All those that were trying to claim it was legal of her to post your pic without your consent (arguing that it made it okay because you used it on a public dating profile) were very much wrong. They should have done their research on it before posting that here.
Normally, those sites are very strict about content posted, and would have investigated complaints of fraudulent claims and such. However, they all are run by different people, different rules on what is and isn’t allowed. For instance, some here insisted I was wrong about cheaters being called out, asserting they only ask about guys, so, being a member of several, I double checked, 2 of the ones I am part of did more than just ask about guys, although most were asking, some were,in fact, using the forum to post cheaters. But their intention is to help women and it’s a shame that some are allowing their forums to become fodder for potentially disgruntled exes, and gossip.
Did you know that there is a male equivalent of these type of sites?
She is going on a date with your best friend. And then following it up with getting drunk with other guys. What could go wrong? I'm not a fan of drama. This girl and your friends are drama. Find out how much better you sleep with the drama cut out of your life.
Firstly, its cheating if you consider it cheating, unless its considered 'normal' where you from. Secondly , acording to social norms about this, unless otherwise agreed upon, this is cheating. I am from the Netherlands different social norms could apply if you are in a different country, but I doubt these social norms would be much less strict somewhere else.
Now I personally wouldn't mind if this would happen to me. To me the most important thing is honesty and since she told it as quickly as she did, I would forgive her for this. However you should know, I don't get jealous very quickly and trust my girlfriend a lot.
I hope my thoughts and actions on what I would do or think if I were in your situation helps you with processing this. And I do want to adress YOU DON'T HAVE TO AGREE TO THIS.
The nice thing is you can just take meds and it's gone! I got it once from a guy I was hooking up with with some frequency who had showed me tests when we first started to hook up.
When I contacted him to say I had a positive test he broke it to me that he had a girlfriend and was cheating on her with me and other women so that was fun. :))))))
Please enlighten us then. But you do know that just because someone else does it doesn’t mean you have to but I can see why it might make you insecure. But you are the one that is choosing to react this way. Sorry but the only person you can control is yourself.
Thank you for this comment! ? Honestly, the way we have normalized the shaming of those who still live with their parents/families for whatever reasons is incredibly disheartening. You have no idea what is going on in a person's life to cause them to still live at home/return home. It's honestly becoming more common these days to see people return home or stay at home with how a lot of economies are tanking and the cost of housing are still rising.
All those that were trying to claim it was legal of her to post your pic without your consent (arguing that it made it okay because you used it on a public dating profile) were very much wrong. They should have done their research on it before posting that here.
Normally, those sites are very strict about content posted, and would have investigated complaints of fraudulent claims and such. However, they all are run by different people, different rules on what is and isn’t allowed. For instance, some here insisted I was wrong about cheaters being called out, asserting they only ask about guys, so, being a member of several, I double checked, 2 of the ones I am part of did more than just ask about guys, although most were asking, some were,in fact, using the forum to post cheaters. But their intention is to help women and it’s a shame that some are allowing their forums to become fodder for potentially disgruntled exes, and gossip.
Did you know that there is a male equivalent of these type of sites?
She is going on a date with your best friend. And then following it up with getting drunk with other guys. What could go wrong? I'm not a fan of drama. This girl and your friends are drama. Find out how much better you sleep with the drama cut out of your life.
Firstly, its cheating if you consider it cheating, unless its considered 'normal' where you from. Secondly , acording to social norms about this, unless otherwise agreed upon, this is cheating. I am from the Netherlands different social norms could apply if you are in a different country, but I doubt these social norms would be much less strict somewhere else.
Now I personally wouldn't mind if this would happen to me. To me the most important thing is honesty and since she told it as quickly as she did, I would forgive her for this. However you should know, I don't get jealous very quickly and trust my girlfriend a lot.
I hope my thoughts and actions on what I would do or think if I were in your situation helps you with processing this. And I do want to adress YOU DON'T HAVE TO AGREE TO THIS.
Ask yourself why getting likes on SM means more to you than your bf’s feelings
The nice thing is you can just take meds and it's gone! I got it once from a guy I was hooking up with with some frequency who had showed me tests when we first started to hook up.
When I contacted him to say I had a positive test he broke it to me that he had a girlfriend and was cheating on her with me and other women so that was fun. :))))))
Please enlighten us then. But you do know that just because someone else does it doesn’t mean you have to but I can see why it might make you insecure. But you are the one that is choosing to react this way. Sorry but the only person you can control is yourself.
Thank you for this comment! ? Honestly, the way we have normalized the shaming of those who still live with their parents/families for whatever reasons is incredibly disheartening. You have no idea what is going on in a person's life to cause them to still live at home/return home. It's honestly becoming more common these days to see people return home or stay at home with how a lot of economies are tanking and the cost of housing are still rising.