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fil sounds like a narcissist. my own father is like this but also gets violent. you are not wrong for your decision to kick him out and i have no doubt your life would have been filled with more of his abuse towards you and your children had you decided otherwise.
i wish you the best of luck. it will be hard at first, but it’s an overall net positive not having someone like that around your children and yourself. take it from me, i wish my mother had divorced my father years ago
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Honestly I don't get why we can't talk about our partners weight.
Yea we shouldn't jump ship the moment they gain a pound, but I should be able to be open and honest about how avoidable changes impact the relationship.
Remain as polite as possible but bring up the concern. Ask her of possible solutions she'd want to try. Offer yours if she has none. Let her know you need her to work on things and will be there by her side for the ride
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Sometimes it a matter of wording your responses differently not the actually content.
If you approach every discussion with curiosity first, then you’re less likely to come off as a know-it-all.
For instance, “that’s so interesting. I’ve never heard that before. Can you tell me more about that.” Then as the conversation progresses, you are in a better position to “contribute” your knowledge. If it’s a case where you end up being in the wrong, you’re more likely to find out before you’ve acted like you know better.
I’ve also found with some people who come across as know-it-alls, that sometimes both people are correct and are just approaching a topic differently and end up talking at cross purposes. So a curious conversation yields a more thorough and collaborative fruit than just talking at each other with information.
Whenever you feel the urge to correct someone, talk a breath and count if necessary, before thinking of a more curious way to join the conversation. And the most important thing is listen to the entirety of what they’re saying. Sometimes people can interrupt because they’re dying to say their piece and aren’t listening properly. Conversation should be a dialogue, not two people exchanging monologues in turn.
Good luck.
Holy shit dude. You’re considering this?
Thank you for this! It is bothering me and (i know thisll sound stupid but) i cried when he said all that. I was so bothered and scared considering that he is in the military and likes a co-worker then the other is from his hometown.
I didn't suggest talking to her about her hair. I just made that comparison to OP, so that he could better understand that he's not going to be able to simply change her preference overnight. (Just like his preference for long hair on a girl wouldn't change overnight)
He’s 31? No job? Vomit.
Everyone is different just like relationships are different from one couple to the next. And I have learned recently that there is no hard rule that you have to follow for society say is ‘normal.’ The people in the relationship can make up their own rules on what works for them.
It sounds like you each found someone who takes comfort in the silence. And neither of you feel like the other is not providing you with one of your core needs. It sounds like a great match.
If both of you feel fulfilled and happy/content with the amount of conversation you do have, then I think that’s amazing, and there’s nothing unhealthy about it!
Is this a deal-breaker for you?
This would have been one for me…
You explicitly told him not to do something, and he went ahead and did it anyways. He couldn't control himself and basically acted on his animalistic behavior.
Cherry on top is that he finished without you. Double cherry on top is that he is cowardly trying to communicate with you, without acknowledging what happen.
Now, you're debating to tell him how you feel, and I assume you're going to expect an apology.
Do you want to be involved with someone that you have to explain why they need to apologize? This is something he should be doing on his own accord, without you needing to put it into motion.
This guy is incredibly selfish. He couldn't handle a simple boundary out the gate… I doubt it will improve, that behavior is going to manifest elsewhere. I don't advise further entertaining him.
Girl he was just tired, that’s it
15 years and its like that? He don't want you for rest of his life, girl-child.
Not very many. It does feel that way and I’m starting to hold a grudge over his resentment.
BPD is a spectrum.
But if someone with BPD can't/won't get help, then yeah they are likely to be unable to control themselves.
Overall though, those with BPD have been shown to be unable to maintain most relationships.
There is a difference between knowing someone with BPD, and being in a relationship with them.
Your wife told you she was raped and she killer said rapist and your response was to ignore it and comment on something that happened on the tv show? I hope for your sake this is a fake post.
You have to show your family you've changed through long term, sustained appropriate behavior.
You destroyed their trust in you. That's not something that can be fixed in the short term. I'd do some reading about rebuilding trust, especially as it relates to alcoholics and addicts.
True. However you two have been through a lot and maybe it would be more helpful to give her the benefit of the doubt for now
Dance with both. Figure it out with them. If there's no comprise then there's no dance.
She was never your friend. She was a vile excuse for one. If you feel the need for closure, send her a text…
You literally abandoned me when I really need you. You have done nothing but showed me you never cared about me, you thought it funny when I got pranked—even knowing how my mom died—which shows how sadistic you are. You couldn’t even be bothered to help my cancer-stricken father out. My wedding was with people who actually mattered. Not for some pathetic excuse of a ‘friend’ who wouldn’t stop stabbing me in the back. Or something along those lines.
But is she really worth all that energy? No. She’s completely worthless. Don’t even acknowledge her. Block her and move on. If she tries to speak to you just keep ignoring her and moving forward.
People are looking at the age difference and calling it grooming. Man has the right to drop a nut for cougar. If he's weirded out? Don't and tell everyone a hot cougar has the hots him. If she's a looker, I'd be hard pressed to say no. Back in my youth that is
When you’re dating, you’re kind of trying to see if you can build a relationship with that person long-term that will endure. What is showing you? It’s not really a good omen. Since it’s been eight months and this is what he’s giving you I would sort of back away for a while and see what he does because frankly it doesn’t appear to me like he’s gonna give you what you want want
Congrats on blocking him! For the irl stuff, don't hang out with him one on one. Next time he walks up to your friend group tell him, loud enough for the other people to hear that you don't want any more of his dick pics and you won't be sending him any pictures in return. You are not interested. Use words to clearly and embarrassingly tell him so in public in front of your mutual friends. And continue to avoid being around him in situations where its just the two of you.
They’re engaged, tho. Is the bf not planning to marry her?
Thank you so much. Its good to know other people are in the same boat.
he’s already said no, don’t push it or you’ll lose your friendship with him too
Congratulations OP!
“Now what?” is such a big question… so hard to know where to start!
Getting to know each other can be hard, I would suggest going on dates as a way to make it easier. Maybe some activities (like Mini-golf, bowling, paint & sip classes, hikes etc). Sometimes being out doing things helps conversation to flow a bit, so its easier to get to know someone.
When people say that you need to have good communication, it generally means that you need to be able to talk about problems as they come up. If something is bothering you, don't sweep it under the carpet, talk about it. Be clear with how you are feeling, and try to make sure that you express yourself as clearly as you can.
Also, remember, when you do have problems, it shouldn't be you vs. her, it should be the two of you vs. the problem. If you do something that upsets her, take time to understand why – ask questions & listen. Don't try “explaining” yourself (that can come across like you are more concerned with defending yourself that understanding the situation).
And remember, the two of you have different life experiences, so just because something is normal for you, doesn't mean it is normal for her (and vice versa). So you need to be open minded & try to see things from her perspective.
Dude this falls into the “incompatible” bucket of reasons to break up. She’s not wrong to want to work her job and you aren’t wrong to be uncomfortable with it either. Just date someone else and move on with life.