It’s honestly sounds like he’s both an idiot and a complete AH.
OP, from the outside looking in, it’s obvious to other people that the man you’re dating has a bad attitude and is also dumber than a tube of toothpaste. The first part (the attitude) will make it very difficult for you to teach, educate and guide him the way he needs (because of how hard thinking is for him). Please for your own sake break up with him and find someone else. Start over.
No but seriously, the fact that he’d do something to jeopardize your health and then brush your concerns off and not take it seriously is waayyy fucked up. You deserve better. Everyone deserves better than that, really.
I agree that he being completely out of touch with how to function as an adult is a huge problem, the biggest problem here. The problem I see is that no relationship should exist where you just don't respect your partner and badmouth him to everybody even to him. If something your bf do so regularly enrages you to this point, just end it. He clearly won't change.
I do trust her completely i just don’t trust other woman due to past trauma, I posted this just so i can destroy my anxiety i have been having for her friends I understand the marriage part, its not something as in this year, more of a nearing decade thing.
Not even a month in and he's making cruel “jokes” sbout your deceased boyfriend, pushing you to show affection, playing mind games and being hot and cold. This is a giant reg flag. Fuck this guy. I'd have left the minute he made the comment about the guy dying.
Its only going to get worse once he sees youre putting up with it.
Are you two still into polyamory? Because that could definitely leading to feelings of disrespect.
True but American
I would like to hear the story, as long as it’s not too emotionally taxing for you.
Either way though, I wish you only the best and hope you’ve found your peace.
It’s honestly sounds like he’s both an idiot and a complete AH.
OP, from the outside looking in, it’s obvious to other people that the man you’re dating has a bad attitude and is also dumber than a tube of toothpaste. The first part (the attitude) will make it very difficult for you to teach, educate and guide him the way he needs (because of how hard thinking is for him). Please for your own sake break up with him and find someone else. Start over.
No but seriously, the fact that he’d do something to jeopardize your health and then brush your concerns off and not take it seriously is waayyy fucked up. You deserve better. Everyone deserves better than that, really.
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I agree that he being completely out of touch with how to function as an adult is a huge problem, the biggest problem here. The problem I see is that no relationship should exist where you just don't respect your partner and badmouth him to everybody even to him. If something your bf do so regularly enrages you to this point, just end it. He clearly won't change.
I do trust her completely i just don’t trust other woman due to past trauma, I posted this just so i can destroy my anxiety i have been having for her friends I understand the marriage part, its not something as in this year, more of a nearing decade thing.
Not even a month in and he's making cruel “jokes” sbout your deceased boyfriend, pushing you to show affection, playing mind games and being hot and cold. This is a giant reg flag. Fuck this guy. I'd have left the minute he made the comment about the guy dying.
Its only going to get worse once he sees youre putting up with it.
I love your editing your comments after you post them.