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Date: October 18, 2022
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You don’t agree on money now. That only will become worse in future.
This is a deciding a relationship issue.
Just because a guy asks a girl who he's seeng or having sex with to do his laundry doesnt mean he's after a maid. Maybe he's asking a favor? What if a girl asked a guy the same thing and he responded saying “im not your maid”. Not so nice is it.
We… we don’t CONSCIOUSLY care who opens the door in our relationship. But if one of us opens it the better hold it for the other because that’s polite. Typically if he opens the first door, I’ll go on and open the second door. Tit for tat. But if I’m with my dad he will grab the door even if I open it and let me go in first, always
The most important consideration here is any future child born of this hot mess. I don’t honestly believe a baby is what either of your need right now, and a baby certainly doesn’t deserve to enter the world, unconsulted, the product of some bizarre “FWB” construct. So my advice is, deal with the pregnancy, ditch this guy – he’s clearly not much of a catch – and move on (after doing a review of your contraceptive methods). Sorry if this seems harsh.
Yes the baby is still in the hospital.
I would message the account back and ask what proof or details they can additionally provide. I'd try to ask your boyfriend on more details such as does he have anyone in his life that would try to do that to him?
I would take it as a warning flag for now and keep a super close eye on manipulative behaviors. If you have the time “Why Does He Do That?” And “The Gift of Fear” are great books you can find online for free to learn about the warning signs to keep an eye out for abusers.
It could also be a jealous ex or a ex-friend too. I've had friends with crazy exes who tried to ruin their future relationships because they couldn't stand to see the other person happy. I'd probably give him a chance if he's shown no other warning signs, but I'd listen to your gut if something seems off too.
A teacher simply can't know a child better than his parents.
R/supportforwaywards
And imagine that this really important life event she skips for a Taylor swift concert. I mean, is this not just setting them up for failure
And imagine that this really important life event she skips for a Taylor swift concert. I mean, is this not just setting them up for failure
Do you ever go to “straight bars”?
That’s a really hard one. You’re country is just so big that you can be only one state away and still be really far apart. Who does he live with now? His family?
I went and read you comments to get my answers. No red flags from her only from you snooping.
He (36M) and I (24F) thought we were soulmates
He was grossed out by my body while pregnant
so I get that we have an age gap but I wasn't groomed
None of this is a surprise in the slightest, unfortunately. Sure, maybe you weren't groomed, but you were falsely convinced into believing this man was a lot better than he is, and you age likely was the reason you got led on
Older people don't date people close to half their age for nothing, y'know. Your husband is emotionally inept and very superficial, and guess what? When you stopped being superficially attractive to his fucked up beauty standards, and started being emotionally challenging by asking to be treated like a person, he left you.
There is no relationship advice to be had here. You are done with the situation and can only be given remarks in hindsight. Yes, it's over, and honestly it was over by the time you had the kid. Make sure he pays child support.
Definitely excuses and not reasons! Apparently he is just not that into you. He gets you when he wants and then you go….. a lot like grandparents and grandchildren. Wonderful when they are around knowing they will eventually be leaving.
This is still over simplified. There's different types of immunity. Innate immunity (physiologically impossible to contract a disease because its not compatible with your body) and partial immunity. You're more or less immune at different time points due to different factors. The point is, the statistical probabilities you're using are too simple because immunity is complex. This is why it's incorrect to apply population statistics to individuals. We can get a picture of the population as a whole with statistics, but modeling an individual is often still too complex.
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This is just terrible to understand. I’m truly in shock realizing I’m not the one giving the advice here.
This sounds like narcissism. He always needs to be the center of your attention. And he doesn’t want to be the one taking care of you.
I would break up. What if you developed a chronic illness? What about when you’re pregnant? This is not a supportive life partner, this is a man-child.
Also add the fact that the co worker says he's in an open relationship. What proof does she have of this? He's making a move on her without his own partners consent. I would move on. There's no going back. She's excited for something new.
