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I’ll crawl into your mind and make your fantasies real , ♥ Play with my pussy and make me scream!!! @G1: take my panty off and spank my ass. @G2:hard spanks 7times [GOAL MET]
Date: October 8, 2022
I’ll crawl into your mind and make your fantasies real , ♥ Play with my pussy and make me scream!!! @G1: take my panty off and spank my ass. @G2:hard spanks 7times [GOAL MET]
I would if I could, the situation in my country with the house market doesn’t allow me to. I would need to pay 75% of my salary per month if I would move in alone. All my friends already live with their SO together so I could not really rent a place with my friends either.
It's not creepy at all. Ignore the people talking shit to you. If you're not comfortable with her sexual past, that's fine. Yes, it's her past and she can do what she wants, but everybody's allowed to have their own boundaries and standards. You're allowed to be uncomfortable with it.
Talk to her about it. You didn't snoop; she showed it on her phone and probably assumes you didn't see it. Ask her about it and go from there.
Despite what you might hear from people on here, not everybody is cool with their partners having a wild past.
People can be assholes. It doesn't necessarily mean you're doing anything wrong
While i dont have wet dreams….hasn't happened for over 20 years ….i will get hard in the middle of the night…and the wife will just spoon me with her back to me….and I will wake up inside of her…it takes a few moments to understand what's going on….but it's amazing
You have told him. He has to be in a mental place to be able to understand it. YOU have a limited ability to get him to comprehend this. Back to the window analogy…. You both look out the window, you see white clouds and blue sky…. He sees dark skies and storms. His condition distorts what he sees. He’s only going to be able to change this with professional help.
Another thing I find a bit odd is that if someone called me as a result of having the wrong number, I would have been more inquisitive as to where or how they thought they knew me purely for my own entertainment.
Why does it matter what you would do? She is not you.
Shit, I have pretty much all that without the drinking.
Thank you, I will try my best to be there for her and to help her out if she needs anything 🙂
As someone who also was raped and had a lot of trouble with sex, you need to focus on yourself and not him. He wants to have meaningless sex then he can do that as a single man. If you are going to date anyone you need to be dating someone who puts you first in every situation, not someone who is actively cheating on you and using your rape as an excuse to do so. I dont even understand what this guy is thinking. I know it probably feels like you need him but really consider my advice and think about yourself for once. This isn’t his life it’s yours and you are the only one who really matters in it. You dont need some dildo on the sidelines throwing stones at your progress. Focus on yourself and get better so you can make love to those who deserve it. I can tell you right now this guy DOES NOT deserve to be the person you sleep with when you’re finally ready. A true deserving man would be by your side through this, not sticking his slime dog in other women.
Very good point! I hope to meet them this week sometime. I’m not sure if I should out right ask you invite them with us to hang or just see if it naturally happens at the bar they both started frequenting.
Speaking from experience, these people that have commented are exactly right. When you get a splinter do you leave it in bc it’s momentarily more comfortable to do so or do you take it out? Remove the splinter, you’ll be much happier in your life brother. Take care of your happiness and well being and everything else will fall into place.
Why have you let it get to this stage without discussing joint finances?
To be honest, your wife has no incentive to start being responsible because you are her buffer.
Even if you purchase the house on your own without her on the deeds, she’s still living there for free, able to spend as she wants, because you married her.
And if you divorce it will be part of the divorce settlement.
Not sure how you’re going to turn this round.
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Yeah? Happy to answer any questions ?
Do as she asks. Grow as a person. Focus on friends and family. Crush your career. Work on being a better you. Also don’t get trapped later down the road if she comes back. You owe it to yourself to experience other relationships and grow as an individual
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You don’t have to wait a month for one missed pill. If she took the pill when she remembered it’s typically 2 days, 7 days if she missed it entirely. Ask the name of the med and look up the pamphlet to find for sure. However my guess is she’s not ready and that’s why she’s saying a month. Talk to her.
he's clearly using you, please love yourself
She shouldn’t be taking it every night, body will build up a tolerance to it. If she insists then suggest to her to get the pill pack ones so she has to pop out one pill at a time.
Ask her if she ever had an orgy with that group.. after all they all have seen each other naked I think the answer is probably yes.. not sure if she will admit it though
You have no appreciation lmao he literally gave you this land at a reduced price and your being stingy over 1k. I bet he regrets being nice to you
That’s actually more normal than most women probably want to learn. When guys say things like I’m so sorry what can I do, they are quite insincere and probably just want to comfort you in bed. The fact that he isn’t faking it is probably more a good sign.
Don't.
my have ment to say “op is exhausted” instead of exhausting.
So what do I do to help it? I keep trying to explain my side but he just denies it over and over, refusing to give me any credit.
?% agree.
You’re right, thanks.
Tell him if he’s prefer you can divorce him and take half of everything now and for the rest of your life you’ll take your higher wages for your kids.
non-penetrarive
Did you not read the story? she would not say this was non-penetrative and thats my point. Its not the Truth of the situation we are discussing and false rape allegations do sometimes get convictions.
We dont know if she would say it was non-violent. We dont know what story she would tell. That she is willing to accuse her partner (even in privacy) of rape is the fucking point. She cant be trusted and he needs to run.
I don't know how much of a turn-off it is, but I don't see why it's a problem. You're looking for sexual compatibility, right? Well, part of sexual compatibility, in your case, is sharing this attitude that you only want to have sex with people you're in a serious relationship with. You now have a very efficient way of making sure you get that. Where's the problem? =)
He’s gay sweetie. You are beautiful as you are. Never change to “make” someone else desire you. You deserve SO much better ❤️
It would be pretty aggressive for him to leave. Like he says, he’s just following what she’s told him. Too, just because you see physical space in the photos doesn’t mean she didn’t have to adhere to a headcount. Whatever the “truth” is, your bf isn’t the person for you to be angry with.
