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As long has she didn’t cheat on you then it’s none of your business
No that’s sexual assault. This is not his situation he knew this girl and has some type of past with her. What was he doing there in the first place
Bingo
They didn't want to be the one who awkwardly had to tell her that she's obviously not part of the bridal part. Her message probably came off as assuming she would be.
I would end up sleeping with my ex, if my wife and I split I mean. No way I could do Christmas w her and the kids and not, even if we hated each other our chemistry is wayyyyyy to strong.
Got no credibility and still staying?
Well to be fair my best friend said this, not her. He was the one who suggested they might have this kind of bond.
Already a top post about the piercings themselves and the issues with you switching the jewelry so soon but as for the relationship. Why would you want to stay with a guy like that? He seems to have fly off the handle over nothing. Like do what an X friend use to do say he is cheating if he LOOKS AT women modeling underwear on packages and even more so if he even tries to justify porn lol.
You are really young and he is being emotionally manipulative and controlling this SCREAMS of early isolation. He will want to separate or supervise every interaction with family or friends and will slowly isolate you from them. Ditch him, girl run ?♀️.
Why do you care so much if she’s happy? You say you like working that much. Seems like she wouldn’t want to. Do you not love your wife and want her to be happy?
You’ll find most of Reddit it pro-porn. I’m not for or against it, I think people should do what they want. But I always comment on these because I feel like a lot of people don’t know or care to do the research. Porn effects the chemicals in your brain. It effects relationships. There’s a lot of studies on it. A lot of professionals speak about it. It’s not this casual thing we once thought it was. My husband is the one that told me all this. He stopped using it and told me why. I was always okay with it. It was something interesting we learned together and I eventually decided to cut it out too. Intimacy has been amazing and sustainable in our marriage ever since. More intense and…present, I guess? It’s hard to explain. He’s very much so a neuroscience enthusiast and likes to be in control of all his brain chemicals. He stopped drinking coffee for a year to see what that would do, so he’s definitely more intense than most people. The science behind what porn does to your brain and perceptions of the world/people/relationships is really interesting though. I’m a microbiologist by trade, so it’s interesting to me at least. I would check it out. It’s awesome to see a young person take it seriously. I think more people should look into it before making a decision to have it in/out of their relationship/marriage.
Yeah I'd say you're about 17 based on your post history. You do know you can take photos of your drinks away from your crotch right?
If that was the case they'd just hire people to clean the house for them. Why wouldn't rich couples use money to solve their minor problems?
Unpopular opinion. Your brother is right. Popular opinion, I support your bf completely as I understand his response. Unpopular opinion. There are valis societal reasons for men to behave like men. As much as women demand that men be open, it literally has the opposite effect than the one intended when we are open.
What advice are you looking for? What she does with her life is not your problem, especially since it’s been several years apparently
Given how many kids there are I would say your expectation should just be that they’re all alive when you get home from work. Anything you get on top of that is extra.
Regardless he shouldn't get a vasectomy at age 20 for a girlfriend he's had for 6 months, the fact that she has BPD is irrelevant.
tonight in the news: local man shocked that wife reads and has thoughts.
my dude, its all public info.
just because you didn't realize it doesnt mean she's invading your privacy.
stop being angry and just refuse if you don't want to do it. by which i mean, don't do things that'll just make you angry and resentful.
also, mom needs friends
Well cheers for you, but your experience is not universal and it sure doesn't apply to OP's situation.
u/barthvaader has a valid point. If it doesn't apply to you, Yay. But it does apply to this post and a vast number of other posts on this sub.
I would be scared…
I am thinking the same.. she's still hung over her ex and will run back to him at first given opportunity.
She doesn't want a PhD that bad, she said she doesn't care if she doesn't get one. It's just something hey parents want since her parents also got a phd
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These aren't exactly divorce worthy incidents and you certainly wouldn't get sole custody of the kids because he doesn't know who the fuck Ron Weasley is? I don't know who he is. Does that make me a narcissist. It seems like you are trying to find things that don't exist just because of a diagnosis. The way you handle this will determine if YOU have a relationship with your kids in the future. I'm sure you aren't exactly perfect. He's working on his issues with a therapist. Are you?
