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BRing her by her parents to tell it so they can be her support.
If she threatens to harm herself or create a scene, don't handle it, call police for a wellness check. Always projectiling vomitting and screaming isn't a normal reaction to stress and probably indicative to something more that you're not aware of. If's shes that well at her job to handle managment, that means she's shown some level of being able to handle a stressful role.
If you honestly feel she is spiteful and will become combative and destroy stuff? Yeah, that's a no go. She's a danger to herself and others and that violent tendancy may help navigate from that 30 day. Is that thirty day law or just a courtesy you want to give?
ANyone threatening my stuff for spite don't get courtesy.
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It’s not common, but it’s not the first time, second time, or 5th time this has happened. He’s yelled at me in front the children before and I’ve expressed to him a few times now that I don’t want to be those parents that yell at each other in front of our kids. However, our daughter is getting older now and when she said she was scared that’s when I crossed a line. I have been very empathetic leading up to today, taking on all household responsibilities while doing finals in school.
He said it has been arranged now and he's not changing it. I suggested a video call aswell but I didn't really get an answer to that.
As someone trying not to drink, you’ve got a lot of parties and events that will come up where alcohol will be available.
You are the one who had an embarrassing issue with alcohol. You are going to have to accept that others are not responsible for why you can’t drink. You cannot expect everyone around you to stop drinking because you can’t.
This is fairly recent for you so it’s also understandable that you may not be ready to be at events where there will be alcohol. If that’s the case, you shouldn’t go. There will eventually come a time where this won’t be triggering, but now may not be that time. That’s ok!
You should be proud of your sobriety! At the same time, it’s ok to admit this is too much for you.
The fucked up shit that happened to you has warped your perception on what is normal and acceptable. You’re still traumatised from past events and unable to process this properly. Rape in a relationship isn’t something that can be fixed. I hope you seek help and find the strength to move on.
You don’t make that mistake three times
Dude. Way too much to read. If you set boundaries and agreed to boundaries then there is nothing more to do. She will either respect them or not. If she is not happy with the relationship then she will tell you, if she doesn't then it's not worth being in a relationship.
As for you. You need to work on your trust issues. Snooping through her phone checking ig and snap. What's it going to do for the relationship? Nothing but harm. If she is going to txt guys and leave you then she's not worth being in a relationship with. So why worry about it?!?
She sounds like she is equally concerned about being in the relationship and keeping it healthy so if you can't trust her to do that then you need to go work on yourself first before being in a relationship with another. Having no trust in someone just months into a relationship is bonkers especially with very little reason not to trust.
The past is the past. Let it go.
PLEASE quietly plan your exit.
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“Economical” is the word you can use in n that sentence.
Just because they don’t make a fuss right away does not mean they won’t when you are actually a couple. People can hide their true colors for as long as they need to so tests like this are stupid and manipulative.
As a guy, a girl who does this is not “relationship” material, and I would probably dump her on the spot.
One of the best things to do is find a common interest. I find that if the topic is something you're passionate about, it's easier to really get into the conversation and be comfortable doing it. So try to find something you are both interested in and steer the conversation that way.
Also remember that small talk isn't always a bad thing. Small talk can easily transform into deeper conversation, so don't feel weird if you find that you're just making small talk. For instance, if you guys happen to be talking about the weather, maybe bring up a major whether phenomenon that has happened in the past to make the conversation more interesting. There are a lot of ways to turn small talk interesting and engaging, and not everything has to be inherently flirty. You can talk to him just like you would talk to a friend, don't put too much focus on being all flirty and seductive. Men might like flirty, but they appreciate genuineness. Point in case: Almost every man I've ever met has called me a flirt even though I've never been anyone or anything but myself. I never tried to be flirty or cute, I just talk to them like I'd talk to anyone else. They we're just into that I guess. So don't stress. If your nerves are working, just imagine him as any other friend. When you start to feel more comfortable, you can go from there.
