You’re being a big baby about this. Your wife was frustrated. If you thought there was a better way to handle it, YOU should’ve done so. Why is it all on her?
Your neighbors don’t care that they were yelled at. They’d probably yell too if you woke them up at 6AM every day. If it continues, speak to them politely or tell the landlord. It sucks that the building is so poorly made but they probably weren’t aware you could hear them at all.
You’re a grown-up now you have a 10-year-old marriage and you’re wanting to be 20 or 23. That ship has sailed. Marriage is just a lot of things to a lot of people. You can do anything you want right now you can go to college you can start a business you could become wealthy you can do whatever you want because you have a partner that loves you and will be there for you no matter what. I’m thinking you don’t understand what real love is and you’re taking him for granted and I feel really bad for him.
In order to keep good relations with everyone in the house, let me suggest an explanation as to why your elderly guest behaves this way. It doesn’t excuse the behaviour, but it might make it easier to process cognitively.
If she is 80 years old, then she was young during WWII. At that time, there was no meat, no sweets, and very little food. Between 90 and 95% of the world’s population was in a state of food poverty.
By the 1960s, meat and sweets had slowly returned, but they were still quite expensive. More than that, this was the absolute height of the ultra-skinny revolution. Skeletal models were plastered over every kind of media. Eating disorders were rampant among young women.
It’s quite possible that your friend’s mother finds it nearly impossible to see a treat in the fridge and resist taking it. This does not mean that you have to give her your food. The reason I told you this was so that you can understand her a little better.
The best way to protect your food is to put it out of sight. Buy an opaque container with a lid. Put your food in that, and put that in the fridge. That should be enough to stop the theft, unless the woman is pathologically driven to steal.
You’re being a big baby about this. Your wife was frustrated. If you thought there was a better way to handle it, YOU should’ve done so. Why is it all on her?
Your neighbors don’t care that they were yelled at. They’d probably yell too if you woke them up at 6AM every day. If it continues, speak to them politely or tell the landlord. It sucks that the building is so poorly made but they probably weren’t aware you could hear them at all.
Point it out.
You’re a grown-up now you have a 10-year-old marriage and you’re wanting to be 20 or 23. That ship has sailed. Marriage is just a lot of things to a lot of people. You can do anything you want right now you can go to college you can start a business you could become wealthy you can do whatever you want because you have a partner that loves you and will be there for you no matter what. I’m thinking you don’t understand what real love is and you’re taking him for granted and I feel really bad for him.
I completely agree and most things that she said are creepy are stuff from hentai so like millions of people have read or have written
In order to keep good relations with everyone in the house, let me suggest an explanation as to why your elderly guest behaves this way. It doesn’t excuse the behaviour, but it might make it easier to process cognitively.
If she is 80 years old, then she was young during WWII. At that time, there was no meat, no sweets, and very little food. Between 90 and 95% of the world’s population was in a state of food poverty.
By the 1960s, meat and sweets had slowly returned, but they were still quite expensive. More than that, this was the absolute height of the ultra-skinny revolution. Skeletal models were plastered over every kind of media. Eating disorders were rampant among young women.
It’s quite possible that your friend’s mother finds it nearly impossible to see a treat in the fridge and resist taking it. This does not mean that you have to give her your food. The reason I told you this was so that you can understand her a little better.
The best way to protect your food is to put it out of sight. Buy an opaque container with a lid. Put your food in that, and put that in the fridge. That should be enough to stop the theft, unless the woman is pathologically driven to steal.
Thank you, I will
You broke up. Of course you both dated new people. This was 100% inevitable.
Stop getting back together with exes. Manufacturing this needless drama is the inevitable consequence of getting back together with your exe.
I believe he means the literal rapist.
It will likely end your relationship, unless you're both thoroughly poly or something.
As a general rule, people don't like seeing their partners have sex with other people. I don't know anybody who doesn't regret their threeways.
Boy bye.
Yes. But somebody dubbed my post “overdramatic”.
There are such weird people on Reddit… honestly!
You still have personal responsibility for that choice whether or not your parents influenced it.
Thank you