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The volume of posts on this sub that include a wrong turn after “I got home from work to find him playing his video games” is truly tragic. Run don’t walk away from this smelly loser.
All of this could've been avoided if these two had just sat down and hashed it out. I can't believe that people in a five year relationship are basing their decision to propose on an IMPLICATION. A marriage proposal should never be a surprise or something you don't know whether your partner will say yes. There was no need to propose here – OP and her boyfriend should've had a civil discussion about his stance and whether his stance is a deal breaker, and then they should've either gone separate ways or stayed together with whatever resolution they had come to.
If your partner isn't clear enough about what they want in their future, then proposing won't fix the issue at hand. Talk it out, ignore the messed up proposal for now, and figure out if you, OP, want to stay with someone who does not want marriage. Everything else is irrelevant here.
>I don't want to believe that such an amazing emotional connection could be severed by something like possible sexual incompatibility.
This is a common misconception that if you continue to believe, will end your relationship. Every relationship is different, but from what you've said it is evident that your GF places value in a sexual relationship that is reciprocal.
You don't have to answer this if it's too personal, but when you engage in sex do you provide any sexual stimulation and endeavour to make her orgasm? Do you simply receive and then want sex to be over?
I don't believe that aligns with submission-type sexual preferences, you need to reframe your idea of your sexuality to being a selfish lover. It has direct correlation to a hetero dynamic of a man expecting his partner to give head while refuses to return the favour, or only focusing on his orgasm and not his partners pleasure.
If you dislike topping her, you should talk with her about focusing on other sexual acts that leave you both fulfilled. You should never force yourself into doing anything that you dislike but your GF has clearly expressed her wants/preferences and you lied to her to avoid a difficult conversation, leading her to believe that you do match her sexual compatibility.
There are multiple sexual acts/positions that are entirely the submissive person providing pleasure to the dominant, have you explored any of those?
Ultimately you need to be honest with yourself and your partner.
Yeah I don’t plan on contacting them ? I really only replied to them once to get my message across, they probably won’t respect my wishes tho and will keep being persistent. I’ve kinda just stopped caring about stuff I can’t control. I only posted this to get some insight about my situation
You aren't a match OP. Right away he was disrespectful and called you a slur. He has his porn and you have yours, but he knows what he lacks in your relationship but chooses to just be selfish.
I wouldn't stay with a person like this and we all know it's BS that he friends had something to say about it. Your bf thought it's a point in this argument and he will be on top.
OP just break it off and find someone that wants you for you and can match your needs on your levels, as you can do for them.
The volume of posts on this sub that include a wrong turn after “I got home from work to find him playing his video games” is truly tragic. Run don’t walk away from this smelly loser.
For someone who isn't judging, this is an extremely judgy response.
Still not a fucking creep like you
You mean, the test said your husband isn't the father.
Not sure how foul play happens in that case unless the results weren't sent directly to him.
Go with him and get all your kids tested, a second time. Insist on it.
Too long, didn't read. Don't date coworkers.
Just keep some mouth wash by your bed and you and your husband can use the mouthwash to freshen breath or a pack of spirits gum that what i would do
I was thinking the same thing.
All of this could've been avoided if these two had just sat down and hashed it out. I can't believe that people in a five year relationship are basing their decision to propose on an IMPLICATION. A marriage proposal should never be a surprise or something you don't know whether your partner will say yes. There was no need to propose here – OP and her boyfriend should've had a civil discussion about his stance and whether his stance is a deal breaker, and then they should've either gone separate ways or stayed together with whatever resolution they had come to.
If your partner isn't clear enough about what they want in their future, then proposing won't fix the issue at hand. Talk it out, ignore the messed up proposal for now, and figure out if you, OP, want to stay with someone who does not want marriage. Everything else is irrelevant here.
She’s marrying your wallet. Don’t let it happen.
>I don't want to believe that such an amazing emotional connection could be severed by something like possible sexual incompatibility.
This is a common misconception that if you continue to believe, will end your relationship. Every relationship is different, but from what you've said it is evident that your GF places value in a sexual relationship that is reciprocal.
You don't have to answer this if it's too personal, but when you engage in sex do you provide any sexual stimulation and endeavour to make her orgasm? Do you simply receive and then want sex to be over?
I don't believe that aligns with submission-type sexual preferences, you need to reframe your idea of your sexuality to being a selfish lover. It has direct correlation to a hetero dynamic of a man expecting his partner to give head while refuses to return the favour, or only focusing on his orgasm and not his partners pleasure.
If you dislike topping her, you should talk with her about focusing on other sexual acts that leave you both fulfilled. You should never force yourself into doing anything that you dislike but your GF has clearly expressed her wants/preferences and you lied to her to avoid a difficult conversation, leading her to believe that you do match her sexual compatibility.
There are multiple sexual acts/positions that are entirely the submissive person providing pleasure to the dominant, have you explored any of those?
Ultimately you need to be honest with yourself and your partner.
Add to that that BPDs will never admit they have a problem
Yeah I don’t plan on contacting them ? I really only replied to them once to get my message across, they probably won’t respect my wishes tho and will keep being persistent. I’ve kinda just stopped caring about stuff I can’t control. I only posted this to get some insight about my situation
You aren't a match OP. Right away he was disrespectful and called you a slur. He has his porn and you have yours, but he knows what he lacks in your relationship but chooses to just be selfish.
I wouldn't stay with a person like this and we all know it's BS that he friends had something to say about it. Your bf thought it's a point in this argument and he will be on top.
OP just break it off and find someone that wants you for you and can match your needs on your levels, as you can do for them.
Yeah, don't. Dump her and move on with your life.
Omission of important information is a lie. Everything has changed, and now you have a choice.