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I've dated some women with self-esteem issues due to emotionally abusive exs, but this is extreme. At least OP seems to understand that this is her problem, not his. Unfortunately, logic rarely overcomes emotion when it's an emotional issue to begin with, so keeping it from being his problem doesn't seem likely. This is will require a lot of patience on both their parts.
if only i had the guts 🙁
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You deserve better. He needs help and a sex worker. Reading this made me tired
When your political affiliation is your identity. Oof.
if that were true, i would say, “asking for friend”…haha.
Info: your younger brothers, are they Mum’s kids in Dad’s custody?
My mother has an all-or-nothing view of loyalty and it’s very unhealthy. Okay it’s incredibly toxic. Your mum is also making relationships that are not at all about her, about her. If these are patterns in your relationship with her, you might need some therapy. If your relationships with Dad and brothers are more healthy for you than her, you might just benefit from using the ultimatum to take some space from her.
How to do that is up to you. Pre-therapy me moved out, screened calls, and stopped answering questions that I knew were designed to create drama. Post therapy me would probably to tell her that the fact that she would threaten to abandon you over this tells you that she doesn’t seem to value you a whole lot, and you need to take some time to think about this. Therapy essentially gave me ways to think about the relationship with more objectivity and less attachment.
Having a toxic mom and not doing this work really messed up all relationships in my life, because I started out with such a warped view of what love is actually about. Being used to hurt a bunch of other relationships, ain’t it. That’s selfishness bordering on narcissistic or even machiavellian behavior and it’s not like love at all. Another sign is that she is unable or unwilling to see your perspective. That’s not what you do if you care about how someone feels or whether your offspring gets enough connection in their life. Not caring is also not love.
His wife can more be with the other person freely and OP can be single That's the best resolution
He isn't doing anything wrong. It sounds as if he is following a judge's order. He has told his attorney that he finds this objectionable and hopefully it will be brought up to the judge. Until then he has to comply. If he were to refuse, it could affect the custody arrangement in place. He really can't risk it.
If you find this too much to deal with then break up. No one can make that determination for you.
Yo…you not worried about this guy? I don't personally believe in coincidences.
Guy who is a threat to your marriage just happens to be on the list of people, and just happens to reach out to you the morning after? Fuck that, that's not a coincidence.
I’m with you. My first comment would be “you realise I’m going to discuss this time off with employee directly”
Unless it is unexpected sick leave (think laryngitis or hospitalisation) or family emergency, I would not be talking to the non-staff member about leave. And in those cases I would probably follow up with an email, sms, note in HR system (which notifies employee) about what was agreed.
PS – for 2 hours I would still send the employee a message
I got that feeling, too.
Personally I would stay away from all of this drama. And if they don’t want anything to do with you, not much else for you to do anyway. Seems as if additional communication is going to fuel the fire.
no… no you should not. you need to break it off, and block him. Don't unblock him, don't give him a 3rd of 4th chance… he's shown you exactly who he is. Its only been a year and it sounds like you two are constantly fighting and he's constantly threatening to cheat. Why would you want to commit to that type of behavior. when someone shows you who they are… believe them.. and he's shown you that he is manipulative, childish, selfish, can't respect boundaries, thinks he's better than you…. its all about control. He doesn't care what you want, he wants someone he can control. Why would you want to put up with that?
And no, these behaviors won't go away if you get married.. they will just change.. get married and it will be something else. And is that really what you want… like the most unromantic marriage every.. “oh we got married because he was emotionally abusive and so I gave in and married him because he said he would stop being emotionally abusive if I just married him”
Guy is like a field of red flags.. you know it.
Ok so this was more than once. He put it ahead of you and the trip you guys are supposed to take. He only got caught cause you found tlwhatevr he dint get to delete first.
He's shady as hell and isn't going to change. He's not even sorry for real. You only know because of what you found. And I'm sire there is way more. I think it's a sex worker and he's paying to cheat on you. Get tested and dump his lying ass. He doesn't give a f about you. Sorry I know you wanted otherwise but this is what it is.
He definitely took advantage of the situation and honestly would consider it rape, even if he actually didn’t spike your drink. Which at the moment sounds likely, but is speculation.
Even if you seem lucid, he was fully aware you were drunk and could not give consent.
I’m sorry this happened to you. It is not your fault, and you have no reason to feel ashamed or badly about yourself.
This ain’t worth salvaging. This guy wants a codependent toxic mess.
Updateme!
Sounds like he needs therapy.