That's what my mom said as well… his mom told him if he breaks my heart she will disown him and he said he would never… I just need help on getting my thoughts together enough to get him to open up to me.
I get what you're saying, but he doesn't verbally abuse or outwardly judge me. He knows where I stand and I understand him. My problem is less a physical visit and more of just calling them. Just the thought of calling them up makes me incredibly anxious. I know my grandmother cares for me despite sharing my grandfather's views. But I'm not sure about my grandfather. I just don't want to end up regretting anything or having my dad on my back for the rest of my life making me regret not keeping in contact
That's what my mom said as well… his mom told him if he breaks my heart she will disown him and he said he would never… I just need help on getting my thoughts together enough to get him to open up to me.
I get what you're saying, but he doesn't verbally abuse or outwardly judge me. He knows where I stand and I understand him. My problem is less a physical visit and more of just calling them. Just the thought of calling them up makes me incredibly anxious. I know my grandmother cares for me despite sharing my grandfather's views. But I'm not sure about my grandfather. I just don't want to end up regretting anything or having my dad on my back for the rest of my life making me regret not keeping in contact
Am I missing something? Was there a catalyst to this whole thing? Is she mad you brought your son or something?