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Come enjoy a show with a 60-year-old veteran
Date: November 30, 2022
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I (F27) believe giving a key to someone doesn't mean moving in.
Unless they're just coming over to water plants or take care of your dog thus is more or less acknowledging that your space is their space imo. They may as well have moved in if they have that much access.
I feel the upmost disgust when he tries to even hug me.
That's really bad. You need to get to the source of your intimacy issues or you'll likely end up breaking up.
He is using you as a sex slave. And manipulating you with his child to keep you in his bedroom.
You need to run away now before you get pregnant or something.
Love isn't this. I'm sorry you feel trapped. But you have the backbone of a women, so pack your shit and leave this guy.
How he feels DOESNT matter.
Yah, it's sounds like an affair. My iPhone does not automatically delete messages.
oh god ? that just makes me feel worse, I don't want him to be sick this is killing me… I love him so much, I don't know what to do, he says he doesn't guarantee he will try it but that maybe he will because he wants to see his maximum capacity …
It won't get better, don't marry this person.
How about both of you come up with a list (together) of 20 things you could do during sex. Blow job. Cunnilingus. Sticking a finger up each other's ass. Titty fucking. Ass eating. Full body massage. Cuddling naked. French kissing. Handcuffs. Blindfold. Sex in the car. Sex outdoors. Cam sex via Facetime. Spanking. Licking chocolate syrup off each other's thighs. Remove each other's clothing without using your hands. Foot worship. Lick every single pore on each other's body. Use a vibrator. Role play sex. Have a threesome. Let someone watch you have sex without participating. Dirty talk. Sexting during the day before you meet up for sex in person. Etc. Nothing that either of you is unwilling to try, so either of you is allowed to veto any item on the list.
Cut the paper into slips and draw them out of a container, and then try that item. You could do one or two items each time you get together until you've worked through the entire list.
OP, you are a catch and your friends are rightly calling out that you are not compatible at a deep values level.
If you are not comfortable raising children in a religious home and I would guess that’s a deal breaker for him, you will not stay together.
Also you don’t seem compatible at an ambition or intellectual stimulation level. I believe finances are the number one reason couples fight and break up so money management should not be a taboo topic.
I suppose you can enjoy the ride in the meantime if you really want to. But why stay with someone when you already see the end date? Tbh you could be out dating, meeting all types of interesting, dynamic and ambitious partners who can actually afford to take you out (please tell me you’re not paying for everything so he can pay off debt) and are probably much more your equal.
I’m guessing he doesn’t fit in with your friends and he’s boring af.
Of course he glows when he sees you, he sits home unemployed all day with his pastor parents. He has nothing else to do but practice his witty and enticing lines to keep you hooked while talking about abstinence with them – and then being good in bed with you. He’s also a hypocrite and not a man of his word. (I’m not religious so not shaming, just using logic.)
I would probably be annoyed as your friend and you would in their shoes too.
I am not proud of it
well you should be! You were being supportive and empathetic and that's mostly seen as a good thing. Sometimes, even if the friend thinks they need your support, the support you offer is just enough to make continuing the toxic relationship possible. Like, it didn't matter if he hurt her, because she could cry on your shoulder. You removed your poor aching shoulder and she promptly broke up with him for good. Well done you!
This is not an easy one. Staying out of it altogether is definitely not an unreasonable choice if that's what you want to do.
On the other hand, if you're worried about your good friend because of what you've heard from his wife, it would also not be unreasonable to talk to him about what his wife said. On the other other hand, it's not clear to me from your post that Eve would be okay with you telling Adam what she told you, if she's afraid of him.
So, here's the best I can come up with (and maybe someone else will have a better idea): If you're not sure whether Eve would be okay with you bringing this up to Adam, check with her on whether she wants you to do that. If she says no, then tell her you'll try to keep an eye on Adam's behavior around you but you're not sure what else you can do to help.
If she does want you to talk to him, then tell him about what Eve had said and ask him about how he's feeling, if he knows why she would've said that, if he needs help, etc.
Again, that's just the best I can come up with.
I can’t recall ever thinking to myself “I’m looking for a date. What races shall I restrict myself to in looking?” Frankly, that seems weird to me, and it’s hard to see how it isn’t to some extent at least rooted in fetishization. I mean, Rihanna, Lizzo, Halle Berry, Whoopi Goldberg, Serena Williams, Naomi Campbell, Michelle Obama, Condoleezza Rice, Harriet Tubman – no difference, right, they’re all just “black women”?
But, of course, my dating experience pre-dates swiping left or right in a catalogue, so my opinion probably isn’t relevant.
10% monstrous is a lot actually. That’s almost a day a week to live in fear, feel like absolute crap, walking on eggshells or all of the above. I don’t know your plans for the future but imagine potentially having little kids who would have to cope with this alongside you. My parents used to yell a lot and I’m still traumatized about it in some ways. Even then it was nothing like this. Genuinely sorry this is happening. It’s also time to start your exit strategy asap. Wishing you the best!