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Room for online sex video chat Lady_mystic
Model from: ru
Languages: en,de,es,fr,it,ru
Birth Date: 1999-07-06
Body Type: bodyTypeAverage
Ethnicity: ethnicityLatino
Hair color: hairColorRed
Eyes color: eyeColorBrown
Subculture: subcultureStudent
Date: October 22, 2022
It is not your responsibility to save this man from himself. His behaviour and actions and how he is going to take care of his mental health are his to own. You do however need to keep yourself safe and your nervous system and your dog seem to be trying to tell you how off this situation is.
Sounds bpd
Apparently there won't be any waiver as “he's a friend” and she “trusts” him.
OP is/ was your wife a professional model or has she even showed interest in modelling before? The reason for this question is how eager she is to help him ” professionally” and if the answer for the above question is yes then you do have a serious issue there. I may be wrong but I don't know anyone who'll jump up to go and be a model for a friend of a friend and will not be comfortable with their SO present unless they are doing something shady.
Can't you just skip work for one day and go with her? Take a leave and as she's about to go to her “shoot” tell her you'll be joining her today to meet the photographer friend and ensure that she's the one driving so that she doesn't have time to message and alert him. If she ask why, then you have your answer, if their working dynamics are different, you have your answer. If she stops you from coming you have, your answer.
Can you give an example?
Looking forward to that, and this coming from someone like you who've been through the whole journey gives me even more confidence that it will. Can't thank you enough 🙂
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You can't trust a crack head…. ever. You cannot have a relationship with this person. It is more of you are her enabler. Contacting her again would indeed be crazy.
Oh my God, yes.. i love going to bars and i have had soooo many male bartenders (not hot) at places I frequent say, hey so i know you have a crush on me since you come visit me all the time… And I'd be like WTF?! No! I'm just a drunk! haha
Dump his ass.
Sounds like she's ready to settle and you were just the safe option.
Honestly, with something this bad, you need to treat it like two separate issues if you can.
One is the money. There are countless stories of people with gambling addictions who spend this amount of money and much more all while keeping it secret from the people they love. There are resources to help those victims cope with the betrayal, and I think those would help you too. And to be frank, no one sensibly spends 18,000 on porn, so I really think treating this not like a vice, but as a truly destructive compulsive habit is the right way to go.
The second issue is the infidelity. If he’s spending that much, almost guaranteed that he was messaging and developing emotional and sexual attachment to the performers he was paying. Truly horrible behavior by a partner.
In the end, the only real solution you have is separation and divorce, but if you see these as two separate issues, it might help your healing process.
As someone who’s dated many shady characters and flat out liars: she’s lying bro. She’s straight up gas lighting you. I’d end the relationship on this alone. If you can’t recover those messages, pull up your phone records and at least show her she’s a fucking liar and tell her: since it had to come to this for you to stop lying and gas lighting me, we’re getting a divorce. Go see a lawyer. At best, it’s an emotional affair, at worst, she’s fucking him. Either way, she’s not worth wasting a second more of your life on. You’re 26, there’s plenty of time to start over. I didn’t get married till 32 and I’m so glad I waited for the right guy. A guy who’s loyal and gives me the transparency I give him. You’re not crazy. You’re not wrong. Your wife is manipulative and psychologically/emotionally abusing you. This is abuse. Gas lighting is abuse. You have every right to leave for someone hiding things regarding ppl of the opposite sex. You don’t need to see the nudes she sent or catch them together to leave. Just prioritize yourself bc she isn’t prioritizing you, and leave her lying ass in the dust. You deserve better than this. None of this is your fault. Best of luck.
Ashtray?
Actually kinda. At least for me. The strength it takes to break an iPhone by hand- Vs using an object.
I’m sure it’s not that difficult to break a phone by hand. But the fact that he restored to breaking it using adrenaline and full force is super scary to me.
I’ll give it another try. Online sounds like a great idea. The in-person ones that I went to a few years ago were super uncomfortable and unwelcoming.
Exactly, “if something is not interesting” – my mind just went to -> girl, he doesn't find sex exciting with you. There is a lot of man who will!
Thanks
Maybe it’s regarding that?
I am coming from different culture like you all, I only move out when I get marry. Well I am coming from Asian family. And yes, I almost lost my mom yesterday because my crazy dad yelling and banging all the stuff and making loud noise. It made my mom went into panic attack, anxiety, and her heart almost stopped yesterday. My fucking dad still have nerve to ask me to solve his problem, ask me to stop my internship and school, and to take care of my mom. Conclusion is, I still get drag and don't know what to do. I can't move out now as they disagree.