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Henriette and Sebastian, 25 y.o.
Location: Next Door 🙂 and again sorry for the noise !!!
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Date: October 14, 2022
Not necessarily.
You can get a bachelors from a credible online school for maybe $40k or even less
Before the end of the first date.
And it’s a bit weird to be thinking of him as a future step dad. You haven’t even gone on a date yet. Just spend time with him and have fun together, get to know each other. But DO tell him about the baby in the first part of the date.
Stop f*cking a married man!! Don't be nasty and disgusting!
Basically what I'm doing now. I'm buying my own food and not cleaning his messes. I'm telling him he's got 8 months to find a space and give me my money, but I'm just going to avoid him until then. My schooling is too important.
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All you need to do now is work out your next steps in how to manage by yourself, or find someone to do whatever you need with you for a while.
Everything else is just noise.
He planned this and planned to tell you whilst you were away, he gave no thought to it being Christmas. He knows you won't forgive him. It doesn't matter why he did it.
Isolating yourself is fine, but try to distract yourself with watching something or maybe go down and play a game for a while and just take breaks when you need it. Imagine this is a space that is safe until you have to go home.
Seems so bizarre to ask your neighbors…just drama waiting to happen!
Dude needs to learn a hard lesson that his actions were unacceptable and beyond shitty (technically assault) by you dumping him in the dirt and moving on with your life. I know it's hard to untangle lives if you are living together, leases and whatever but this is a relationship ending betrayal and if you stay you are giving him permission to do things like this to you because he knows you won't leave.
Oh god, this is a good point. I wouldn't want someone like that while I'm in labour.
Dude. You need to calm tf down. As a person who is pretty freshly pregnant with my second, this is literally just a phase of life. I wont say I know all the nitty gritty details, but life is about to change a whole fuckin lot. Way more than you could EVER anticipate. Pregnancy is super hard. It makes it hard to do anything, and can be incredibly mentally taxing as well. Sounds like she is in survival mode and relying on you to help keep her afloat. This is not forever. I repeat, this is not forever. Things will change wether she wants them to or not. You may be picking up the chores for a hot min but that may be the support she needs to care for a newborn. You can also sit down with her and TALK to her about your wants and needs in the relationship. Her hormones are going to be insane for a while longer. Even PP is going to be a wild ride. So please calm down, see the bigger picture, and quit assuming your relationship is trash because you are both going through MAJOR changes. Your not gunna last in any relationship with that attitude and your certainly have a hard time being a parent with it.
Yes, he is. His username is not difficult to find and it’s clear that he’s a misogynist who blames his wife for everything wrong in his life. His delusion spans multiple areas. It doesn’t help that he’s found subreddits that fuel his obsession and hatred related to women.
I’m sorry you are dealing with this, OP. You deserve happiness and you should leave him and find it. Please take measures to stay safe as suggested by others here.
I was you! I didn't imagine I would come across someone in the same situation. He was great at first. Then I spent 18 years feeling so very lonely. I'm a year out of the relief, and he is her problem now. I hear it is not all Honeymoon, but I don't care, to be honest. I have not been nearly as lonely alone. I feel freer than I have in years. I regret giving so much time to a man who was obsessed with another woman.
Yeah, it’s the woman’s fault she’s abused.
Thank you, everyone, for the comments. I came on here more for reassurance & to confirm that I'm not over-thinking this. I know from what I've described the answer seems so obvious and easy, but it is far from easy and the outcome may be the most difficult thing I will ever go through. We've been through so much, and he is my best friend. But you're all right, I deserve so so so much more. I deserve respect, love, and better hygiene. I have to have a very difficult conversation with him and he will have to decide between cleaning up his act (and himself) & going to therapy or end our relationship. Thank you all again, I'll keep you updated.
Report it anonymously to both his licensing board and to the Police.
Even if they don't act on it it will be on his record so the next time he assaults someone they will be believed.
This is a short post, so there is a lot missing in the above. There was a lot of stress during the journey, I had a lot of learning moments, and I know I could have been better, like valuing more leisure time and hobbies with her, but I feel like I’m being punished now.
Well, you did go and do what you wanted despite her not wanting you to, and you did subject her to 'a lot of stress' over the course of what seems like three years. I mean, lines like this:
At the time I knew things would work out and so I powered through so I can provide the best I could.
Don't exactly paint you in a good light – not to mention that people don't necessarily want a provider, they want a partner. If you've been subjecting her to a bunch of stress in pursuing your dreams after she asked you not to, I'm not surprised she's pissed. How can she trust that you're not going to vanish down another rabbit hole the next time this bug bites you? It's not like you listened to her the first time.
I don’t know where you live, but in U.K, hentai depicting under 18s is illegal here. For good reasons.
You keep saying he hasn’t accessed this folder in years, so why is the folder still there? Why is he keeping it? I’m guessing a porn collection of that calibre takes up quite a bit of space.
Don't make someone your priority who has made you their option.
I'm not saying she can't be a good friend but if she is holding you back from getting serious with someone, you need to reconsider making her a priority in your life.
Deep feelings to be potentially explored down the line is not ideal for you. If you are the”when I'm ready to be serious”, what does this relationship look like in the future? One hangs on to the “best friend” until the friend finds someone they want to get serious with. They'll have some sort of drama with the person they're dating, assuming their backup bestie will come running. I've seen this play out countless times between “best friends” and have been in a situation where I realized someone was waiting around for me. Please revaluate your relationship.
Don't date or hit on people you work with. It will only end badly and you open yourself up to HR issues.
“But I have never not managed to keep my head above water”
She’s at the age she’s looking to settle down and start a family and you’re nowhere near ready for that because keeping your head above water is the MINIMUM and she’s looking for more
She’s being smart about things so good for her
Bringing a friend along to cut the tension is a great idea
I’d definitely keep my distance from them after whatever’s been going on with the wife.
You never know what you’re dealing with, next thing you know everyone is talking about you behind their back and locking their husbands up ?
If she wants to be friends, let her reach out
I'm sorry OP but he chose the other guy(s) over you. He can't be trusted and is now gaslighting you into being “controlling”. There's nothing to save here.
Yeah I agree with you. The only thing is that we’ve known each other for 2 years as we worked together and hung out a lot before all of this.
Lonely and desperate doesn’t really seem to be why you did this. You wanted the thrill of banging ur boss because it’s wrong. You may have problems seeing how wrong doing it again would be because you’re 20 and clearly not the best at good judgement. His gf deserves to know and you should be aware that you are part of the issue here. Cheating ruins peoples lives stop being a coward and go commit to a relationship with someone closer to your age. You will never find peace just randomly hooking up with every dude in a relationship/older dude you meet. Unless you like hurting people and meddling in their lives (it kinda sounds like that’s what you would rather do)
This won't work. Face that fact. She starts dating a woman or another guy you're going to be miserable, jealous, and you're going to drive yourself crazy. What if you decide to start seeing other women since she'll be seeing others and then you meet somebody else and fall in love with them?. Either way your marriage is over she wants her cake and to eat it too and you're not comfortable with that, which is obviously quite normal. That's kind of the point of getting married forsaking all others. You cannot will yourself into accepting this.