And finally: If you say something weird or awkward, the best course of action is to just laugh about it. Even if it's a forced laugh. For instance, I was in a job interview once and the interviewers mentioned they didn't do drug tests. My idiot brain decided to say “oh awesome well I'll just go smoke some crack then” like a dumbass. I was absolutely mortified but I started laughing and they started laughing too and they ended up offering me the job with a higher rate of pay than what was posted on the job listing. So never underestimate the power of laughter lol. If I could laugh my way out of the absolute worst thing you could possibly say in a job interview, you can laugh your way out of whatever weird or awkward thing you might say or do on a date.
Again, and I cannot stress this enough (haha) is just not to stress. Whatever you do for stress relief or to calm anxiety, do that. You want to walk into this calm, cool and collected. If you have to fake it a little bit, so be it. Fake it til you make it. That is a real thing and it's a useful tool for people in your situation.
Best of luck!
Yes, this is what I meant.
it’s not like you’re asking him to stop being friends with her. you’re just asking for more boundaries and she seems to be influencing him to not follow them. him saying he didn’t think about it or that it’s just a habit is not ok. he’s not going to stop doing these things no matter how many times you remind him of your feelings. id leave him if i were you. he can’t respect your boundaries now. what is therapy going to do?
He made me feel important. He cared for my feelings. Everything my mother cant and or wont do. Hes the only guys to do that. So, yes I was a bit desperate. But even most times I wanted to leave because I felt he wasnt the guys for me as he wouldn't ful fill my needs for gift giving… my mom and everyone around me would say he loves me. And I know he does. He shows love in other ways I feel I can eventually do myself after the fact even if I'm dead tired… he helps out in places I lack. He has my back. The only one who does at the end of the day. One who protected me and made me feel important because I'd tell him im scared. When I feel I should leave and dont because I freeze a lot. Hes there to wake me the heck up. I'm attracted to him. Hes beautiful to me. When I'm down hes there for me. But lately that's only gone away because hes unemployed and he doesnt feel like a man when he cant provide. I totally understand that but he also has things that I cant stand. I try to get him to take care of business and make things a priority.. I was not a priority for a while…until I was telling people around me to get him to wake up to that? His parents were shit tbh. His mom is lovely but she didnt instill nothing into him to be a man and his dad was abusive. I feel for him but now I'm pregnant I dont have time to wait and be patient this baby is coming FAST!! What I did wrong is nag too much and pressure and force it into him. He would always change what I was complaining about. Now hes sort of gave up. So imma get off his back and now if he leaves me idk it's up in the air.
Okay so the thing is, I really don’t know what to do? It doesn’t feel right to not stand my ground here. He did delete the app again he said, but even if. I feel so hurt and humiliated and I’m speechless at the fact he pulled the trust card on me.
Do I just stay mad until I’m not any more? Just wait until he reaches out and really showing me that he understands why it upset me so bad?
Completely different stages mentally and in maturity
I was a 23 year old male at one point. I'm not sure that this is always the case. People definitely mature and get their shit together at different ages.
But the fact that they chose your husband over you, do you feel that has to do with sexism or something else?
Even though there were two women that were chosen, their choice to choose your husband over you could be due to sexism. Your boss compared the two of you and chose your husband for a reason, and I would try to find out that reason. Whether it be because he's a better worker, they have a personal relationship, he's been working there longer, or sexism, this is important to find out.
I would definitely talk to an employment lawyer to see if there are grounds for your boss showing discrimination here.
Sit her down and have the serious conversation.
She either moves in and pays her share, or moves out.
She is not permitted to half move in.
Be clear. Give her a clear choice – she must select one or the other.
Do not allow the conversation to be detailed . Statements such as “that may be, but …” are helpful for bringing the conversation back to the subject you need resolved.
He can't make you do anything either way, what you need to do is ask yourself if you're going to be able to give this child the life it deserves knowing full well that you will be a single parent.
Remember you're not talking about a pet or something you're talking about a human life that you are going to be responsible for, and considering he does not want to be any relationship with you even if you're talking getting child support from him that still leaves you to essentially parent alone most of the time especially if he doesn't want to be involved
At the end of the day it is your choice but it's not just your life you're affecting it's a whole new one
I wouldn't say I'm super overweight or anything but I definitely have a gut and I've been working on that for years without much success.
