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First of all please put a NSFW tag on this.
Second, this behavior would have me running for the hills. See I had an ex like this, and our relationship was one of sexual coersion. It completely turned me off from sex. It's been 15 years since I've slept with someone, and honestly, I do not miss it. At all. Not even a little bit. And I'm not in a hurry to have it again. Sometimes the thought of it makes me want to throw up. I find it revolting.
If you tried to communicate your boundaries and he is still doing this, leave. His behavior is disgusting and his lack of self-control is worrying. His wants do not trump your needs.
Insisting someone has sex with you on a near-constant basis when they don't want to is not love. If he loved you he'd respect your boundaries and the fact that you're trying to build a future for yourself.
He's not taking “no” for an answer. That is a GIANT red flag.
This post made my skin crawl.
Well getting a dna test isn’t going well because at first he agreed to get in contact with her for one. Now he’s saying he feels like he’s forced to taking a test because he knows it isn’t his
She sounds bat shit crazy
Well when your husband forgets to turn the outside hydrant off for the winter, you turn it off, then he turns it on to briefly use it, doesn't turn it back off, it gets to minus 30 degrees Celsius and the water line freezes, cracks and starts flooding the basement….
Well if you don't want to throw the husband out after that then good for you, must be the Saint of patience.
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Have you had a conversation with her at all? Does she want to get married? If she doesn't, well, her family and friends can do one, it's none of their business.
But it sounds like you know, which is why you've been avoiding it.
If she does… Wow, you are completely selfish. You don't want to break up because it's an inconvenience to you. You're wasting her time and she deserves better than you,
There’s no way for us to know. But there is a way to find out.
Just ask him.
If you like him, you need to work up the courage to let it be known.
Men these days, in the current social climate, are much much less inclined to approach a woman romantically.
Keep it casual, ask him if he wants to grab lunch sometime.
That should give you a pretty good indication if he is interested.
You’re hesitant because change is scary and because he’s eroded your sense of self and self worth. You need personal therapy to work on this.
He literally just wants you to be his mom (You should make him food and clean the house), he is very controlling too.
Dump him.
There is no excuse I simply don’t care
DO NOT GIVE HIM MONEY plus dump him. He's not honest and shady shit is going on. Please do not get a job soley to help him.
She wants to explore her sexuality but not with you. She yells at you to hurry up.
She's checked out of your marriage buddy, time to do the same and leave.
You deserve someone who cares, not what you currently have.
I learned a new word today, thank you!
Thank you for sharing your insight. I really appreciate it.
If I may ask, how were you able to get your partner to appreciate the things that are important to you?
Dad actually kicked the son to the curb. Mom just took him in. My suspicion is Mom is also tired of the son in her home and is trying to get him back into our basement, which is never going to happen. Sorry that was not super clear.
Yeah Id stay where you feel safest. If your family is protective might be good to be with your dad
I will can't get over this age gap. Are your ages correct because that makes him 13 years older than you. Considering he's your husband at 23, how old were you when he met you? Most older men go for younger women to groom them and take sexual advantage of them
Honey you've been here less than a month. In 20 years my husband has never said anything remotely like this to me. This guy's a dud. Move on before you're more invested/entangled.
Did she say yes? If she said yes, you have every right to be upset bc she knows exactly why he wants to go on vacation with her.
If she said no, why are you arguing with her just bc she shared what he proposed?
You didn’t say one thing that was positive about him, which is probably because you’re frustrated, but right now we only know why you shouldn’t marry him. Getting married is only the beginning of hopefully spending your whole life together, I hope whoever you chose to do that with is someone who you feel excited about and who you want to have as a partner in life.
I think this is common. A part of you might be a little sad she has a boyfriend because it might effect your relationship with her. For example, she might not have as much time to spend with you, as she once did.
I think it is good that you’re insightful and able to identify your thoughts and try to change them to positive ones. We all have negative thoughts about ourselves and others- even people we care about. Being able to recognize these thoughts, try to understand where and why we are feeling them, and make efforts at countering them is the best we can do in my opinion.
Because many commenters are going by this post alone and not doing a deep dive into OPs past. They are looking at it at face value.