Updated the link with another video but with analysis. Stay away from abusive guys, once they lay a hand on you, they will continue to do so. There are guys out there that would never lay a hand on a girl. Violence is never the answer.
Hey babe, I've been thinking about this and I've come to a conclusion. I can't tell you who to hang out with or who to talk to.
But I can decide who I spend my life and time with. I feel it's inappropriate to be spending with with ex fuck buddies when you're in a relationship. So this is really a matter of values. We appear to have different values about what's appropriate and what isn't. I can't imagine going forward in life knowing my fiance, or wife is going to spend the day hanging out with some guy she used to sleep with. That's just not for me.
So I'm thinking before we waste any more of each other's time we need to decide what's more important, you being able to hang out with this guy, or us being together.
I'm a whole size queen and same. It's not ok to make people feel insecure over something they can't control.
Updated the link with another video but with analysis. Stay away from abusive guys, once they lay a hand on you, they will continue to do so. There are guys out there that would never lay a hand on a girl. Violence is never the answer.
You can't make a boundary for someone else
Just tell him that you're not comfortable with him doing that.
Hey babe, I've been thinking about this and I've come to a conclusion. I can't tell you who to hang out with or who to talk to.
But I can decide who I spend my life and time with. I feel it's inappropriate to be spending with with ex fuck buddies when you're in a relationship. So this is really a matter of values. We appear to have different values about what's appropriate and what isn't. I can't imagine going forward in life knowing my fiance, or wife is going to spend the day hanging out with some guy she used to sleep with. That's just not for me.
So I'm thinking before we waste any more of each other's time we need to decide what's more important, you being able to hang out with this guy, or us being together.
Then be ready to walk if she insists.
First, don't ask questions that don't have useful answers.
Second, did you learn nothing from Judith and Holofernes? Pretend to go along with the threat and then kill the person holding you hostage.