I don't want to be rude, but presenting your situation as typical is very much spreading misinformation. I had been a personal trainer for people in their 40's and beyond and while you might want to see your doctor to rule out any sort of say, thyroid disorder it's most likely your program isn't effective.
OP's husband became more sedentary and gained a bunch of weight, and is uninterested in losing it so now their spouse is not attracted to them.
Have the time of your life with a guy
He's gonna ask for a open relationship next but oh wait plot twist! She can't sleep with any men. Just him with girls and whenever he wants to watch her with other woman. Otherwise she's just there to accomidate his ego.
Which sounds like this is gonna lead to a great explosion of insecurity and self loathing.
I’m well aware that we went to fast we both know that and we decided to try and make this work despite that
You either accept being together but never getting married or you break up and look for someone who wants to marry you.
While that's important, it's probably not going to help the current situation. If you're spending all your extra time on yourself, she's not going to be convinced that you're suddenly going to be much more focused on the family when you have kids. The reality is that you could be doing more now (like making more money) to help make things easier when you expand your family. Like, the fact that you have extra time for hypothetical kids NOW does nothing.
Let's be very clear about this, YOU are not the one who is pathetic here. Anyone who stops caring for their spouse, the person they vowed to love in sickness and in health, because she was diagnosed with an incurable condition, is an absolute loser.
You need to kick him out. He can go live with his overbearing family. Get a really good lawyer to make sure you retain your fair share of the “material lifestyle” and custody of your kids.
My son-in-law, along with his father, has acute intermittent porphyria. It's not a death sentence, though the episodes are terrible and can result in hospitalization. Has your doctor actually said your condition is terminal? Are you receiving treatment? If you don't expect a long life expectancy, be sure to tell your lawyer, and set up a will, as well.
Ahh wow that us honestly so hurtful, I'd move permanently into the guest room until he can acknowledge that you are her mom, fed her,bathed her, look after her while sick,washed her clothes ect you are her mom and the fact he did that makes me think he going to use this constantly through the years and that not the type of man I'd want to be married too,
Every important decision nope I'm her biological parent, your only good to cook clean up after her and watch her while I'm not here, but I'm her biological parent.
God I can't imagine how painful that was for you.
My petty arse would move permanently to guestroom and I'd also tell him he better start washing her clothes, making her bed and cooking for her as he so heavily stated you are not her biological parent, he wants to play that card I could be just as petty.
But I agree about not staying some where while you out of town, anything could happen, I hate it now while my kids are a few streets away lol just wondering what's happening,are they ok
I don't see the issue if he genuinely wants the animal to be rescued? Honestly, the first part of those shows is the most interesting.
I also had a terrible, terrible childhood. I was into disasters and true crime from an early age. I was eight when I read my first book about lizzie Borden. Also was fascinated by plane crashes and natural disasters.
I'm a good, kind person who works with children and the disabled.
That’s true, maybe I do just need to accept it and move on, however it’s just confusing as it was going smoothly and there was no pressure etc. but then she switched up and said about the confusion, maybe she was feeling some sort of guilt or that she was leading me on or something?
I wouldn’t want to have sex with her if it’s not for a relationship, I’ve never been able to do that and feel it would just confuse us both a lot. I also don’t think she would do that either. But you’re right, I will still meet up with her as friends, as it’s still enjoyable and she’s great to be around.
I'm confused. I don't really understand what this has to do with my response specifically? My comment was criticizing the person above for making the blanket statement that everyone looks at other people, which just isn't true. I don't disagree that the overwhelming fear of your partner losing attraction to you is unhealthy. However I don't blame people who are scared of this because we live in an incredibly shallow world. It seems like every other day there is a post on this subreddit about a partner who is no longer attracted to their counterpart because they gained weight after pregnancy.
Like I said though, my initial reply wasn't even responding to that part of the dude's comment.
I wish I could be more helpful but I got saved long after I wasn't a Virgin. Unfortunately, I think the stigma around any pleasure is really forced on kids on certain households and it sets them up for failure later.
