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He probably IS trying to figure out if he wants to leave/have freedom to date. The reason it's hard for him and not an easy decision is that he probably loves you a great deal, and loves a lot of what you have together.
You CAN truly love someone and STILL have desires that involve not being with that person. If he didn't love you, he'd have no problem following his desire for freedom to date. Take his struggle to figure out his wants as a sign that yes, he does love you.
He loves you and ALSO wants this other thing he couldn't get while being with you. He doesn't know what info he'll need to decide what is actually best for his wellbeing. He's trying, but it's hard, and that's why you're getting mixed signals – he has conflicting desires inside him.
If you can think back to a time where you had conflicting wants (maybe “I want to go to BOTH schools, how do I choose?” Or something similar) then perhaps it will help you empathize/understand a bit better, even though I understand the contexts and emotional involvement is vastly different.
I think it's smart for you to focus on the things you CAN control: where you'll move (I think it's smart and a good choice to follow a great opportunity to a new place), how you conduct yourself with your BF regardless of what he ends up choosing, etc.
You can't control how your BF feels, and you're not the right person to help him process if he wants to stay with you (suggest he find a therapist/counselor – maybe a close friend?) – because he needs to be able to discuss this issue with someone who doesn't have strong emotions tied to the outcome.
So, I would advise that you do you the best you can: prep for your move, and prep for the possibility that your BF may leave. Also prep for the idea he may go with you. And yes, he may go with you and then break up with you while overseas.
It's an uncomfortable and unpleasant situation to be in, to have another person feeling “in control” of how things will end up, and putting you in the position of “waiting” to see if he decides to stick around. That sucks, it really does.
Hold onto the fact that his love for you is genuine, despite his feeling conflicting desires, and that if he does decide to leave, it isn't because you “weren't enough” or that there is something wrong with you. Sometimes shit just doesn't work out. Really. It's nicer when we can assign concrete and tangible reasons for things, but sometimes the answer is more wishy-washy and feelings-y, and less logical.
Best of luck. Lots of hugs.
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Where are you where 19 is a minor?
This. You can have slightly different views. Or different political leanings. If it's slight. But these are massive differences in morals and personality