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I should’ve worded it differently. More a sexual predator, not just a pervert. And no, I’m not stupid. I guess you’re not familiar with being brainwashed into believing something is ok your entire life. I was always told it wasn’t that bad because he was a kid and he didn’t know better.
*woman
Sure, teenage relationships can grow into adulthood and form a long lasting relationship.
The key like in all relationships is growing together.
At some point you're going to get sick of playing mommy/bang maid.
At some point you're going to want someone who is on your level.
You can't change someone who doesn't want it and as long as your provide for him he'll never grow up.
Yeah, not sure why you thought that joke was funny.
You were coming across like you were bitter that she said no and lashing out for her not returning your feelings.
Ugh you seem to be forgetting she accused him of putting her out to it. I’d be annoyed too if, having had no part in this conversation, was that one that got accused of wrong doing. Not really sure the husband is having a “tantrum” as you put it.
And he is cheating too so she should leave him?
Are you sure you want an exclusive relationship? I only ask because sometimes I wonder if women want an exclusive relationship because that is what we SHOULD want.
If it is what you want then set up some internal time frames. If you are going out around a week then the end of January seems fine.
This is a very serious crime. He could do a lot of time for imprisoning someone against their will.
Police. Before he does it to anyone else.
Good luck finding a woman who isn’t an alcoholic to put up with your alcoholic ass.
Um… how long were y’all together? It does make sense for her to assume that since you’re together and came to the lessons together you would dance together. Her bringing up multiple times she’s felt like you haven’t supported her sounds like she was already over it and this was the last straw. She broke up with you, leave it be.
Girl. What the fuck even is this relationship?
Desperate for any thoughts pls
Hey, i didn’t say it’s good advice, i just said you would get your way…i’m not here giving out good or bad advices, i’m just telling how to get your way, you decide what is good bad for you
OP at best she is weak and easily manipulated which is not a problem that will go away, at worst she agrees with these comments and thinks she deserves better. The reason why this never happened before is because she has never been in an environment like this before – that’s not a reflection of her good character but the fact that she was simply never tested before. The fact that she kept repeating the coworkers’ arguments to you is very telling – someone who didn’t agree with them would have a) nipped that shit in the bud and b) wouldn’t have constantly relayed these opinions to you because what does that even achieve? I know you love her and on the off chance you want to give her a second chance, at the very least do not put a ring on her or buy a place with her yet.
Where do you see this long term ? Will you be together in 5 years? 10 years ?. I think he needs to love himself and focus on his life and other relationships… it doesn't seem fair to you. As a person heading out of there 20's there will be lots of stings . Reading this I didn't notice you mentioning being happy with them. Be open sure but not at your own expense is my advice. Are they a good partner for you ? You may be able to help them and be emotional avaliable but are rhey to you?. Breakups hurt , I know I wanted to go back but you need to remind yourself of how you saw your future and this person doesn't maybe align with you at 25 , or 30.
Cutting ties with a person is a withdrawal. You will miss the connection but over time it fades. I don't think you can be just be friends right away.
So my top voted comment is about anal rape, courtesy of the last thread lol
I'm so glad you've got people to rally around you, Grace is a real G and I'm glad you're bringing backup to pick up your things.
This might take a long time to process fully. Take your time. If you have access to therapy, please utilize it. I'm also super proud you went to the ER, that must've been all sorts of awful.
Take care, ignore the trolls, we're rooting for you ?
Thanks. ♥️
The most important thing you can do here is talk to your partner.
You've said this isn't something that's constantly on your mind, but it's clearly coming up enough that you have a concern. You don't know for sure if this is an issue, or a repressed issue, or if you're just worrying that it might be, or maybe people/things around you are making you feel like it should be.
Regardless of which category this turns out to be, you need to talk this through with your partner. You need to explain that you genuinely aren't sure what you want here. That you're uncertain about how you're feeling and whether you're risking setting yourself up for a life of repression, and her for a life of a quietly resentful partner.
Talk to her about her feelings about sex. Is she sex-repulsed ace, or just indifferent? Does she feel attraction to anyone at all, or in any circumstances? Some people don't have any interest in having sex, but get aroused from watching/reading about the act. Some people physically enjoy sex but don't have any drive to initiate it. Some people don't get much from the act of sex but do like some of the peripheral stuff that goes with it, so they don't mind having sex to get those things.
Tell her you're not sure what you want, so you're not trying to convince her to do anything, you just want to understand if there are sexual activities she'd be interested in sharing with you, to some degree or other.
This is also where, if she says a flat no to any sexual activity of any sort involving her either directly or indirectly (ie, watching, instructing), you can ask her feelings about an open relationship, or other ways you might seek sexual activity independent of her. It's important at this point to present it as “I don't know how I feel about this yet, what about you?”, because asking for an open relationship without ever having discussed the concept has a very high chance of irretrievably damaging a relationship.
You may also want to see a therapist to help you figure out what you're feeling. I highly recommend that a) you tell your partner you're going to do this (finding out later would be an uncomfortable shock), and b) you find a therapist who is ace-friendly. There are sadly a lot of therapists who see asexuality as only ever being the result of trauma or disorders, and as something no partner should ever have to “put up with”. There are also therapists out there who would see a relationship between two women who aren't having regular sex and who would immediately try to convince you that you're just friends and maybe you'd be happier with a man >_< So do your homework first.
Reddit can't tell you how you feel, and we shouldn't tell you how you're supposed to feel. You need to talk to the person you love, who you're sharing your life with, and work together to decide what will be best for you both.
These things are almost never a good idea.
You're both blowing this out of proportion.
Ah. I’m sorry girl – unfortunately there’s not really a cure for jealously. You’ve just gotta decide what kind of person you want to be.
Do you want to be relaxed, happy, confident and secure? Or bitter, repetitive, upset and unreasonable? If it’s the first set of characteristics then fake it til you make it.
What do I do? I don’t know.
What to do about the girl? Tell your BF that she's trying to hurt you, and she needs to be cut out of your lives. If he agrees and goes to condition red, then good. He's on your side. If he hesitates and pulls “but she's my friend”/”you're controlling”, then dump him.
You seem like you understand what's happening here, and you know what you have to do. And you know why. So I just want you to imagine how much respect for yourself you will lose if you don't act on that knowledge. I don't care about him or his wife or his dog.
But I care about you, and you doing what you know is right for yourself and others. Stand up for yourself and for what you know is correct. Block his number. And call him out publicly. and then wash her hands of him and make room for somebody who is not such a duplicitous jerk.
know I've been in abusive relationships before and they felt nothing like this. He's not like those guys this is the first time he's ever done something like this. I just don't know how we can recover. Any advice about how to get through this would be appreciated.
First time almost turned out to be the last day of your marriage
This is the literal definition of abuse.
He took a very “pen and paper” problem and went straight to divorce. He's creating an artificial void for you to sink in. It's a tactic developed to get a “Yes” out of you everytime.
Everytime you bring up “chores” “equal or “uniform distribution of responsibilities” he'll head straight to
I want divorce
I'm sorry, i Don't know why i did that
Ya don't have to take me back (a white page for you to sign, coz he knows acknowledging his designed “mistake” will make you feel otherwise about him.)
We'll work out on this. “Therapy, individual and couples” yada yada annd as time passes he'll revet to day one dark
Rinse and Repeat so i don't have to do chores.
He'll put that much effort to avoid responsibility but won't improve
I wasn't trying to secretly rephrase anything I blunty told them to think about it differently