I'd just appreciate the message and say that you are better mentally now and she will be welcomed when shewants to visit / decides to meet.
I'd leave it open and in her hands to set everything and take the initiative
Tbh, I think she's projecting. In fact, she needed the time and she was the one who needed to sort her mind. If you two are really friends, in your place, I'd give her – for now- the benefit of the doubt and see what she will do.
Look at it this way – you're clearly not compatible, and if you've been making her feel bad since your THIRD DATE then idk why she'd want to stay with you, either.
Like no cap sometimes people can overcome a lot as a couple, but there's zero upside to staying together at this point if you feel unheard and she's unhappy.
And then she calls you out bc she already knows or “believes” she is objectively less attractive and now you’re a lying PoS
Not comparability issues as much as she doesn’t value you and your time in the way you need to feel happy/loved. Always good to recognize this at 3 months and not 3 years.
That's because everybody else figured out that you are untrustworthy, so they don't want to be around you.
Wonder who owns the other 90% then
The moment that she went to stay with another guy after I'd taken her out on a date would have been the end of it for me. Complete lack of respect.
You're a doormat, mate. End the engagement and relationship for you own peace of mind. Find someone who loves you for you.
Is there a question here? If you are just seeking validation, I agree with your decision. She proved to be sneaky. What else might she be sneaky about?
Remember when clown suit people were causing issues a few years back. Could you call the police and say it’s happening again and someone is harassing guests at your wedding and have the asshole arrested?
I think I should break up and focus on myself
You're already at the right answer OP. Don't doubt yourself now
Is she on drugs? The need for money and the unstable personality could account for that. Another possibility is her mental health is bad. Looking after 3 kids with a partner in prison will do that. She could also be angry at you for putting yourself in the position of going to prison or all 3? Who knows? You need to talk to her.
The only thing I could advise is that you tell your wife in the event of a divorce, she will have to take care of herself and her bills anyway, so should learn now rather than later. And she should also learn to take care of her marriage as well. But if she does not know that at 28, she may never learn it.
If you are looking tor sonething serious, then this will never be so. Look for someone else, there is no future with her.
Yes. Breakup with her
She literally says it in the post. Again, those reading comp skills could use some work. Good luck!
So your wife approached her friend first before discussing with you? Sounds like she began an emotional affair and is using this threesome as a context to finish the deed. You seem to be the third wheel in your own threesome. You want to gauge her true intentions? Tell her you want to cancel and watch her and friend react with anger.
You gotta get out of there. He wants to fuck another guy. The trust is gone.
The reason for the miscarriage? Who knows, if you could find out that would be fantastic. It stopped growing despite doing everything right and spending 2 months getting ready to welcome a very much-wanted baby into the world.
There will be change only if he wants it. Right now he is telling you clearly that you are not a priority, and change is not on his radar. If he is not in treatment for addiction, he will continue to exhibit addictive behavior. This is a serious illness, and the power to fight it or wallow in it is entirely in his hands. I suggest you set boundaries for yourself and stick with them. If he does not seek help, you will not continue in the relationship. You are not happy, you do not feel emotionally safe or cared-for, and that is the bare-bones requirement for intimacy. Without intimacy you do not have a relationship. Decide for yourself what your life will look like, and make appropriate adjustments. Do not expect him to change on his own. He will need to decide to find help, find it, and keep seeking it. If you don't see that happening, get yourself out.
How am I supposed to have any real intimacy with somebody if I have to hide my true feelings? I want to be accepted for who I really am. I dont want to go through life lying to people and hiding things. Id rather die alone.
My mom always told us, her home, her rules. If you want to be able to do what you want, then move out.
Usually posts like this make me angry but this one just made me sad. You’re in love with someone who doesn’t respect you. Oh he doesn’t work because he takes care of the kids…that’s lovely but the reason why you’re he’s now at home and your finances are ruined stems from the fact that he fucked someone and left you while you were late in your pregnancy. And he ONLY came back because the other woman was no longer an option.
He didn’t come back because he loved you. He came back because he knew YOU loved HIM, and that you would obviously take him back.
One is honestly worse than the other, and it isn't the snooper. She has a bigger plate of issues if she's lying about that.
Now the question is, why?
Projection. He feels bad about himself and takes it out on you. Maybe therapy would help. It depends on how long you are willing to put with it. GL and keep up the positive life changes!
How is this fair to me?
? What way would you like for us to respond to this? You are being scammed and you keep sending money. Describing the situation as 'fair' or 'unfair' isn't really a description that fits here. Gullible? Yes. Purchasing attention? Yes. Is she going to stay with you when you stop sending her money? No.
Get over it.
Get over it.
Helped Thanks for the advice, we’ve been having an issue with communicating honestly with out either one of us getting defensive, and shutting down the conversation. I’ll try to get more specific answers from her
He’s definitely got some side chicks. No way he’s going without sex..
You'll have to explore this together and see what works for you.
Let it go and stay no contact. She has friends and family that she can reach out to for help. If people make the connection to you about the comic, just say you don't know and you don't talk to her anymore. Dismiss it and move on as it's just a call for attention again and not in a healthy way.
All these comments are wild. I think you may be looking for something to be mad about it. If I’m with my friends I try to not be on my phone as much , so that could be why she wasn’t texting as much. Relationships should be built on trust.
Yeah and who is letting their friends go off with complete strangers? I’m married but I would’ve followed my friends there because I don’t want them to potentially get murdered or SAd.