There are some good books like “Intended for Pleasure” that is a Christian sex-positive book that is good for encouraging sexual health in marriage but I don't have a good way to unlearn dogma like this, especially in a man.
I think that it is extra tough because catholics say oral sex is sin even though that is completely unbiblical (like all of catholicism, absolute travesty) and thus not applicable to Christians who are Bible believing ESPECIALLY not new testament believers.
Song of Solomon is really the only “reference ” to most of the topics of sex but it absolutely encourages oral sex within the context of marriage
Song of Solomon 2:3As an apple tree among the trees of the forest, so is my beloved among the young men. With great delight I sat in his shadow, and his fruit was sweet to my taste.
Song of Solomon 4:16Awake, O north wind, and come, O south wind! Blow upon my garden, let its spices flow. Let my beloved come to his garden, and eat its choicest fruits.
I mean the whole book is like this honestly but some people ignore the fun bits of the Bible but it is in there.
Again this is intended to be in the confines of marriage but at least you have some talking points now maybe?
Yeah right. The early 30's female can GUARANTEE me, that the sole reason men desire virgins is because of insecurity. Why not introspect on that a little, and realise things never are that simple. Here's a few reasons, again, none of them good.
Insecurity, yes , like you said.
Also religion and patriarchy, many men were taught to think of women as property, taking virginity being a sign of ownership. No insecurity here, just sick thoughts .
Another reason is ignorance/ paranoïa, some men were never taught anything about women's body and have wild misconsceptions engrained deeply in their beliefs, going as far as to think a women not being a virgin might compromise their paternity.
Jealousy also comes into play, when some men have had few sexual partners, they feel its unfair that their partner has had more. Again, not rooted in insecurity.
You could also have a less negative reason for desiring a virgin, being that the man is a virgin himself and wants to experience this new thing with someone who also does it for the first time. Not because of insecurity, simply for the uniqueness of the experience. To picture this better, its a bit like its more enjoyable to watch a new series or movie with someone who hasnt seen it yet and discover it with them, than with someone who already watched it all a few times. Just, being on the same level.
There's many more reasons and sometimes a few of them exists at the same time in a mans head, but please stop with the generalisations.
I'm fine with them being attracted to me, but… being disappointed I haven't let them get their ends away??
Yeah, sucks to be me right now. Thank you!
I’m not saying I’m like DR Phil or anything. It’s just that from my viewpoint, she must feel like she is getting the 3rd degree. Maybe try to be more encouraging to her. Maybe ask her to elaborate a little bit on why she feels that way. Direct your questions toward yourself if you want to help identify the issue. Just try to encourage conversation, have plenty of patience, and give her complete attention without interrupting her. That would be my suggestion. It’s probably worth a shot at least. Divorce sucks, and is very expensive, I can tell you that for sure.
Ok thank you. I think I can communicate that to him. I do want things to eventually work back towards a relationship and if that's not what he wants then I need to know that so that there's no contact like you said.
Seconding this. Am on ACTUAL prescribed Test Cyp and no adjustment to mood at all. Yes if you’re an asshole before it can amplify it, but that’s about it.
Your boyfriend is just a dick and using the pills to justify it.
The sex trafficker? I should respect what he says?
Will there be any update?
I think this is different depending on whether something just bothers you or if she did something wrong. Seems like she’s wrong regardless though.
If something just bothers you but she did nothing wrong, then I can see why she’d want to know so she can stop. But it also is incredibly selfish to make the issue about her being a victim bc she didn’t know sooner. As long as you aren’t blaming her for doing it in the time between noticing and mentioning it, then I don’t see the issue.
If she did something wrong, this is a red flag. I shouldn’t have to tell someone they did something wrong, and they definitely don’t get to make me the bad guy for not going out of my way to mention something asap when THEY were wrong.
This is manipulative. Everyone should get to have conversations on their terms, not just her. And she puts you on defense when you have an issue. I would explode if i had to explain myself every time I voiced a concern in a relationship. That means you never get to address your concern bc you’re busy defending your timing.