Are you and your wife planning to have children together? If so, she might be laying the groundwork to getting rid of your “old” family.
She is entering “them or me” territory.
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You're right that he's the one to decide how to handle this, but it's also right for the two of you to discuss it. It might help to do some research to see how kids their age and in your area are labelling relationships these days, because these things do shift. The older one is likely to have questions if he starts with “friend”, and that's most likely the way to go.
I’ve known him for awhile, we’ve had many conversations and I enjoy speaking to him. I think at night is best, but I know it’s platonic and harmless
red flag parade LOL
Was this a gag gift?
What about flossing and regular checks at the dentist? Those are things I'd have him incorporate into his dental routine if he hasn't already.
No they don't have the same mothers. My sister thinks Ivan's mother plays a large part in the hate but it's no way to prove that.
Better than with a rapist.
“Childhood is the kingdom where nobody dies”
I can't believe you are surprised by this
Everyone knows that even an average woman can leave the house and find 50 guys to fu*k before she even makes the letterbox. Her problem is finding one that actually gives a shit about her.
Where as 99% of guys have to actually have some sort of skills to get some play.
If this is not something you really wanted then I would call it a day on whatever is left of the relationship. Don't let her talk you into something that is only of benefit to her.
I thought about this too, even tho she swore to me that she chose me and she loves only me and that she doesn't want him in her life anymore
You sound pretty hesitant and more like you’re feeling pressured. You should propose when you’re comfortable with it. You’ll know when the time is right! And I’d recommend having a heart to heart with GF and tell her you want to wait for the reasons you’ve listed above…. All excellent and valid! You could also find a way to give GF a gentle reminder that aggressively pressuring someone to propose typically has the opposite effect!
I'd say that you should just keep tabs on yourself. Check in with yourself from time to time. One beer a night to help you relax a bit isn't a big deal. You're an adult who works hard. You're entitled to an adult beverage if you want one. It seems like you have a pretty good handle on it to me and as long as it stays that way, then I really don't see the issue.
Just because your boyfriend chooses not to drink, that shouldn't mean that you can't. I think you both need to sit down and have an adult conversation about this, where each of you expresses your wants, concerns and expectations going forward. If they don't align, then maybe it's time for both of you to move on.
She left you, you're salty and want revenge. Don't call the sky green babes, it is what it is and that's fine. I vote you report her because I do care about public safety but be prepared for the retaliation that may come with it.
She left you, you're salty and want revenge. Don't call the sky green babes, it is what it is and that's fine. I vote you report her because I do care about public safety but be prepared for the retaliation that may come with it.
You need to flush those red pills down the toilet, dude.
Women are much more likely to have fantasies that they never want to act on than men are.
Why don't you tell Jane to go buy some of those things?
She cheated lol
Why does he HAVE to be accepting of your blood? As a woman, I'm queasy of my own period blood and I would never expect my fiance to do something he didn't want to while I'm bleeding.
Sounds like a compulsive liar, which might be forgiven if she got help. However, she deliberately tried to make you feel awful and jealous. You might be able to forgive lies that don’t hurt anyone but she created lies to hurt you.
She may also be immature and much younger than what she actually say she is, because she’s acting like a very insecure, immature, and VERY YOUNG teen.
Walk away.
Sounds like he is lonely. If he likes pets you could perhaps suggest a rescue dog to keep him company.
Not that I think he is using you, but asking you to be his buddy and hang out with you doesn't fix the problem. If you had children already then he would not be asking this as you would have other things to do, so in a way it isn't respecting your current life and situation as you are living near work and an hour's drive each way would not only add a lot of cost but time that you won't get back.
Say you finished work around 6 that would be say 8pm before you could relax and then what if you wanted to do something else and didn't because Dad would be sad.
Live your life, same as he did at your age. Enjoy visiting and staying but have you own freedom and life balance as well. Encourage him to volunteer maybe somewhere and make some friends.
Don’t answer anymore of her calls unless you like being toyed with.
Honey, you're not ready to be in a relationship. You demonstrated immaturity and selfishness when you dumped your partner out if nothing but boredom. You should spend some time in therapy to learn how to be fit for a relationship, before you involve yourself with another human being. It's not right to hurt other people, so you should stay single until you're ready to be faithful.
