I was ghosted by my boyfriend who fell in love with someone else and instead of being a brave responsible person he decided that he was going to ghost me so I could be the one to end the relationship. At that moment I obviously didn’t know any of that so I was left thinking that I was missing something. Like, I couldn’t understand what happened.
A year after that I demanded an explanation and I got it. He didn’t ask for forgiveness. And I realized he was really dumb. So I moved on.
And 7 years AFTER that he messaged me asking for forgiveness. But the forgiveness wasn’t for me. It was for him. His pleading was full of how he was a bad person, how he couldn’t forgive himself, how he was a coward. He even wrote “you probably have someone who cares about you”. He never did.
So yeah, OP, you don’t need to tell him anything. This was and never was for you. When someone truly cares about someone they explain things at the moment. They are brave enough to explain and do the responsible thing and end things and face their consequences. He’s coming 5 years later because it bothers him how crappy he was. But not because of how he made you feel.
I get sexual pleasure from cleaning my fucking ear.
Please shut up.
I was ghosted by my boyfriend who fell in love with someone else and instead of being a brave responsible person he decided that he was going to ghost me so I could be the one to end the relationship. At that moment I obviously didn’t know any of that so I was left thinking that I was missing something. Like, I couldn’t understand what happened.
A year after that I demanded an explanation and I got it. He didn’t ask for forgiveness. And I realized he was really dumb. So I moved on.
And 7 years AFTER that he messaged me asking for forgiveness. But the forgiveness wasn’t for me. It was for him. His pleading was full of how he was a bad person, how he couldn’t forgive himself, how he was a coward. He even wrote “you probably have someone who cares about you”. He never did.
So yeah, OP, you don’t need to tell him anything. This was and never was for you. When someone truly cares about someone they explain things at the moment. They are brave enough to explain and do the responsible thing and end things and face their consequences. He’s coming 5 years later because it bothers him how crappy he was. But not because of how he made you feel.
I meant that the ziplocks were loose in the drawer. Aka not intentionally organized.
This whole post is a disaster
First, why would you need to tell him at all? Second, why are you dating a coworker? Thirdly, why would you tell him?
What is wrong with you