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Date: December 8, 2022
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This is more than likely a case of crying wolf. She's hiding something. Your choice is either call it off now, or confront her to try and get proper information. This just sounds like she has cheated on you plenty of times, but this is the only time she's left a trace to get caught.
Like seriously how does turn into wine at her friends house, turn into clubbing clothes and “jokingly” putting a condom in your underwear. That condom was there for the random guy at the club she would have fucked.
There is nothing you can do to make this happen. But what you can do is make sure she she knows the door is always open for her to return if and when she’s ready.
Often, it’s not something the parents did or was their fault, contrary to the popular Reddit opinion of blame-the-parents-no-matter-what. It can be a matter of perspective where teenagers see things completely differently than their parents. When this is the case, they will often find their way back home as their perspective aligns.
In the meantime, you and your husband need to spend a lot of time focusing on yourselves and your healing. There is some truth in the rejection you’re experiencing at the hands of your grown children. Doing your best to understand their pov will help healing all the way around.
I am so sorry for your loss. No family ever deserves to lose a beloved member. But each member of the family travels their own journey on the path of grief.
I would also suggest that you find a different ear for this conversation. The comments here attacking and blaming you for something that can’t possibly be fully understood only adds to the trauma you’re already feeling.
You're a liar and a creep for posting this. Your boyfriend likes Ryan Reynolds?
I don’t think you like him. I think you like the attention he gives you.
This is pretty unhealthy and I think you should stay away from any relationship until you learn to love yourself without other people’s validation. Until then, you’ll keep being “attracted” to weird people like him who give you mixed signals and who will probably be very bad in actual relationships.
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Emotional and physical abuse only escalates, you and your children at risk from her. She can only keep her behavior in check for a short time because controlling it is exhausting. Her default position is violence and aggression. She is trying to fool you that she has changed and one of the strategies she is employing is coercion and blackmail. Do not fall for it she will not change. As a victim of this sort of behavior my advice is cut all ties, go to court and get full custody of your children. Document every incident, photograph any marks. Go to the police keep reporting the assaults on you. Protect your personal safety and guard your children.
So a first time grandparent doesn't usually get their first grandchild a gift for Christmas? I'm not saying I'm expecting a bunch of toys, but a single gift for her first grandchild seems reasonable
Straight people are so weird. It blows my mind that this is even a thing he would need to care about.
He’s 15 years older. It’s not such a big deal when your all grown up, but your 20.
No? Because he's still preying on her? If anything he's just doing it in an even more manipulative way because he's vying for her affection while still trying to maintain innocence.
Wow, the bar for men really could be in hell and there would still be someone trying to limbo dance with the devil for them.
The thing is that you grow feelings for him where he does not … if he really have feelings for you he wouldn’t be using the dating apps again … you should be straight and bring it up to him .
OP, there really isn't an answer for something like what your gf is asking for. You are not OK with it. You want to be OK with it. It doesn't work that way. Your relationship is going to implode either way.
I am with your family, this guy sucks and he is using you and you need to leave him.
So you don’t think he will cheat? Even if he approaches girls and his past…
No, it's not. Men asking for DNA tests “just because” is a load of misogynistic bullshit.
Does it ever happen that a man starts to raise (or fully raises) a child and then finds out that it wasn't his? Yes, but that is very rare.
It is FAR more common that the man cheats on the wife, before/during/after the pregnancy.
It's the misogynistic view that is making these loud statements that men should always ask for these DNA tests “just in case” bullshit. It should NOT be the standard in a relationship, and this one specifically is a great example of “fuck him”. He's the one that cheated on her. She should get the DNA test, establish he's the father, then leave the relationship.
Girl he dating you because you’re obviously dumb and Guilin or asf if you’re just gonna believe at face value every time he cheats on you but ‘well he said he didn’t and he loves me so obviously that’s true, after all I bet that he NEVER said anything like that to the wife of 10 years who he cheated on, clearly I’m so perfect I’m different ?’ like girl it’s gonna be funny when he cheats on you with a younger woman and you go tell that girl about it but she’s just like “yeah I actually already knew about you but he said you weren’t a threat because he loves me, obviously I forgive him” like you did to his ex-wife
Talk to family cousel and then an individual therwpy for her?. What a shame to divorse and wreak a family unit because of this.
actions have consequences. lying about drug use is a massive red flag.
go NC and move on.
Thank you, I will!
Appreciate all your responses, we've decided to call it off, it was most def emotionally turbulent
He's going out of his way to spend time with OP whom he finds attractive. Therein lies the difference.
I'm staying the obvious.
you bear responsibility to your own relationship, if it really wasn't working to the point we're you would seek attention on that level from another, why the hell didn't you end it much earlier.