Usually not one of the ones to immediately go to “leave him now!” but I mean my god get away from him ASAP. Especially now that he has confessed this I would be terrified to think what he may do next. Anything is preferable to staying with such a person and/or worse.
Yeah if that is what she is doing, which unfortunately it may be, then she's acting very, very poorly as a human being.
If he blacked out, how does he know?
You’re the only one who can decide if you can get over knowing he had sex with another woman last night.
I’m sorry this happened to you.
Why is he wanting to keep me in his life?
Only he can answer this for you.
And you tell him you don't want to be friends by just telling him. You can't keep him from getting hurt. It's just life. He can't give you what you need so there's no point in prolonging the inevitable.
Yeah basically I feel like he totally doesn’t trust me and I have given him zero reason not to, trying constantly to reassure him I would never hurt him. He said based on the stories I told him of being single and hooking up with people during my hoe phase makes him not trust me to be faithful. Although I have never cheated on a partner in my life
Ehh your husband sounds like an asshole. Idk I don’t trust people who don’t treat animals well. But, at the same time, you can’t force him to enjoy having a pet and dog deserves better than an owner who hates it. Do you think your husband would ever hurt the dog while you’re not around? I would be heartbroken without animals in my life, but it sounds like it may be your only real option. Maybe he would compromise on a different type of pet? Reptile? Fish? Hamster?
Therapy certainly wouldn’t hurt. Sometimes it helps to have a third person there to help you say what you mean to say.
Okay, well more reason to question whether you ought to stay in this relationship.
don’t know. hasn’t happened yet since i’m not that close with any of my male friends right now. but i don’t think i’d feel uncomfortable. at all. because his feelings and him feeling secure mean way more to me than those little physical touch moments i could share with my friend.
We have argued a few times since moving in, but we have always gotten over them quickly. I’d rather not go into what it was about, just that we moved past it. (It wasn’t cheating or anything like that)
Your goal isn’t to avoid a big fight. He’s sounds unreasonable.
The first question that seems unanswered is why he feels that is fair? (You don’t have to agree but he needs to present a reasonable explanation) so you can understand the issue that concerns him.
You can’t solve a problem without understanding the causes.
If you love her how she looks anyway, then you wouldn't feel the need to ask such a question of her.
If she comes up about her weight on her own terms, you can give that a positive reinforcement by suggesting to support her like going to the gym together, or making different meals together.
I understand where you’re coming from but I would appreciate it if you don’t comment on what I know.
I don’t know OP or his wife, I don’t know if there’s missing info or what’s happening from the wife’s perspective. Therefore I don’t know that’s not the issue. If you’re correct about OP’s motivations and all he wants is for her to admit that she’s lying, then yes, my comment is not how he should go about the convo. But what little I’ve read of his post and comments sounds like he’s concerned because it sounds like she believes she’s not letting the kid win. He could be lying and he’s not concerned at all. She could be lying. The kid could be lying (lol jk). The fact is, we comment based on what little information we have based on one perspective.
To that end, my comment is simple. If OP is concerned about her health, mental or physical, he can go ahead and use my suggestions if he feels like if. If he’s not, ignore my comment.
But either way please do not put words in my mouth. Not everyone on Reddit is a troll and some of us are just giving our opinions based on our understanding of what little information we have, not trying to be malicious.
you're so right. He should work on his self isolation and depression before being in a relationship.
Some muthaf***ers always trying to ice-skate uphill.
He hit on her. The fact she didn’t sleep with him is because she’s not a complete dick, but he still hit on her.
Thanks for this! For a moment I thought I was being a real bad person just because I have feelings..
One thing is we haven't had sex in close to 3 weeks maybe even 4. It's not a priority to me or him at the moment.
But to the first paragraph maybe I do romanticise it? Our good times are simple. Enjoying a movie, going for drives, we rarely get much time together, his a chef and I work full time when he gets his days off. Recently I have felt more self concious around him, I'm struggling a lot and just don't feel pretty
Maybe it's not right, but how do I even bring it up??? How can I even start that conversation? Should I give him like one more month with a warning?? There is just so much new stuff going on in both of our lives, idk if it's all from that you??? Should I give it time to play out?
