Closure's a myth, you just move on. And you did move on. Tell your ex “thank you for the invite, but you are only part of my past now. I don't resent you and I forgive you. Wish you the best.”
The fact that you husband is so understanding says a lot about who he is. Don't fuck that up!
Am I destined to choose between a partner or a “happy-part-time-life”?
Nope. You're only destined to choose not to be with this partner. This one would rather you be unhappy as long as you do things her way and support her life goals.
Don't assume that every other woman would feel the same. That's just putting up an impossible roadblock to personal happiness.
Set this one free to find a person who has the same life goals and be mindful in your future dating that you date someone who wants you to actually be happy and healthy and not just a worker striving to save money.
No. You need to have security at the door turn him away. A bouncer to physically bounce him would be even better. None of this half-ass, wussy “we'll all just ignore him” BS.
My husband and I joke a lot. I love dark humor. If he ever said this to me, I would never look at him the same way. I would be repulsed. Rape is never something to joke about. Stop trying to be quirky.
For women.
Kids are not a commitment for men.
Besides you being neurotic about it, how does him following these girls actually effect your relationship?
Closure's a myth, you just move on. And you did move on. Tell your ex “thank you for the invite, but you are only part of my past now. I don't resent you and I forgive you. Wish you the best.”
The fact that you husband is so understanding says a lot about who he is. Don't fuck that up!
Choose your husband.
Honestly I’d take the test and do all that stuff and when it comes back as not an abuser, I’d dump her after that. But I’m petty.
Am I destined to choose between a partner or a “happy-part-time-life”?
Nope. You're only destined to choose not to be with this partner. This one would rather you be unhappy as long as you do things her way and support her life goals.
Don't assume that every other woman would feel the same. That's just putting up an impossible roadblock to personal happiness.
Set this one free to find a person who has the same life goals and be mindful in your future dating that you date someone who wants you to actually be happy and healthy and not just a worker striving to save money.
You’re probably right.
Thank you.
No. You need to have security at the door turn him away. A bouncer to physically bounce him would be even better. None of this half-ass, wussy “we'll all just ignore him” BS.
Should probs get to know someone a little better before making them your boyfriend in future
I’d tell her, truth will set you free
Man, judging by the amount of downvotes for anyone saying this was “Cute” or “Funny” I think we do.
My husband and I joke a lot. I love dark humor. If he ever said this to me, I would never look at him the same way. I would be repulsed. Rape is never something to joke about. Stop trying to be quirky.