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Date: December 25, 2022
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If you were reading this post on Reddit and it was another person, what would your reaction be? Your wife needs help, this is not normal jealous behaviour. She’s accused you of incest with your sister ? this is way beyond jealousy, and it will get worse if you don’t do something about it. I don’t agree with the marriage counsellor telling you to call your sister from the car, it’s almost giving your wife ammunition that you’re hiding things from her. I really don’t get that. Surely the calls have to be normalised as it’s your SISTER. Seriously get your wife some help.
and he has just started being disrespectful to you like this out of the blue?
i’m wondering if him hitting on your friends is a reaction to you now having so many more options. like before you went to uni you said you weren’t hooking up with so many people, maybe he basically thought that you would naturally develop into an exclusive relationship some day and because it hasn’t happened he is trying to make you jealous so that’s what you will want?
i’m not sure, i just can’t see any other reason for a change of behaviour like this.
Honestly, probably not, I saw things like him bringing me home tea bags and doing the dishes as a sign of affection, but there wasn't any kind of romantic affection, not even sitting on the sofa together to watch films (he'd sit at his computer all night or sit next to me scrolling through his phone)
Yeah, we have a two year old and he's genuinely a great dad so I won't to keep open communication, but it's making it hard.
That's a great idea. I'll give it a shot. Thank you !
Well, I used to behave in a similar way at that age. I am almost 60 now. It’s a matter of growing up. I understand you’re desire to be in a relationship, but is that what this is about? Or is it about the person? There are many people you may match with. You’re very young, there is a lot of life ahead of you. What do you want to do with your life? Beyond a relationship? That is what I would focus on if I were you, find your career path, get an education. While you’re doing that you may find someone who has the same interests as yourself, the same dreams, goals, and values. That’s what the foundations of a lifetime of togetherness is based on.
Well I didn’t include the great memories and healthy talks and fun times we’ve had as well. This is strictly focusing on the negatives and if I were to bring the positives into the situation you would understand why that’s so difficult for me. He really is a good guy, just very inexperienced romantically and a little bit slow with how to handle a woman and her emotions.
Well I did try, most of the times when I did they had plans aready and after a while I just didn't feel like they cared. And thanks by the way I really did want to hear what others think about it.
my mom has said she’s looked on facebook but can’t find him
She just played you my dude! Don't go tit for tat but let's see her actions.
It sounds to me like she us ready to move on to a new relationship and she figures if she pisses you off enough, you’ll leave on her own and she gets to be the one who got dumped. If it were me, I would most likely tell my SO that I get it, that they want to break up with me, and then I’m fine with it and then I’m saving up to move out. And then I’d ask if it was possible to just be civil while you’re transitioning, with no hard feelings on either side. You sound adult enough to manage that. Obviously, your girlfriend is not, but maybe it’s worth a try?
No one but a doctor can diagnose her. Either way, she's definitely being abusive and you don't deserve it.
Sometimes I can't believe the responses people give. First of all a body count of 7 is high, second of all she lied about it and lastly her body count was actually double what she had said.
Having a trustworthy partner is the number 1 need to keep a relationship going for a lifetime.
I second this comment, sorry.
they both have obligations to that commitment now.
She's taken care of those obligations for two decades, while he has not. It's perfectly reasonable for her to let go of the rope.
If you also decide you don’t want it, sure. But if you have a normal desire, not sure why you’d continue this with him knowing he does not want it.
You’re nuts staying with a cheater that’s for sure!
Why are you with him out of interest?
He obviously despises you or he wouldn’t cheat. He definitely doesn’t love you.
So the social media thing is the last thing you should be asking about.
Ps. He’s trying to protect his real girlfriend.
just because you don’t mind it doesn’t mean that it’s okay. And honestly it sounds like you deal with a lot more stuff from him?TikTok is cancer to young minds in my opinion and I’m in my early twenties myself lol. He should look into his Temper because no one should be shouting at you, even if he’s angry. Let this month be a test trial for the two of you, working together to creating a healthy relationship dynamic
Honestly, we should normalize couples having separate bedrooms. Like many other types of compatibility in a relationship, sleep and sleep schedule compatibility are a very real thing. It’s not that he doesn’t love you, but clearly you are impacting his sleep, which then impacts his day. It is selfish to know that you keep him up every and still expect him to be lying next to you.
I appreciate the advice! It is a rough situation because this is literally the first time we have not been happy together and I used to see potential in us regardless of the kid situation, but I have been trying to keep an eye out for manipulation in this relationship and that is what it felt like. It made me concerned for the future and I even let her know that it felt manipulative, but thats when she said she truly believes it and I deserve better. So that sent warnings up my spine I guess and I do know that we can't be partners long term, but I will try to let her go gently. Thank you again, it means a lot.
Get some therapy. You can't be in a healthy relationship if you aren't able to voice your own wants and turn to cheating to distract from your own issues.
This is the way.
If he is not an actor or has any other key attributes that are needed for the video, the question “why him and noone else” is in my option 100% valid.
Also: He asked you for your approval and now is mad because you said no? Something is not right here.
It smells like some kind of setup.
She seen him coming from a mile away ? what's the bets she does acrually get child maintenance from her ex too
Don’t bring it up and don’t be embarrassed. You asked very casually and politely.
Everyone is shitting on her partner but he was put into a very awkward situation. Would you risk a big, potentially life changing opportunity just to give your partner a heads-up that wouldn't help either of you? The boss' decision to exclude OP is not her partner's fault.
