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Date: October 17, 2022
Friends with benefits doesn't exist. Nowhere In the history of the planet has it worked out long-term without one party or the other developing resentment and feelings moreso than the other. Fwb is a relationship, it's a new age myth
I am sorry you went through this as a man. I think others said it very well, don’t try to get revenge just process your feelings and get past it. You will be stronger for it.
what did you do to get your bf beat up?
when he proposed to me and I had a panic attack
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Technically yes, but beware the busybody with a hammer…
You don't. Its physical attraction. Its overall pretty gross if you ask me. She groomed him basically.
She wants to get back together
Thata fucking weird and not normal and I'm suprised you were this calm. I'd be furious. Outside of porn in relationship problems, there's also the fact he forced something sexual into your environment without asking. This is a form of sexual harrasment.
Cool story what advice do you need?
Sorry but I have a GF and I am not gonna do this
And when the baby wakes?
What the fuck? He just held you hostage OP, you need to leave him as soon as possible.
It sounds like your husband's wishes are for you to be distant from your children, and your wishes are to be closer to your children. I doubt you're going to find a way to satisfy both.
You get one life to live. Do you want to spend it making yourself happy by bonding with and celebrating your family, or your husband happy by sitting at home listening to him say mean, bitter things about your children?
That’s a mind-f**k huh? Wow. He doesn’t want to make a shift but doesn’t want anyone else to step in either. I bet he enjoys the attention or imagined attention he will get with you single and feels it threatened by other options.
Which, tbh, doesn’t make him sound like a great friend or person
Booooooooo
Oh, I can 100% empathise with her. She's made a horrible, pointless mistake – and she realised that it was a horrible mistake within minutes of making it. I can't imagine there's anyone who hasn't desperately wished they could take back something they've said or undo something that they've done at some point in their lives.
Doesn't change the fact that she massively hurt him in the process, but I wouldn't wish that feeling on my worst enemy either.
Realizing that now! Just didn’t know how involved I needed to be in assuring this didn’t go to far!
Black out rage or black out fear, fight or flight?.
I believe it's the latter. If you let them up they could beat you to a pulp stab you, whatever. Once you go down the road if fighting you can't just stop, else you'll be harmed, and that's what you started fighting for to prevent… You let them run out, the bastards know they can come back.
Tell her you were shit scared and more scared once you got hold of him.
If you think your boyfriend (this guy or in the future) will stop looking at other women completely… I’m sorry but that’s delusional . I’m not saying him sending photos to friends is normal or not, but humans will find other humans attractive even when they’re in a relationship.
At this point, I’m frozen. I genuinely don’t know what to say. I’m gobsmacked. The dude I thought was my best friend, who never even showed interest in the dating thing, is under the idea that we’ve been dating for a whole year. I’m silent while he continues hugging me and scrolling on his phone, racking my brain thinking about what to tell him when his phone starts ringing. It’s his mom, which he puts on speaker and she deadass goes “Hi. Are you still with your girlfriend?” Oh, so now his mom thinks we’re dating too?! He tells her yes, asks why she called. She asks for his help with private stuff I will not divulge here, he turns to me and goes “Sorry, I’ll be back in a bit, sweetheart.”
Honestly considering nothing has occurred for an entire year and then these things have happened immediately one after the other in a very short period of time leads me to believe he's trying to gaslight you into a relationship.
A list of his deficiencies lowers you to his level, and will feel like tit for tat revenge. You’re better than that. Counselling is the answer, as at this point, you need an impartial mediator.
His wife isn’t talking to hom
Psych medications are not narcotics, he needs an evaluation and possibly medication. Therapy is what he really needs.
Go no contact. It’s the best thing.
You can’t worry about what he’ll do. Most of the time threats of suicide is used as a manipulation to get people to stay. If you’re truly worried he might do it, share this info with his mom, brother, grandma, whoever and tell him that if he does so again with you, you’ll call the authorities to have him evaluate him for a 72 hour psyche hold.
You have to do what’s best for you. Not him. Don’t feel guilty for doing it.
This. And she's been pining for him for 7 whole years, the entirety of the relationship. She never cared about OP from the start.
This is disappointing and disrespectful. I’m afraid you need to think about whether these guys are actually your friends or can even be trusted (e.g. what’s driving their discussions and advice to you?)
Hope you get some real understanding and support from other friends OP.
Yeah, if they agreed to not having 5 drinks in 1 night, to save money, is 1 drink for 5 nights different? From a savings perspective, at least.
Good luck. Rooting for you to make this work.
I agree but it would be an extremely uncomfortable conversation regardless of the answer and I am looking for more subtle solutions I suppose.
Honestly, this is one of those circumstances you should snoop.