I think it’s worth it to get these emotions and turmoil off your chest. However, I’m not sure it’s the best idea to see him face to face. There’s so much out of your control if you see him. Instead, write out in a letter whatever you want to say to him. Tell him how he hurt you. Tell him how you’ve suffered. Tell him what you think he deserves to have after what he did to you. There is something cathartic about writing…
Send the letter to the GF for her to give it to him or you could record yourself reading it and send her the video. Then, try to let this go. You deserve better than that man.
Leave it. She most likely tried to monkeybranch and it probably failed. If you two have no shared pets or other obligations together. leave it and move on. Good luck dude
It's totaly ok to think that it was a bad joke, and it should also be ok to be uppset/sad and express this to your partner.
However, there's far to little information here to make the assumption that the guy is some kind of unsensitive asshole who should be dumped imediatly (as some suggests.)
We don't know if she has told him that she is insecure about this, or that she has been bullied and therefore is sensative about certian jokes. We don't know for how long they have been together, and how they usually joke with each other.
I can only talk from experience. In my previous relationship i knew that my partner loved me for who i was (and the other way around.) Of course i wouldn't joke about something i knew that she was sensitive about, but otherwise it was releaving to be able to joke/tease each other. Because we knew what we really tought of each other.
Im genuinly confused about how everyone seems to think that this was completly unacceptable, and that she should break up imediatly. It was one joke that she didn't like. He appologized, and probably won't do it again.
What a creep.
you just straight up asked if he wishes they were bigger and he just said “yeah sure” probably not really thinking, I mean sure it's a bit rude but you kinda walked right into it. It'd be different in my opinion if he just said he wishes they were bigger out of no where
Nobody at the old job will want him back. They'll probably be suing him for the stuff he damaged. If I were a former colleague and they took him back, I wouldn't feel at all safe in the office with him and I would protest very strongly. If they didn't listen to me I would leave. I don't think I'd be alone in reacting like that.
And yet, she never blocked him.
Your wife made the conscious decision to leave that door open. Sure, now that she snapped and told you the truth, she's showing regret. But where was that regret when she left the possibility for communication open for 3 years?
It's possible the other guy ghosted her and she wanted to continue the affair, so she left him unblocked. After so much time has passed she could have moved on and forgot about the fact he was never blocked.
What was the point of posting for advice if you feel like you already know the answer?
You also apparently think you’re special and your boyfriend who doesn’t experience empathy for anyone magically has empathy for you….. okay OP.
Good luck with this.
My advice to you is to tread lightly with your mom. Because you’re going to need her help in the future when you realize that you’re not special, he doesn’t care about your feelings (because he literally can’t), he doesn’t care about your child’s feelings, and you can’t continue to be with him.
It's your wedding. You could ask your dog to walk you down the isle. I think you should just straight out say to your biodad that step dad will be walking you down the isle. Tell him that step dad has been your dad since you were 7 years old and that's the person you want walking you down the isle.
Your biodad is the one who abandoned you for 13 years, why on earth should he get to just show up when you are 20 and become your dad again?
Maybe you could say that if he agrees to this you will see it as a big step to repairing the relationship that he spoiled.
He says the message is from an online guy friend. The issue I have is that there’s no paper trail for these messages. It came from a game where the messages disappear after a while so I don’t blame him for that but that’s what started the spiral. He’s shown me screenshot messages from the past and offered to show me discord messages but the usernames don’t match up. Which also concerns me. I feel like I’m overthinking way too much, he’s never given me a reason to think he’s cheating but maybe I’m more insecure than I ever thought.
No paper trail = hiding something to me – even if that isn’t true.
You look so cute what the fuck
Sorry for what happened in your past marriage and you going down that path.
My husband sometimes does this, he just forgets to advise me. I’ve come home after a crappy stressful day and just said hi and bye nicely then straight to bed. It’s not the guests fault he forgot the heads up.
Then I talk with him when they are gone. Again, communication is key, that you are completely correct!
Thanks it makes not gonna lie failed marriage doesn't look good on the outside but staying in one can really kill u on the inside..
I imagined myself describing my wife the way you described this woman. She’s not too bright. She’s fine. Is this woman really the one for you? If not move on.
BPD is the only thing that is relevant here
If you had learned a tiny bit about it
You would know this behaviour is draped in the flags of that personality disorder
You have not articulated in your very lengthy post what your actual feelings are or what you two are fighting about.
Now we can read between the lines, but it's clear you are actually leaving out details that matter. There are a couple of different ways to tackle the surface issue you seem to imply. The real question is about the arguments.
At the end of the day you two share a space. Things like people sleeping over is usually a two yes one no type deal. If he consistently disregards you. Or whatever it is you're implying perhaps this is not the relationship for you.
He's also 10 years older than both of you. By itself is not a red flag but given what you seem to be implying you are realizing why he's into younger women and single at 36.
Very valid
Oh and It would be interesting to ask in r/Ireland the same question!
And also that women shouldn't drink pints. Used to work in a bar and it infuriated me when a woman who drank beer was in company with a group and when it came to a man's turn to buy, he'd order her two half pints rather than just one pint.