I think “manipulative” and “deliberately hidden” are quite extreme ways to describe the situation. Closeted people aren’t maliciously lying, they are closeted.
Or maybe when OP tries to propose with the ring he had in his night stand the gf gets up out of bed without a word, grabs $10 from her night stand and leaves!
Yh I support her it's just my jealous insecure mind thinking it's a guy that's gonna be doing it
Haha I get that. It is difficult but I want to try, I'm going to talk to her. I think I'll bring this up with my mom too. I'm really looking forward to hanging out with her. Thank you!
Lets get this straight: she cheats right at the start of this twelve week relationship and promises to do something that shows she is serious about wanting a relationship with you.
It then turns out that she breaks that straight away by having a few drinks, and now because SHE decides how soon you should be trusting her again, she tells you she is no longer going to do the very thing that was meant to make you trust her again!
Supposedly the whole giving up drinking thing was about more than you too – she didnt like herself when she drank! This was meant to be about her turning over a new leaf.
Are these red flags? Hell, Yes. You've known her twelve weeks. Get out of this now. This a train wreck.
No. You always have to set the record straight at the job. Never take the fall for anyone.
So the only reason they divorced is because of his disloyalty? How can you expect a man to be loyal to you when this is what happened? Of course he will confide in her, especially if he only left because she made him due to his actions.
Girl you are too old for this shit and way to young to put up with this shit at the same time! You deserve better a man that will protect your reputation and not fight and speak ill of you behind your back.
That being said I also understand that dating at this age is different and lots of people are divorced with kids, but that doesn’t mean they have to make you feel this way. What is the point of staying?
Never fixate on the problem, always search for a solution. If one can’t be found, remove yourself!
Best of luck op, you do deserve better!
Next time he demands it.. Pull out a huge dildo and a camera. Tell him that if he truly loves you that he will let you fuck him with it while taking pictures. See how he reacts to that.
Yeah I see your point. And yes I am probably to blame as well, I am probably doing my fair share of ”picking”. It’s always the start of the cycle. I kind of do it in order to start a fight sometimes because there is a build up of resentment or something I don’t know.
Anyway I want to work on my actions and I want to stop doing that, in order to do that I need to first understand completely what is happening and why, and that is why I am writing on reddit. I need to grasp the situation as a whole.
I am ready to work to be better, definetely, given that it is the right thing to do. I have a hard time telling what is ”okay” or not, and if he is surpassing that line totally unprovoced obviously I shoudn’t even think about going down the road of trying to improve and work on my behaviours. So that’s why I am writing.. very thankful for your input anyway.
I don’t want my partner to be a dumpster for emotional dumping. I think I need to sit down and think about what I want in a relationship, if it’s possible to achieve with this one and if so how. And if it’s not possible, then move on.
No worries, women your age have absolutely no interest in dating you either.
So, it's your opinion that Sami has no autonomy? That she has no say in whether she stays with her husband? Based on the story so far, can you imagine anyone, be it a professional counselor or just a good friend, who would advise Sami to stay with a husband who regularly cheated on her? I think the advice would be uniformly for her to get out.
Take the accident out of the equation. Imagine Mark is perfectly healthy. All indications are that Sami would have left already. So, the desire on Sami's part to leave is real. And I am willing to bet, that had healthy Tom made any kind of offer to keep Sami in the marriage with an open marriage, she would have ignored it on her way to file divorce papers. In other words, Sami's not tied to the marriage by children, manipulation or by some forcible threat by Tom to stay. Her staying, under any circumstance is her choice. She is choosing not to divorce Tom. That's 100% on her. It's not manipulation, like you claim it is. She is fully aware of what Tom has done and is doing, does not accept or condone it, yet she agrees to stay. And in other conditions, she would have left. Her decision to stay is clearly due to Sami's own personal morals and pathos for Tom.
If Sami would have wanted to stay, under any condition, i.e., a healthy Tom, then I would agree that there may have been some manipulation to change her outlook on Tom's cheating that OP may not be aware of (or describing here). If Sami was suddenly “Oh but Tom is reformed now” and publicly rug sweeping his continued affairs, then that would clearly be manipulation of the worst kind. But that is completely absent here. This is just bad decision making on Sami's part, despite having the best of intentions. 2 different things.
