So…When I was young I was easily excitable. TBH, the only reason I’m not is due to age, trauma, neurological damage, and medication.
Prior to all of this, I would yell a lot. It was how I communicated, with loudness and rapid fire, off the cuff smart ass comments to get my point across.
You mentioned insulting you. Directly insulting you isn’t right, but in the heat of discussing something like politics asking, “Are you stoned or stupid?” Is totally something I’d have said without malice behind it.
I tell you this to say it may very well be part of his personality and upbringing, and it may be a long journey to modifying it for you. He may even never completely leave it behind.
Was going to say, Op is still very young. They made it sound like they are about to turn 80 LOL
What do you mean?
No but he is obligated to meet the care needs of his child.
Now he can either contribute to the mother doing that care or hire a nanny, guess which one is cheaper?
Leave. Next step from choking is your death. Get out of there.
So…When I was young I was easily excitable. TBH, the only reason I’m not is due to age, trauma, neurological damage, and medication.
Prior to all of this, I would yell a lot. It was how I communicated, with loudness and rapid fire, off the cuff smart ass comments to get my point across.
You mentioned insulting you. Directly insulting you isn’t right, but in the heat of discussing something like politics asking, “Are you stoned or stupid?” Is totally something I’d have said without malice behind it.
I tell you this to say it may very well be part of his personality and upbringing, and it may be a long journey to modifying it for you. He may even never completely leave it behind.
Yelling is a part of arguing. Names is not.
I can't imagine paying a rent to my boyfriend.
The paternity test is not even an issue.
THIS however, is the actual issue.
I think the cantaloupe lady is trying to build a moat to keep the GF out
Record it.