I think the thing you have to deeply consider here is that he waited until you brought it up to say anything to you about his 'potential dealbreaker'.
At some point in the last 6 years, you both agreed on the things that would need to be in place in order to move forward with marriage, Master's degrees completed and making more money. But at some point in the intervening years, he added another condition and then didn't tell you about it. He kept his new condition secret so that you couldn't meet it and now he's using it as an excuse not to marry you. If he really and truly wanted to marry you, he would have told you about that condition so you could meet it. Having a 'secret' condition that he hides from you is more commonly known as an excuse. He's looking for and fabricating excuses not to marry you.
So, what happens now? Do you work on meeting his new (but unspoken) condition just to find out one year, two years, three years from now that he has added another unspoken condition? And you'll have to start from scratch again? Or how will you know if you've met his current condition? How anxious is 'too anxious' and how will you know when you've met his requirement for 'less Type A' and 'less anxiety'. That's really subjective and hard to measure.
But again, aside from all of that, he deliberately hid his marriage condition from you so that you couldn't meet it. And he would've continued hiding it and not bringing it up until you finally forced his hand. Does that sound like someone who is eagerly working towards getting married? Nope. Sounds like someone who is avoiding it at all costs.
Bro you're overthinking it. Delete it and move on if you don't use it. There are less obtuse ways to drop you a line than posting an sc story which everyone on his contacts can see. It has nothing to do with you prob.
It’s nice to take suggestions for gifts. Gifts are just that their gift tokens of affection. I would never tell anybody I didn’t like their gift.
he isnt violating shit since he has never agreed to a rule she tried to impose
I think the thing you have to deeply consider here is that he waited until you brought it up to say anything to you about his 'potential dealbreaker'.
At some point in the last 6 years, you both agreed on the things that would need to be in place in order to move forward with marriage, Master's degrees completed and making more money. But at some point in the intervening years, he added another condition and then didn't tell you about it. He kept his new condition secret so that you couldn't meet it and now he's using it as an excuse not to marry you. If he really and truly wanted to marry you, he would have told you about that condition so you could meet it. Having a 'secret' condition that he hides from you is more commonly known as an excuse. He's looking for and fabricating excuses not to marry you.
So, what happens now? Do you work on meeting his new (but unspoken) condition just to find out one year, two years, three years from now that he has added another unspoken condition? And you'll have to start from scratch again? Or how will you know if you've met his current condition? How anxious is 'too anxious' and how will you know when you've met his requirement for 'less Type A' and 'less anxiety'. That's really subjective and hard to measure.
But again, aside from all of that, he deliberately hid his marriage condition from you so that you couldn't meet it. And he would've continued hiding it and not bringing it up until you finally forced his hand. Does that sound like someone who is eagerly working towards getting married? Nope. Sounds like someone who is avoiding it at all costs.
It's prostitution.
Thank him for finally being honest with you, and tell him to give you his forwarding address so you can send him his stuff.
It's really hard to convince someone in your friend's position. Best thing you can do is stay close to catch him when he falls.
Bro you're overthinking it. Delete it and move on if you don't use it. There are less obtuse ways to drop you a line than posting an sc story which everyone on his contacts can see. It has nothing to do with you prob.
He's moved on. You deserve to as well.
Just get a onesie with a super ripped body printed on the front of it.
No one will know the difference.