What’s your full time job? Being a low IQ, insecure mouth breather?
Find new friends who don’t pick on you?
Don’t have sex with a man who doesn’t respect you enough to wear condoms. I learned this for myself and it was a shitty realization. Trojan ribbed in the yellow package, I’ve been told that they’re more spacious inside Not from personal experience, but I’ve heard that latex free brands like skyn are v good too
You can’t just give in to her “panic attacks” aka manipulation, or you’ll never get it. There’s no easy way to do it and she made her own bed, you have nothing to feel bad about.
Hire an attorney and start the divorce process since it will take time anyways. Follow your attorney’s advice to a T and if she gets hysterical just don’t engage, she can process her own emotions without you. If things are that bad you can always go no contact and funnel all communication through your attorney.
Lol that's crazy dude. She needs to calm down. My husband and I have been together 11 years and don't have matching tattoos. Tell her that y'all can go get tattoos together but not the same tattoo.
You'd have to be so, so careful with that type of kink. I can think of more psychologically risky ones, but it's up there near the top.
Oh geez I’m sorry you went through that. And it’s alright. I mean he hasn’t done it in our relationship so I’ll do those next steps if I ever have to but I don’t think I need to do so with him.
Surely this is fake. Who could glimpse a collection of recent intimate selfies of their wife and not wonder why she took them? Who could believe that their innocent wife is totally fine with their friend “stealing” her photos?
Check your wife's phone records to see how many calls/texts have been exchanged between them. Then ask to see your wife's conversations with him on her phone. If she has deleted their messages, she is lying because she has something to hide. Ask if she communicates with him using any other app, and demand to see their messages. If it all checks out and they definitely are not having an affair, then the most likely explanation is that she is having an affair with someone else and your friend stole the photos she took for that guy. So repeat the above steps looking for who it is.
Could it be that he didn’t mention the workouts because he knew you would react badly? Not saying it’s the best way to handle it, but maybe this is your MO?
Could it be that he didn’t mention the workouts because he knew you would react badly? Not saying it’s the best way to handle it, but maybe this is your MO?
Could it be that he didn’t mention the workouts because he knew you would react badly? Not saying it’s the best way to handle it, but maybe this is your MO?
Hmm, I can't imagine him doing this without telling me, but it could be.
Also been asked things that wouldve correlated to times of the previous relationship that I've answered to, unknowingly adding to what gets thought and pictured by.
You can't force her to have basic decency. You can, however dump her and that's what you should do.
Your “husband” has helped create the space between you and his friends. After eight years, a real husband would have made sure you were as close to them as he is and/or you guys would have your own set of friends as a couple. Neither happened. Without knowing the other issues that lead to the last straw, but understanding as a man that your husband has created this situation… you need to leave. Imagine being 63 and this was your life for the last 3 decades.
Re-read rule 7
Yeah, I knew from the start that she was the one. It just took a lot of patience.
We did not see each other daily, several times per week.
We met through mutual friends and often would be around the friends on a weekly basis, if not several times a week.
All those friends pretty much married someone else in the friend group.
Once she agreed to date, then we saw each other daily.
Best case he’s enlightened and can compartmentalize the difference. Worse case he sees this as monetizing you.
Honestly this smacks of him wanting YOU to be exclusive but HE can still see others. Regardless, he’s shown he’s not on the same page as you maturity/emotion-wise so it’s best if you move on.
Guys can turn down sex and it won't be your fault. He was drunk, so obviously he might have had whiskey dick.
And how did your family react to that? Did you have a one in one conversation with them, and did they accept it?
Not that they needed to accept anything, it's your life, but ye i guess what I'm trying to ask is how is yours and your husband's relationships with both of your families?
Since you saw them in the middle of this sex was your sister a willing participant, or was she completely out of it & obliterated drunk?
