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Keti, 25 y.o.
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Date: October 7, 2022
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This man is toxic AF. Run away.
About being wife material: it’s a concept invented and used by sexist men.
If you ever wanna be ready for marriage: Keep being yourself, empower yourself, know yourself and find a man you love and respect, who loves and respect you. Learn to compromise without loosing yourself. And buckle up cuz it ain’t easy.
Yes absolutely talk about boundaries. Once a week is a lot actually. Do you have to adjust your plans with her, because of their plans together? Yes you are early in relationshop, but what you need to do is tell her that you don't want to isolate her from friends. With that said you are uncomfortable if she is acting like he is her boyfriend. In general the kind of behaviour she would not be ok with you doing with other women she needs to stop doing with him. I think it's a fair approach to boundaries, there can't be exceptions.
All abusers “can truly be lovely” at times. It doesn't make them keepers.
You date to fund out if someone is a good match or not. He's not! He's a pouting, punishing, punitive child.
This kind of guy, who is punishing and giv3s the silent treatment and pouts is the mind who eventually becomes abusive.
He's already doing that by gaslighting you.
He's tired of you. You're tired of how he's behaving.
It's time to move on!
I'll say something that isn't popular to say, but I think it's true for women anyway: Once we start having sex with someone, we get flooded with oxytocin, which is the bonding hormone.
So our instinct tells us thar we must really love them. It's a deep, biological instinct.
Sex has that deep affect on us. I don't observe that to be as true with many men (But I'm not a man so I don't actually know).
It's hard to separate that hormonal bond from hard logic but you have to for your own mental health:
He is not a keeper. He's a jerk. He's abusive and mean to you. You have strong feelings because sex, oxytocin, bonding, and he can be lovely when he wants sex.
Ted Bundy's wife said he was lovely most of the time, too, but who wants to be married to Ted Bundy? Ok that was facetious to make the point.
You found out he's not a match. It's time to say bye bye and move on!
Pretty often, these guys use dating apps for a sex life but they don't want a long term commitment so they start to act out when you start acting like you expect commited behavior.
Blech!
Aghhh thank you so much! Sometimes I’m just bad with expressing how things are and how I feel, but I’m doing my best to work on it!! Thank you!!!