy that you were an introvert and had nothing but him…that's a big part of why he wanted you I imagine. That and women his own age probably wouldn't put up with his shit.
Your feelings are valid. You have many reasons to break up, to move out. But ultimately, just feeling unsatisfied is more than enough. Please, get out on your own, grow, date, and discover who you are. You will be much happier.
I'm probably the unpopular opinion here, but I think you made a mistake. Obviously there are acceptable reasons to leave a marriage but it sounds like you didn't give it a fair shot. Certainly he made his mistakes too but counseling was an opportunity to at least be open-minded. But you already had a foot out the door. From here, it sounds a lot like a very skewed representation of your situation. All of your reasoning sounds very forced and flimsy like you're trying to find reasons why your divorce was ok. Searching for reasons to make your extra-marital romance ok will hurt you later and hurts everyone else now. At this point, there is probably zero chance your ex husband will want to reconcile but you should do the right thing now and admit what you've done, take responsibility, and properly grieve.
I don’t know if she’s cheating, but I do think her behavior is inappropriate. Does she speak the language he speaks? How do they communicate? Also, ask her how she’d feel if you did this with another girl?