You already know you've married a cheater, now you need to decide if you've married a rapist, because that's the way it looks.
was your husband drunk too?
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A bit of background. My wife has a teenage daughter from a previous marriage who hates me. I have an eight-year-old daughter from a previous marriage whom my wife doesn't like because she believes that my ex-wife is using her as a weapon to destroy my current marriage. One night a couple months ago, my wife and I got into a nasty argument over something very trivial. My wife, being upset, spit on me while I was sitting and she was standing. Shocked, I jumped up and pretended I was going to hit her (which I didn't do and didn't intend on doing) in an attempt to get her to retreat. The intimidation tactic worked, but it also prompted her to file a no-contact restraining order against me the next day. In addition to the restraining order, the officer who took the report decided to file assault and threatening charges. So I moved in with my parents temporarily. My wife had been inundating my father with emails complaining about me. Never having studied the details of the no-contact order, I told my father to remind my wife to please feed my daughter's turtle and to consider dropping the criminal charges. Meanwhile, my wife's daughter had stolen my wife's password and was looking at all her emails. And when she saw what my father had mentioned, she realized it was a violation of the no-contact order and contacted the police. Her mother had to approve the report because her daughter is a minor, thought she would have never reported me if her daughter hadn't pushed her to do so. I was handcuffed and led away the next day. Luckily my lawyer was able to keep me out of jail and get me probation. Note, I have never been in any legal trouble before, I had never even been arrested before. My friends and family are all strongly pushing me to divorce my wife, my parents even telling me that they will disown me if I don't. Most people I know tell me I am crazy for not terminating the marriage right when my wife “signed off” on me getting in legal trouble. I still love my wife and she still loves me. But my family and friends hate her because of the legal situation and her daughter hates me because she wants to see her parents together. What do I do? Do I file for divorce or try to make the severely damaged marriage work? Am I crazy for continuing the marriage after my wife signed off on almost landing me in jail? Or are my friends and family crazy for trying to push me towards divorce?
Someone who truly loves you and wants you to be happy would never ever threaten to kill you or your hypothetical, future partner. Never.
Aww I’m glad my comment made a difference to you! Reddit can be a rough place to get advice from because it can pretty hostile. And that’s the last thing you need when you’re trying to navigate a difficult situation. And remember, you are allowed to feel your feelings and your experience is valid. Your’e not crazy?
It’s how you respond to the situation that changes things. Constructive conversation is a great way to to address your feelings without attacking or making yourself feel resentful for staying quiet.
I am glad found solace in my response. Best of luck to you
I already used that joke on the first post.
There’s no way to fix it without ruining everything. Your choices have consequences.
Welcome to the consequences.
He’s probably ugly. Attractive people, or at least people with a semblance of self esteem don’t say such things.
Going forward, please don’t agree to date people you’ve never seen
Actions speak louder than words. She can reassure you all day long, but there’s no follow-thru with the actual act.
And, insisting that you’re too sensitive is just gaslighting.
Updateme!
Mark made vows to you and HE is the one threatening to end the marriage not you.
Live your life , support your friend and let the controlling asshole you married lump it.
She really needs to leave Tom ( he deserves to be homeless) and you probably need to leave your 'projecting' husband too.
I think you BOTH married cheaters, start looking more closely at YOUR relationship. Because 'The fault you have yourself is the one you most despise in others.'
I don't think parents are jealous of their kids but they do think it's up to them to make the “right” choices for their less intelligent and savvy children and that what it sounds like he thinks about you.
You're too impressionable and weak willed to have a friend living an alternative relationship style. He must save you from yourself.
ADHD meds stop working in 25% of people… 1/4 build tolerance, like your husband. The solution is not to abuse drugs (up the dose to no end), but to talk to his doctor and switch class of medication, e.g. to Ritalin.
Have one of her friends talk to her!
