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Date: November 6, 2022
no contact needs to be forever. people like him like to keep good times in their back pocket for later. he does not EVER deserve to hear your voice or see your eyes ever again. and thats not hateful. its protecting YOU from ever being in his bear trap ever again. you TOTALLY deserve what you THOUGHT you had with this guy….. but with someone worthy. and he AINT worthy
Just ask him out.
How much does he drink and how often? In your post you mentioned you had a discussion about boundaries around his drinking behavior because he was drinking with a male coworker the day before this incident. So drinks with a coworker, goes to work the next day and drinks on shift with customers and coworkers, then drinks after shift with a coworker(s), bad things happen and he obliterates all the drinking boundaries you two agreed on but insists this environment is good for him.
Why did you guys have discussions and agreements about drinking boundaries and behaviors in the first place? Is his drinking an issue?
Do not. I repeat, do NOT ask him to join you.
gf sounds emotionally manipulative. lol at ppl who are saying to take the 350 and do something nice for her. literally all this dude wanted was to buy himself a watch and now she has to buy it bc her feelings matter more and then on top he has to reward her for that? you all are taking crazy pills
To me? Yes, this matters. Let me tell you why. Let's replace your roles here. Let's say it's your boyfriend who wants to celebrate but you don't like celebrating. I feel like nonetheless, because celebrating would make him happy, which would further strengthen the relationship, you would at least make an effort for your boyfriend won't you? Because you would like to see him happy, and seeing him enjoying something will in turn make you happy. You don't have to go all out and exhaust yourself, but you acknowledge his feelings and did do something in the end. Now, back to the situation at hand, your boyfriend is not acknowledging what you wanted. Doesn't that make you feel sad and neglected? He isn't even making any small effort that says “hey, I heard your feelings, so I did something for you, it's not grand but I care about you and I hope this will make you happy.” What do you think his no effort signifies? He probably doesn't think your feelings matter that much at all.
So no, you are not overreacting or expecting too much. If my explanation above still doesn't convince you then let me tell you something personal to me.
My husband shares the same values as your boyfriend, on top of it all, he hates taking pictures. He's not a fan of it at all. Meanwhile I love celebrating and taking pictures, especially since I have a bad memory so pictures helps me to remember the fun times we had, especially when he's retelling me something. My husband acknowledges this, and guess what he does? He has started celebrating every year because I talked to him once about it at the beginning our of relationship, and even takes some of the best photos I've ever had, of the two of us, and me especially. He does it because he knows these things help me be happy and it keeps our relationship and love strong. This is what you partner should have been doing for you.
You guys are not really compatible, and for sure not understanding each other.
Unsure if you can save this. But you may seem to need to have a bit more confidence in yourself. In order to voice that you do understand her and that you will or will not do so. And subsequently do as you said.
She did nothing wrong youve been broken up for almost a year. One of you needs to move out and sell the house. Also the rabbit is as much your fault as hers if you co-own the animals.
I have had someone that wouldn't let me leave them either. What helped me keeping him stay away was having all my friends around me where I expected him to appear. He didn't dear to approach me and drag me back with so many people around.
When someone disgusts you like he did there is no going back. That chick did this on purpose as an abusive pick me “she's not cool like I am misogyny is so fun” type. I assumed she would be an issue as the only woman in a group of 7 people. You need to be gone gone when he comes back. Imagine if you had kids and these were thier “uncles” even my abusive X-husband and all his brothers weren't this bad. They will for sure bring this up forever as the poop situation or something because emotional maturity is for P#ssys.
I'd say if you are finding her attractive then it's time to really put some distance in there. Think about how youd like your gf to behave in a similar situation, if she found herself in a friendship with some guy she felt attracted to, I'm guessing youd be hoping she would pull away from that situation.
Friendships are one thing, but if there is also attraction it's just a firework waiting to go off.
I don't think it's a good idea to socialize with her outside of work, and the texting and convo types sound a little too intimate for me from a platonic viewpoint.
I guess ask yourself this, if you didn't find her attractive, would you be bothering to keep up the contact? I'll bet this isnt the first person of the opposite sex that you've worked with, but if this is the first one youve really clicked with and developed a friendship with, why is that? Do you actually have stuff in common or is this built on the excitement of getting to know someone you are finding attractive? Things to ponder. I'm not saying theres a right way or a wrong way to be friends with someone,I'm just saying this situation deserves some consideration, starting with being bluntly honest with yourself. We all enjoy it when other folks seem to appreciate us, but I think you already know this is borderline damaging to your relationship. Good luck.
This so much!
He dodged a bullet. Being a virgin was very important to him and obviously why he was with you in the first place. You should have told him the truth the first chance you got, but instead your relationship was based on you omitting that very important bit of information.