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This doesn't sound good on the surface. Sounds like a step backwards. But, it also sounds like a solution that was born out of frustration (quick and not fully thought out).
There may be a better way for that boundary to be drawn. My advice is to immediately follow the new boundary, but then also show her how much of a pain in the ass it would be for both of you. Don't be obnoxious and over do it. In other words, don't increase the amount you'd give affection. Keep it as close to “normal” as possible. Even at a normal level, asking for permission every time would be annoying (I would think). Also, pay attention to her responses, body language and facial expressions. If you see any hint of displeasure, inquire about it. Ask if there is a better rule of thumb or a better way to for that boundary to be drawn. “So I've been doing this thing for a week now, and I see that my asking is frustrating you. Do you think we could make a more general boundary that isn't so annoying to both of us?”
Additionally, I don't feel like a rule like this is sustainable for the long haul without also making a habit. She's gotta understand that switching from blanket consent to “ask every time” will be difficult and yer going to fuck it up at first.
It sounds to me that something isn't being communicated. You both need to be hyper honest and forthcoming with information/feelings.
Practicing the rule she already set and paying attention to her reactions and noticing/remembering the times when she says no or expresses displeasure, may teach you when she feels it's appropriate for that affection type. Once you have more awareness and learn her better, there may not be a need for that rule anymore. Or, you'll figure out that you aren't compatible.
Thats what I want to tell her “why did you even want a relationship, knowing that you're like this?” But that would just lead to the “maybe we should break up” conversation.. but nahh I don't want that. We're good together. She just has her insecure moments
What do you mean, โbecause people ruin good thingsโ?
I honestly donโt care for social media at all. Itโs all fake garbage.
Does she want you to post her photos to show people you have a gf. Is she jealous of girls you are interacting with?
Just take a couples selfie and post it wherever she wants you to you. Tag her in it and write a nice caption that you love her. That should solve whatever issue it is that she has.
This doesn't sound good on the surface. Sounds like a step backwards. But, it also sounds like a solution that was born out of frustration (quick and not fully thought out).
There may be a better way for that boundary to be drawn. My advice is to immediately follow the new boundary, but then also show her how much of a pain in the ass it would be for both of you. Don't be obnoxious and over do it. In other words, don't increase the amount you'd give affection. Keep it as close to “normal” as possible. Even at a normal level, asking for permission every time would be annoying (I would think). Also, pay attention to her responses, body language and facial expressions. If you see any hint of displeasure, inquire about it. Ask if there is a better rule of thumb or a better way to for that boundary to be drawn. “So I've been doing this thing for a week now, and I see that my asking is frustrating you. Do you think we could make a more general boundary that isn't so annoying to both of us?”
Additionally, I don't feel like a rule like this is sustainable for the long haul without also making a habit. She's gotta understand that switching from blanket consent to “ask every time” will be difficult and yer going to fuck it up at first.
It sounds to me that something isn't being communicated. You both need to be hyper honest and forthcoming with information/feelings.
Practicing the rule she already set and paying attention to her reactions and noticing/remembering the times when she says no or expresses displeasure, may teach you when she feels it's appropriate for that affection type. Once you have more awareness and learn her better, there may not be a need for that rule anymore. Or, you'll figure out that you aren't compatible.
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Thats what I want to tell her “why did you even want a relationship, knowing that you're like this?” But that would just lead to the “maybe we should break up” conversation.. but nahh I don't want that. We're good together. She just has her insecure moments
What do you mean, โbecause people ruin good thingsโ?
I honestly donโt care for social media at all. Itโs all fake garbage.
Does she want you to post her photos to show people you have a gf. Is she jealous of girls you are interacting with?
Just take a couples selfie and post it wherever she wants you to you. Tag her in it and write a nice caption that you love her. That should solve whatever issue it is that she has.