Oh yes, I know the article of which you speak. I haven't had him read it, but I've talked about it. And I've talked about the stress of that mental load. I also get that (sadly) a lot of guys struggle to understand the concept.
I would wager the core issue is wanting to do things, and wanting to be accountable. Not for himself, but for him listening to my needs and desires. That's a long road to walk, and I'm trying to push for baby steps. He is definitely emotionally…lost.
When he was single: he just didn't care. He is a slob by nature. So he didn't do much to self-motivate. And no, he hasn't offered to hire a cleaner himself. I wouldn't want to pay someone to do his things, either, so I'm not an advocate of that. No point in rewarding his failings by paying half that cost.
He is not going to change
Yeah that’s how knocking works
It’s not nefarious, it’s just giving people some space. Personally I just want the warning. I didn’t lock doors growing up but as an adult I prefer to
You can't. She is an adult. She can do as she wishes.
Keep giving her your opinion. And that's it.
The goal is for him to admit to it so we could talk about it
So the answers you don’t then? Is that why you won’t tell me your age? Not learned to count that high yet(
If that's true, then both of you have some emotionally unhealthy boundaries and expectations that need to be worked on. But since you're posting about your specific situation, you have to understand that's what people will focus on. They won't say “oh well she says/believes [xyz], so now your request is fine”. They're going to look objectively. And objectively – regardless of her actions – this one isn't the issue you're making it to be. A part of you probably knows there's some bigger issues there, which is why you were posting for insight.
No, it is not reasonable to get upset about a Twitter mutuas. Liking tweets doesn't mean anything that deeply. Feeling otherwise means there's some trust and insecurity issues, even if you aren't fully realizing it.
It sounds like she also behaves the same, though, so I think the real issue is much bigger and you both need some emotional growth here. I'm not sure how long you've been together, but if you're both going to spend the relationship feeding into each other's emotionally unhealthy tendencies and insecurities, it's not going to benefit you any in life.
Best of luck and I hope you find some clarity and peace!
I would caution you against “warning” her.
He’s probably showing her a very charming side and painting you in a negative light – painting himself as a long suffering victim most likely.
She will be thinking he’s a great guy, and that he’d be better off with her.
Also when you say something she will run back to him and tell him (because she thinks he’s the victim and your trying to put him down to stake your claim).
What will he do to you when she tells him?
Honestly you need to get yourself away. Don’t stay with him to protect other women.
Are you sure she’s not meeting friends at the disco?
It is odd that she’s planning to go out after your date – as if she knows your date will end early?
Does her employer have policies about no hooking between employees? Is this colleague her boss or subordinate?
No, I do not know that saying, but it’s a good one.
Congratulations on collecting all of the red flags OP.
Leave. Run infact.
He's far too old for you. He is trying to baby trap you. Or atleast, does not respect your wishes regarding contraceptives. He's cold and manipulative. He is using you to fulfil his sexual desires and does not care about you outside of that.
Leave. Run. Leave. Leave. LEAVE!
Apologise by your actions. Show him how important he is to you. How much you appreciate him. Tell him how much you love him and all the good things about him.
The past has been about you, make the present about him and you & him.
And forgive yourself – you know now you wouldn't do what you did back then. You were poorly and you are owning it and trying your best to make it good.
You can't change what's gone, but you can absolutely make the very best of the here & now and what's to come. You are making him happy ?
I write this from an experience similar to but not the same as yours.
Wishing you all the luck ❤
THIS IS A RAGE BAIT TROLL. CAN WE MAKE IT A THING TO PLEASE STOP BELIEVING THEM.
and I know she loves me too
Love is more than what you feel. Love is what you do, and the choices you make.
This woman has shown that she does not love you with her actions.
It is time to protect yourself and remove this lady from your life.
You are actively sabotaging your happiness by throwing away effort after this relationship when you should be using that energy to focus on yourself and your grieving and healing process.
You are the side piece my friend. And she is a toxic narcissist. Cut toxic people out of your life.