In the exact same way, she is choosing to take on some form of “open marriage”. How would this be any requirement for her to stay and care for Tom? She could just as easily say “no” to the open marriage, stay until Tom is on his feet and then leave. What would saying “no” change? She knows Tom is already a cheater, and unrepentant about it. Nowhere in that care-giving is it required that she open the relationship. That is entirely on Sami and it is entirely a separate issue from her decision to continue with Tom's care. That is a decision which reflects entirely on her, as she can just as easily refuse to accept that (as an apparently innately monogamous person). Sami stopped being a victim of her husband's infidelity when she decided to stay, and is now entering into infidelity herself, consciously and willingly. She is lowering herself to Tom's level.
OP's husband seems very aware of this situation and his decision seems like it is based on watching his wife's friend make one bad (but somewhat justifiable) decision and compounding it by making an even worse decision.
Bad decision-making can be contagious and I don't blame OP's husband for wanting to be as far as possible from the shitshow Sami has made of her life. OP's husband was fine with Sami's friendship until she acted to open her relationship. That's hardly controlling behavior. It's more like self-preservation.
I think you asked the wrong question. I think the better question would be: Would OP be OK with Sami's friendship had she always been in open relationships? If so, would her husband still have married her if she insisted on keeping Sami as a friend?
Let them take the wheel and drive during it. Don't be the first to go for her friend. Let them play with each other if they want and then just lay back and let them come to you.
And MAKE SURE you spend equal if not even more attention on your wife than the other woman.
OP is lying to herself or being seriously manipulated.
Ask her Dr. if there is a medically safe way for this to happen, like a sleeping medication. Knocking someone out in the movies is a short term, wake up with a headache kind of thing. In real life there are way more consequences. I would also be unable to physically hurt the one I love.
Pain killers and sleeping medications work, but they don’t stop the side effects from ingesting the food itself. Yes, she’s asking for a punch in the head
I understand your concern (and as I said before, I agree that self advocacy during sex is an important skill to learn for anyone). I don’t agree that now (immediately after OP has experienced assault) is the time to encourage her to develop these skills, especially since her post makes clear she is questioning her own culpability in this situation.
I think we should focus instead on reassuring her that this was not her fault in any way. You’re implying that OP could have avoided this situation by being more clear, that her offender was just “thick in the head,” and that this was just a “misunderstanding.” I don’t agree. Again, this man ignored her attempts to set boundaries and took her silence as permission. Yes he might be dumb and inconsiderate, but he also crossed the line into assault, and that’s the primary point here.
I understand you’re coming from a good place and trying to equip OP (and others who might be reading) with tools to protect themselves. I think it’s important to have these conversations. But I also think context is important, as are the words we choose to use when speaking to a survivor of SA, and that’s what I’m encouraging you to take a look at in your comment.
I thought the same thing for a lot of the same reasons you did. Also, how come this is the first time Sadie ever mentioned Jess as a separate person from Jake? According to the story, brunch wasn't the first time OP met Sadie. I find it very hard to believe that “Jess” wouldn't have come up in conversation or at least been mentioned any other time OP interacted with Jake and Sadie.
That, in addition to all the points you raised, have my Fake Story senses tingling. This is just a fairly well written anti-trans bait post.
The love he has for isn't going to change the fact that he's not ready to settle down yet and wants to explore a little more. If you somehow convince him to stay with you, he'll probably feel resentful and continue to do these things.
You feel a way. And he also feels a way. And his feelings matter. You have to let him go live his life. Maybe he'll fall on his face or fall in love or miss you terribly. Anything could happen.
You're also too young to be wasting time trying to force this relationship to work. You might find yourself relieved to not have to fix every problem that pops up. You might fall in love with someone that wants you and only you.
Break ups are hard. You will miss him. You will cry. But you're crying anyway. You're both miserable not getting what you want. So just work towards letting him go and finding peace for yourself.
He is allowed to be disappointed that I don't want to have sex for a second time in one night (highlighting second here because it's not like I'm withholding sex from him), but what's not okay is that me saying “no I don't want sex” is resulting in a 15 minute conversation where he's expressing nervousness that we are headed toward a dead bedroom.
Yeah thats true i think im definitely way more fucked up in the head than she is