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Date: January 2, 2023
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That last part made me LOL.
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He tried to chat you up when you were 15 and he was 29. That makes him a pedo. I mean you’re 22 now. Would you think it is ok for you to message 15 year olds? You don’t even know him or even like him. Grow a back bone, tell him no, give him his ring back by sending it in the post, and block him!
OP indicated that her co-worker, who is also married, developed feelings. She decided, in the best judgment, to remove herself from a situation that places herself in proximity to infidelity and then told OP. I don’t think OP needs a divorce. I think he was on the right path with therapy but the separation is geared in a way to almost punish her for being vulnerable and upfront with her feelings and putting the relationship they had first. I don’t think that’s fair or helpful or even in OP’s favor.
You think you're educated on their entire belief system and can safely say they all beat women because you have THREE friends who are dating Muslim men? And that's representative of the entire population?
Pedophilia is not a kink. Is a crime. You can't compare the two things. Just because a kink seems “too perverse” for YOU it doesn't mean it's generally wrong for people who practice it and it doesn't mean that you should compare it with a criminal activity because really, they are NOT the same thing. I do not share that kink and for me it would be uncomfortable but it doesn't mean that I'm supposed to shame the people who practice it.
Seriously, start planning a fast exit strategy. Call parents relatives, friends, etc, let them know what’s going on and that you need a place to stay. This bitch you are dating is extremely abusive. What if you had a little sister or lady friend explaining this story to you? What would you tell them? Start documenting incidents too. I also suggest calling a domestic violence hotline, they are available for men too.
Dude! You need to live your own life for a while. Even if you don't break up you two need to live apart until she grows up and matures a little.
But if it's not just a matter of her growing up, but it's her true personality, then think if you really want a life with a glass that's only half full. In other words can you be 100% OK with her clinginess and emotional issues when you're not paying 100% attention to her?
Thank you, I feel somewhat responsible for her. We have been through many things that I cannot forget, but I am tired of being disposable, 10 break-ups later and I am mentally exhausted. I love her, but I feel bullied, the worst is always assumed of me.
Hey reddit why do I get a headache every time I beat my skull against the wall? edit* I already tried beating my skull against the wall further and it hasn’t helped so far.
I don't need to read this. Sexting is cheating and it's a deal breaker. Next!
If his idea of disgusting is an image of his baby, he’s not ready to be a dad. My husband has been peed, pooped, and thrown up on by our baby. He watched God knows what come out of me when they broke my water at the hospital. He was in the room for my c-section.
Go without him
If she was too drunk remember then she was too drunk to consent. There's a very real possibility that your husband raped your sister.
Get a lawyer.
How tf does she thinks you can replace her with a pillow ? I have jealous issues sometimes but not like this and acting crazy holy fuck
Let the girl orgasm if she wants. If it bothers you… leave the room.
Ok
I mean the only advice you need is legal advice and to get a divorce
Why are you the only one that loves him? Isn't that such an obvious red flag? HE SENT HIS EX TO THE HOSPITAL! Is that not a red flag? My god; leave before he puts you in the graveyard!
Wow OP. I’ve been cheated on multiple times with multiple partners (thankfully not a fiancé). It’s pretty much the worst pain I’ve felt in the world. I’m happy you have friends taking care of you.
It sounds like you know what you need to do, but know Internet strangers are thinking of you. Seriously, my heart goes out to you.
Wow OP. I’ve been cheated on multiple times with multiple partners (thankfully not a fiancé). It’s pretty much the worst pain I’ve felt in the world. I’m happy you have friends taking care of you.
It sounds like you know what you need to do, but know Internet strangers are thinking of you. Seriously, my heart goes out to you.
Off the bat, you know him better than any of us so it’ll be hard for any of us to suggest the proper way to do something like this not knowing the type of person he is or humor he has. Be mindful of that.
Having said that, I have an idea that you’ll have to be very careful with. If he’s a hardcore gamer (and full disclosure I’m not), I’d assume that he or his profile(s) have an existing reputation and data saved accordingly.
Now, maybe it’s all saved or backed up in the cloud and this wouldn’t be an issue anyway, but I’ll assume you’re not sure if that’s the case.
As such, depending on how well you know his humor, you could consider telling him that you accidentally broke his laptop doing [make it up]. Just make sure you keep it safe.
At that point you can decide on how far you want to go with it based on how he responds. Then present him with the gift. Good luck.
First of all. He was assaulted/raped. We also don’t know if he truly impregnated someone or even slept with her for that matter bc everything about the story seems incredibly suspicious. Stop blaming him when he was blackout and the girl was stone cold sober. He was assaulted. He was unable to consent.
Let it slide lmao yes. Please break up with her so she doesn’t have to deal with your insecurity any longer.
Sexuality and attraction doesn't have to be rigid. It's possible you're just into him and his body now or later is of little consequence to you. Personally I don't care what someone's genitals and presentation is if I like them I just do.
If at some point you realize that you're not attracted to men then it would be unfair and invalidating to continue any further advances in a romantic or sexual nature.
The best solution to this is talking to him about how you both feel.
Do you want more kids? You either do and need to be with someone else or why not get one regardless of the marriage working out?
So you can’t even do your own washing or cook a simple meal?
Dude. You are nearly 40. That’s pathetic.
I’m not sororities your partner is suspicious.
Get a recipe book and read the instruction manual for your washing machine.
Dude. You're 27. Stop it.
But, she did lie to you. So I suppose speak to her again if you can't control yourself.
I know, and I will raise it again but it's something he has to choose for himself for it to get him anywhere. I also feel like (from what I read in Reddit comments) therapy seems so much more readily available in most parts of the world than it is in the UK. Our usual route for care is basically a non starter for talking therapies so the alt route is private care which is a whole different world and potentially unrealistic for us at the moment in terms of cost. I'm definitely going to be trying though.
No just women, and I wanted to bring that up
Does Emma know that Marcie is overweight? Knowing that might actually help her feel more secure about the situation. If not, maybe find a way to sneak it into a conversation. You don’t want to make it obvious or mean like “Don’t worry, honey, she’s a real porker!!” but maybe something like “Is there a beginner’s class at your gym? Marcie is concerned about her weight gain because her sister developed diabetes from it. Maybe you could grab a schedule next time you’re there?” Just a suggestion, you know the lay of the land better than I do. It may honestly really help.
Please help!!!
I think it’s super controlling that she’s asking you to cancel this trip, you’re not going off to get wrecked or be an idiot. You fucked up, but her holding it over your head like this is manipulative as hell and I don’t like the vibes I got reading it. I don’t think you should cancel your trip, but be prepared for her to end things because she might. And if that happens, good riddance. You should never have to sacrifice something important to you, and something that would actually be good for the soul (nature and time to yourself), for anyone and nobody should ever ask you to without a very good life or death reason.
Every theory you’re coming up with is speculation unless he has admitted to an affair…… so it is possible the woman in question may have a non sexual relationship with your father
It probably just turns him on to hear you talk about it. I'd lean into it. The next time he asks, give him the penthouse letter version and see how he reacts.