Telling her you're jealous is putting it on her to help you get over this jealousy, either by quitting the group voluntarily or doing something else to make you feel better. That's selfish.
Work on your own insecurities. Don't make her carry the load too.
I'm sorry I replied to you specifically. I was responding to all the comments in general saying “how can this be” and “no way” etc. and happened to click yours.
We all need to drop the disbelief because in most of our fucked up patriarchal cultures, this kind of shit is the norm against women.
It got to me that so many of the comments were like that, like this is something out of the ordinary when it's another Tuesday all over the world for women.
And yet it still might come to this because he is, as you already said, choosing not to notice the truth
Telling her you're jealous is putting it on her to help you get over this jealousy, either by quitting the group voluntarily or doing something else to make you feel better. That's selfish.
Work on your own insecurities. Don't make her carry the load too.
My ex physically abused me, she was a pretty girl and I’m a bigger guy. She’s being ridiculous.
I'm sorry I replied to you specifically. I was responding to all the comments in general saying “how can this be” and “no way” etc. and happened to click yours.
We all need to drop the disbelief because in most of our fucked up patriarchal cultures, this kind of shit is the norm against women.
It got to me that so many of the comments were like that, like this is something out of the ordinary when it's another Tuesday all over the world for women.
You two don’t belong together. It’s that simple.