The prank? That’s not even a prank, that’s just dumb? There’s nothing actually funny about it.
There was a video online of a women popping a balloon or something to reveal the gender I think and it didn’t work or there was no color. I don’t remember. Anyways, Grandma came over pretending to be over it all and took her wig off, to reveal a blue wig underneath. (Very obviously revealing the babies gender.) That imo is actually funny. There was a joke to it.
Cousin and sister both just seem like annoying, attention seekers
Here’s an crazy idea, don’t conflate two different ideas. Butt for the record there are plenty important things I do that my partner can’t be bothered with and vice versa. That’s a partner ship. Lastly idk how to put it in a way that helps y’all understand. If You want something and someone gives you that something that only you cared about. That’s a personal gift. Whether you like that gift or not is an whole different idea. The sad thing is, if you read ops post he couldn’t afford the stand and probably had to save up to get it. And here you are calling him cheap ?
Love isn’t just about selflessly devoting yourself to another. Your man is taking the love you are offering and giving very little in return. Does he want the best for you too? I don’t think he is able to in the face of his addiction.
Alcohol will always be more important to him unless he comes to his own decision to seek help and follows through with it.
It is hard to watch someone you care about go through this. Please respect yourself and find a way to leave the situation that you are currently in. This will not get better. There’s nothing that you can do to fix it and I know that it’s completely heartbreaking to watch a loved one continue down this path. The reality is that a future with the person you are currently with will bring only hardship and pain.
He sounds like a jerk. If you have a child whose trans, gay, etc, would you be ok knowing he would shun them and think awful things about them? Time for him to go.
You are wrong. My brother is a cop and he has been part of retrieving animals in similar circumstances at least a dozen times. OP just needs to prove ownership. A text chain where husband admits to having removed the cat without permission would be helpful but establishing ownership is the key factor.
Alternate ideas: what is the nature of the work he has to do? Does he work from home? In an office? If they’re getting “free whenever” work from him (instead of the much better labour they would get from a paid employee) then can he just show up with his baby in a carrier and do work while dadding?
Lots of parents work while parenting babies. Is it super productive? No. But it might be a reasonable solution.
So for th next 7 months, he works Sundays. And for the following 12 months, he brings baby in to work.
Yea you do know people can lie right? Not everyone is a saint and will be loyal and clearly it’s only a matter of time my friend but it’s up to you to decide. I have seen many stories and if she really was serious about you she wouldn’t eve entertain him she would have either told him to stop or would have blocked him
If she's a committed, practicing Mormon, then you're either gonna have to convert (do not do this) or this relationship is toast.
She’s not interested and you need to move on.
People who like you don’t ghost and delete you from their contacts. If someone likes you they will reach out to you, not avoid you.
Eh, I'll give you the last two but asexual people do have sex? Asexual people can even enjoy sex.
The prank? That’s not even a prank, that’s just dumb? There’s nothing actually funny about it.
There was a video online of a women popping a balloon or something to reveal the gender I think and it didn’t work or there was no color. I don’t remember. Anyways, Grandma came over pretending to be over it all and took her wig off, to reveal a blue wig underneath. (Very obviously revealing the babies gender.) That imo is actually funny. There was a joke to it.
Cousin and sister both just seem like annoying, attention seekers
Run.
Here’s an crazy idea, don’t conflate two different ideas. Butt for the record there are plenty important things I do that my partner can’t be bothered with and vice versa. That’s a partner ship. Lastly idk how to put it in a way that helps y’all understand. If You want something and someone gives you that something that only you cared about. That’s a personal gift. Whether you like that gift or not is an whole different idea. The sad thing is, if you read ops post he couldn’t afford the stand and probably had to save up to get it. And here you are calling him cheap ?
Unfortunately, he doesn’t seem mature enough for therapy. Therapists don’t like their nostrils or belly fat pinched.
Love isn’t just about selflessly devoting yourself to another. Your man is taking the love you are offering and giving very little in return. Does he want the best for you too? I don’t think he is able to in the face of his addiction.
Alcohol will always be more important to him unless he comes to his own decision to seek help and follows through with it.
It is hard to watch someone you care about go through this. Please respect yourself and find a way to leave the situation that you are currently in. This will not get better. There’s nothing that you can do to fix it and I know that it’s completely heartbreaking to watch a loved one continue down this path. The reality is that a future with the person you are currently with will bring only hardship and pain.
Normal and healthy people don't rank people. Not out loud, or in their head.
How is all of this about you
The marriage was perfect for him… wife sounds overloaded.
thank you for your genuine reply, honestly very helpful!
He sounds like a jerk. If you have a child whose trans, gay, etc, would you be ok knowing he would shun them and think awful things about them? Time for him to go.
Yep….this is the way.
Dou know the wae
You are wrong. My brother is a cop and he has been part of retrieving animals in similar circumstances at least a dozen times. OP just needs to prove ownership. A text chain where husband admits to having removed the cat without permission would be helpful but establishing ownership is the key factor.
I’m glad I wasn’t the only to automatically think art room.
Alternate ideas: what is the nature of the work he has to do? Does he work from home? In an office? If they’re getting “free whenever” work from him (instead of the much better labour they would get from a paid employee) then can he just show up with his baby in a carrier and do work while dadding?
Lots of parents work while parenting babies. Is it super productive? No. But it might be a reasonable solution.
So for th next 7 months, he works Sundays. And for the following 12 months, he brings baby in to work.
Yea you do know people can lie right? Not everyone is a saint and will be loyal and clearly it’s only a matter of time my friend but it’s up to you to decide. I have seen many stories and if she really was serious about you she wouldn’t eve entertain him she would have either told him to stop or would have blocked him