Yes. And having an argument with her over it still means you’re stuck engaging the behavior on her terms. “I’m not doing this” is a stronger position for you, because you aren’t in control of changing her behavior, but you’re in complete control of your own.
It's not a cool move on her part. Lent is about fasting or giving up something for the 40 days. Usually it's red meat or meat altogether. I've heard of chocolate, coffee, and video games. It's supposed to be like a cleanse.
But this fasting is for the person themselves. My mother used to give up meat but would still make meat for my dad and the kids. My dad would give up chocolate, but still buy chocolates for my mother.
Your gf is imposing her fasting and, by definition, religion on you. That's not cool.
I can’t tell you for sure if he is gay, but I can tell you that I am sure he is gay. Tell him you’re going to get a side partner and just keep building wealth and when you divorce you’ll have a nice little nest egg to start the rest of your life.
She has to choose one of you. And for your own self you can’t get drug along. Stop being involved with her and force her hand. Tell her it’s all or nothing with you. All 3 of you will be better off in the long run.
Leave him alone. You crushed him. He vented to his friend who (wrongly), in turn, took up arms against you on his friends behalf. You're still the same person until you work through your own relationship issues. He doesn't deserve having to work through yours as well as work on any of his own he may have.
Wtf? Get away from that family! And why wouldn’t your husband talk to you? Sounds like a bunch of knuckle draggers to me
Yes. And having an argument with her over it still means you’re stuck engaging the behavior on her terms. “I’m not doing this” is a stronger position for you, because you aren’t in control of changing her behavior, but you’re in complete control of your own.
It's not a cool move on her part. Lent is about fasting or giving up something for the 40 days. Usually it's red meat or meat altogether. I've heard of chocolate, coffee, and video games. It's supposed to be like a cleanse.
But this fasting is for the person themselves. My mother used to give up meat but would still make meat for my dad and the kids. My dad would give up chocolate, but still buy chocolates for my mother.
Your gf is imposing her fasting and, by definition, religion on you. That's not cool.
RUN
I can’t tell you for sure if he is gay, but I can tell you that I am sure he is gay. Tell him you’re going to get a side partner and just keep building wealth and when you divorce you’ll have a nice little nest egg to start the rest of your life.
This is bait, right? There's no way you're genuinely asking for advice on how to cheat on your girlfriend.
Wtf is a stripe club
And it's weird too because she's only overly affectionate when I'm not there. She makes sure to stay away when I'm with him.
But she's the dense one? Uh… huh.
She has to choose one of you. And for your own self you can’t get drug along. Stop being involved with her and force her hand. Tell her it’s all or nothing with you. All 3 of you will be better off in the long run.
Thank you. I wish more people had the balls to say this.
Leave him alone. You crushed him. He vented to his friend who (wrongly), in turn, took up arms against you on his friends behalf. You're still the same person until you work through your own relationship issues. He doesn't deserve having to work through yours as well as work on any of his own he may have.
She used to tell me that all the time, it means nothing he's just liking my photos why do you care?
Then I saw the DMs and realized my gut instinct was right.
When I asked to see her phone she just started crying. Didn't even unlock it at that point. I knew exactly why she was crying.
So while maybe op is being insecure to an extreme, I know first hand why he's feeling the way he is right now.