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Date: October 16, 2022
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This is like textbook porn addiction. He’s flooded his brain with so much porn that he now needs that low level sexual stimulation at all times, even when it’s completely inappropriate (like when he’s sitting next to his partner, whose feelings he knows it hurts). He has all the classic addiction signs. He tried to quit because he recognized it was being harmful, he couldn’t succeed in quitting because he’s addicted, he’s being secretive about it, and he can no longer be turned on by an actual woman. He has it bad.
I say this because it’s important to recognize that this isn’t something he’s going to just easily be able to stop. Think of him as akin to a gambling addict. They all think they can quit at any time, but without professional help, the much more likely scenario is bankrupting their family.
Porn addiction can be treated for sure, but it’ll be an uphill battle. And the most important thing is that it’s going to take buy in and hard work from him. He’s the one who has to put in all the effort here. You can support him through it, but he’s the only one capable of fixing this.
It’s up to you to decide how to proceed. You can try insisting on couples’ counseling or having one more come to Jesus talk with him. My guess is that he’ll refuse both, since he’s been dismissive of your efforts to discuss this before. If he isn’t willing to try to fix it, I’d be out the door. The more this continues, the worse it’ll get. How long before your kid sees this sexual stuff on his screen, if they haven’t already? And is he even capable of being an attentive parent when he has sexual content within reach at all times? It’s only a matter of time before he’s ignoring your child in favor of his phone when he’s supposed to be watching them. It’s also not uncommon for people with porn addictions to get into trouble for viewing sexual content in public or at work. And all the while your relationship and self esteem will keep being eroded into nothing.
I bet if you leave him, after the initial grieving, you’ll feel like a giant weight has been lifted off your shoulders. You’ll find that you’re still the cute woman you used to be, even after the baby, and there are tons of men out there who will appreciate that. There are men who respect you enough not to watch other women right in front of you or even at all.
I mean, my dude, she doesn't owe you an explanation for who she's dating. The fact that you are presenting it as if she owed it to you isn't a good look.
Just stop contacting her and let the friendship fade
Tbh it sounded like you planned this for you and not for her. Using the whole get-out-of-work thing as a romantic gesture for something that you said you really wanted to do.
I’m not going to speak toward the dynamic of her work environment, but I would not involve myself in matters of her time off.
Maybe you should have asked her what she wanted to do, and then planned for it so she can mentally be in the right place. It sounds like she really wasn’t and it prevented her from enjoying.
If you don’t want to carry the responsibility then say so now and postpone moving in together. I’d expect it to end in resentment and a feeling of being trapped if you don’t, so better to deal with it now than then.
You’re not required to support her, she’s probably expectant of it because it’s what she thinks she’d do in that situation, but that doesn’t mean that you have to be ok with it.
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