Getting regular exercise is a bonus any way you cut it, so encourage her to continue going to the gym with you. Give her lots of compliments of all kinds (hair, good job cooking or tidying up, nice outfit, etc.). Continue to show that you are sexually attracted. Continue refusing to discuss her insecurity of being too heavy.
It's YOUR event, and you owe the bio dad nothing. I've been in your shoes. I have 3 dads, a bio dad, an adopted dad, and a stepdad. You pick the one who supposed you the most.
Or you could do what I did. Just elope, spare the drama, and just have a reception/party.
Yes, this seems like a good thing to keep in mind. It’s goals, not a solid plan, and it’s subject to changes. Thanks!
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You don’t need to leave when they’ve already left you???
Yeah 4 years of having a crush is more of an obsession
She just there for his convenience………
Getting regular exercise is a bonus any way you cut it, so encourage her to continue going to the gym with you. Give her lots of compliments of all kinds (hair, good job cooking or tidying up, nice outfit, etc.). Continue to show that you are sexually attracted. Continue refusing to discuss her insecurity of being too heavy.
Get out now. This guy is a narcissist. His reversal to get angry at you because you found out about his cheating is pretty classic narcissism.
There's no future with this guy.
It's YOUR event, and you owe the bio dad nothing. I've been in your shoes. I have 3 dads, a bio dad, an adopted dad, and a stepdad. You pick the one who supposed you the most.
Or you could do what I did. Just elope, spare the drama, and just have a reception/party.