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Date: December 29, 2022
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He’s either extremely immature and Incapable of realizing how that joke might make a woman feel, or he knows it’s bad and doesn’t care…either one is a pretty big problem
Youre going around in circles. Either you want to date him or you dont. Hes practically a child. What he is doing doesn't matter if you think it's gross or not, your actions do. Lots of kids have crushes on older people. He isnt stopping because you are feeding into it.
she did say it was an empty diaper, balled up to appear full. no potential for shit contamination, lol
Very succinct appraisal.
If she reacts that way to such a simple comment, imagine what she does to things that are even more meaningful. Sounds exhausting.
Dropping your resentment toward your boyfriend is not the correct problem. Your boyfriend is not being a good boyfriend, he's minimizing your feelings, he has shown you that he doesn't care as much as you care. It's a new year, celebrate by finding someone who treats you better than this bare minimum lack of effort.
Yeah, but I'll wear a hoodie. How often do you go around wearing your girlfriends bra?
U don’t , that’s girlspeak for I’m not interested
You don't make other people better. They get better if they want to and if they apply effort. And sure as hell you don't make other people better by being better yourself, the two hardly correlate at all.
How do you get him not to talk to you like that? You don't accept him talking to you like that, and if he continues, then you either exit the relationship or stay in it and take the abuse from him.
15 years ago! This poor guy needs to get out.
She's not going to suffer at all, believe me! She really doesn't care about you or she wouldn't treat you like she does. I've been in your situation & it won't get any better, the fact that you stayed after the second time she cheated just made her realise that she can do anything she wants, treat you anyway she likes & you'll take it. You, basically, gave her permission to treat you like garbage & disrespect you.
I think she needs to compromise here. I go to bed early. My wife is a night owl. It’s only an issue if she wakes me up, or she stays up way too late and misses plans the next day. If she misses cuddling you can you cuddle without tying it to sleep?
you walked into the dumbest thing you could’ve done
I had a boyfriend like this when I was in my early 20's. The best thing I did was leave. Years later I met my husband, who was the very opposite.
I ran into that ex-boyfriend and reminded myself how grateful I was that I didn't stay. Please leave. You are in an abusive relationship.
Wow, why did you do that
good gods. There's no level of “this is appropriate” for going to your fiance's mother to try to get his bf excluded. How are you waltzing past that part to pick up a single word?
The “And his mom looked at me like I slapped her, and then the whole family got upset” part is where you know she's crossed every reasonable boundary, and upset the mother. At a family gathering. I don't get along well with mother, but if you hurt her feelings and piss her off at a family gathering, you'd better damn well believe you're done with us. OP was in a bad situation, but she actively made it worse. What manner of reasonable request do you think she threw out there that would have gotten an instant everyone hates you response?
A smart person would have said, “I can't fit in here, this is toxic to me” and gotten out. A person that's not that clever would stick it out trying to pretend everything's ok. But you have to be a special level of ignorant to go to the mother, knowing that this person is valuable to the entire family, and make any kind of request for any level of exclusion of this person.
I dunno how many different ways I can state that this situation sucks all the way around, but OP actively made it worse. “Is what I did that bad” is the question I'm answering here. Yes, it's that bad. It's awful. It's not something you come back from, either. The relationship is not salvageable, it never was.
Because you’re going to fall and scream for help? Get one of those buttons and wear it around your neck. At 30 years old.
You’re assuming that they haven’t been put into dated pill containers so the woman doesn’t lose track – some have days of the week on but not all
If they are in deny, in it is a fact the only way to keep the discution factual. No witness testimony will do.
Now, I understand that you don't want your SO to show you your misbehavior. But here I am talking in account of OP, not the lascivious duo.
Not gonna even leave advice cause OP won’t leave her husband even after how many years of cheating.
The bar is in satans ballsack
Either she can't or she won't respect your boundaries, neither is acceptable. It's good that it's such a small issue, because you can learn this about her without there really being a problem.
I suggest telling her that you are concerned that she is unable to respect your boundaries, be what they are, and that it worries you because you don't know what other things that are important to you she will ignore.
It's getting on you from some where.
Not sure what you're asking. Sounds like the two of you are on the same page.
lol
Do any of them have girlfriends that are your “type”?
Well played Sir
Sometimes I’m really happy I’m 36.. I appreciate that probably sounds really condescending and apologise for that – but these issues really do go away with age.
She wants your bf. It’s crystal clear. Both of you just cut contact and the problem is gone.
Gonna be super awkward, but I will have to do that! Thanks so much sharing guys, I appreciate it.
Your husband does enough drugs to, according to him, not know he was kissing his sister?
And a child is on the way?
I feel for this child.
Don’t worry it’s another fake post.
Nope. Reframe the relationships within any anecdotal context to something more wholesome, such as just dating, etc.
Leave it there, have no shame, but don't feel the need to disclose every single little thing like this.
Its a very problematic “boundary”
Don't stay in a relationship you don't want to be in for a kid you care about. You'll set him up for more disappointment and pain when it blows up further down the line.
Did he mess up? Did you have any conversations about being exclusive? Maybe he doesn’t want to play games with someone who expects exclusivity without discussing it previously
This sounds like petty high school behavior
I have 3 homies going wayy back, if I go with a girl it will be to date her, don’t need girl as a friend, already tried that with her friend, who’s red flags that surfaced I could not tolerate
3 children, preteen and 2 preschoolers/toddlers
Not racist. It's just personal choice. Too many people call others racist, and now it's totally lost meaning and stigma. Time for a new friend.
Did he show you want comfort while you were crying? Was she crying longer than you and that's when he started hugging her?
They dated for 5 years before getting married. That’s not quick at all, OP. They just knew what they wanted. You need to move on, and probably talk to a therapist.
This is exactly why 18 year olds shouldn’t get married. What a stupid argument.
i had this surgery couple of years ago, i recommend it 100%. it sucks to wait for sex after the surgery but it was worth 100%. i cant believe he dont want to do it. befor the surgery i pretty much lost all interest in sex cuz there was a 80% chance i rip myself open.
and i didn't lose any feeling in my penis, so there is no worries at all. if anything the worst part was the needle for numbing my penis. that was really painful.
I’ll be able to move out in about 3 months, I should also clarify I don’t just live with him, it’s a big group of people
and this might make her mad at him. Boyfriend and I started dating in 7th grade and we were veryyyy on an off through school!
Look… most kids your age grow apart over time. If you've been on/off…. why exactly do you need to hide this “break”?
You and him should sit down and talk about what this “break” is realistically going to add to your relationship. For most people, you're either together, or you're broken up….
He asked for a break because he feels that he’s still a boy and I’m already starting to think like an adult, with adult dreams and goals and he’s not ready for that-
So you're growing apart, but instead of ending it and moving on, you're falling for the sunk cost fallacy and are afraid of the unknown.
What is “normal”? Your normal seems to be her accusing you of stuff. Is that something to go back to?
what state is this in? just curious