This was a similar scenario I went thru when I was 19 and living with my highschool sweetheart. We moved across the country alone and tried to make it. Both of us had the same job, just for different companies and I had a different shift than he did, that paid more per hour but I would have less hours than him weekly. He also worked the second shift and quickly got upset at me for simply being allowed to enjoy my free time during the day after my shift ended. Started treating me like crap because I did things for myself like exploring the city we lived in. Soon told me that if I wasn’t at home cooking him dinner by the time he got home he would start punishing me. How? By restricting how much medical marijuana I was allowed to consoume, he quickly was in charge of all of our finances since I was so “immature with it”, because I would spend spare change and take a bus out to San Francisco when I had a few hours. Told me I used too many tampons, started counting how many I used. Told me to figure out something more inexpensive so I invested in a diva cup. Soon, I got hurt at work, and got wrongfully fired and I took it upon myself to seek justice. I began receiving unemployment benefits and he just absolutely hated me for that. He took that debit card with the money on it and I never saw it again. Soon after that he began forcing sex on me when I would tell him no. Beg and cry and berate me until I gave in.
Men like that, begin out like the man you described.
I can’t believe I had to scroll this far to get to point 4. I was totally trying to take a picture of a weird mole the other day so I could get a good look at it and I couldn’t help thinking that I’d be MORTIFIED if my husband walked in and saw me.
Well, it's a known fact that sex decreases after marriage and it dies after children. The engagement process is where things should be at their hottest. If they're dry now then it'll be a desert after.
I mean that’s great for you – kind of a shaming tactic though
A lot of men do. I commented that exactly because I'm not one of them… although being outside of the situation is definitely a factor.
Today though I asked him if he ever wishes mine were bigger. And he says “yea sure” totally serious like it was nothing at all. And I asked “are you serious?” And he said “I mean yours are fine”. Overall it left me feeling incredibly hurt. Afterwards he realized he fucked up and tried apologizing and said he forgot how my previous relationship ended. I truly believe he was just stupid but it doesn’t change the fact that I’m hurt.
Stop making this his fuckup. You are aware that you shouldn't ask this kind of question, but you did, and now you are indignant that he answered honestly instead of diplomatically.
You should get some therapy around this issue, instead of expecting your bf to read your mind and make you feel better.
i’m a little uncomfortable but not uncomfortable to turn down money. it’s just odd because we are sortve buddies and there’s not really a reason to give me money, unless he has an ulterior motive. he says that it is because i am a student and he has been broke in that situation and wants to make sure i am comfortable but i think it would be naive to assume he’s being fully honest given the age gap.
We will see him here 6mo from now posting about how he thought the grass was greener on the other side and he messed that up ??♀️. This is one of the main things about guys that scare me so much. Everything is fine then Boom out of nowhere they hit you with this shit. I cant. So sorry you’re going through this OP!!
I couldn't marry someone that don't do oral
Yes, she wanted to romance a little with a woman from what I could tell. We were watching a TV show with a lesbian couple and she was in awe.
Bro I made more than you right out of college with a communications degree. 15 years ago.
Typical of this sub. Everyone recommends just dumping the SO over even the slightest infraction or disagreement.
OP don’t throw away years of a relationship over this. Yes it was rude of your BF and embarrassing, but like you said it’s a bodily function. People have been cracking jokes about it since the dawn of time, and other than the girl who kept the door open, I highly doubt your BF or anyone else in the group was being malicious.
If this is the first time something like this has happened with your BF, give him another chance. Don’t listen to the people here who are so quick to suggest dumping him. You’ll find that in just about every single thread here and it’s easy to suggest just sitting behind a screen and not taking into account the myriad of other factors that go into maintaining a relationship, which are never perfect.
I had to recheck the ages a couple times because I can’t believe a 25 year old would act like this. How do these people even exist?
Yes I did, broke it down step by step. 3-4 minutes for the lift to reach my floor, 3-4 minutes for it to go down, about 6 minutes to get out of my complex, 8 minutes to smoke and the same 15 minutes or so to get back.
First take care of you and your mental health. That’s a must for a relationship to be successful. Then, I would send her an email to explain your progress, your understanding and what you would like to do (get back together? Start taking and see if you can work it out?) the key is, if she says she’s not interested, do not insist. Focus on yourself and move on. Not contacting her at all is not a good choice imho because later you will look back and think “what if I had?”
What’d you lie about?
What’d you lie about?
Then you both work and get daycare. Lol
It's crazy if you look at it like that. “I'm not attracted to my girlfriend, but I'm doing her a favour by staying with her.”
What's that going to do to her self esteem?
OP doesn't want her, but doesn't want anyone else to have her either. Just worded differently.
It's crazy if you look at it like that. “I'm not attracted to my girlfriend, but I'm doing her a favour by staying with her.”
What's that going to do to her self esteem?
OP doesn't want her, but doesn't want anyone else to have her either. Just worded differently.
Then you both work and get daycare. Lol
We told our families we were aiming to have three children.
And I am currently pregnant with the second.
We told our families we were aiming to have three children.
And I am currently pregnant with the second.
Imagine getting married and not being able to voice discomfort without bursting someone’s bubble (which is pimping you out to a buddy to flex)
When I was younger I was riding my bike and while I was crossing the road I was hit by a car.
I was bleeding pretty bad but insisted I was fine and I rode my bike home. On the way home I got hit by another car. The guy thought he caused all of my injuries as I was losing a fair amount of blood by then.
My best advice to you is to take out a massive life insurance policy on him with you being the beneficiary.