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Date: November 29, 2022
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The purpose of dating is to see if you’re a good fit. This doesn’t sound like a good fit. So don’t marry her FFS.
Also, what changed? What are her reasons when you discuss it? Have you two done any premarital couples counseling? Is it something she wants to change or is she fine with the status quo?
Well… it’s normal usage in food service lol. But normal doesn’t matter here, it’s about if it’s a level that makes you uncomfortable. For example: Getting drunk sometimes is “normal” but it’s understandable if you don’t want to date someone who gets drunk, it’s just a compatibility issue.
There's a difference between the pain she feels and the pain you feel.
Her: she's the perpetrator, first of all. She cheated in the first 2 months of your relationship, when it was still fresh and green and when it wasn't yet as precious to her as it is now. There's no excuse for cheating but she sees this as something she broke ages ago and has carefully nurtured and tried very hard to mend.
You: you're the victim. You found out she cheated just now so the break is still fresh, and to you she broke not just the fragile new relationship but also the golden 6 years afterwards that made your relationship precious to you. You see this as a break impossible to mend because it goes to the very heart of your relationship.
Ultimately, it is your choice to either walk away from her or not. It is entirely up to you. You set your terms for a relationship. All anyone else can do is try and offer you perspectives.
If it were me… I know I wouldn't be able to forget, and as a result I probably wouldn't be able to forgive.
I'm likely going to get roasted for this with more downvotes than ever. My ex cheated on me, we divorced over it. She started hooking up with an old high school flame (who was also married) so I've been through the cheating thing.
You're not responsible for your husband's choices. He is. He chose to lie to you and do something that was specifically over the line regarding your defined boundaries. He knew it, he did it and tried to cover his tracks. ALL of those choices are HIS.
We don't know what's going on in your marriage outside of the fact that your husband did this AND you're either pregnant or recently gave birth (thus the leave).
While you aren't responsible for his choices, you may have some responsibility for how he feels in your relationship.
Why couldn't he come to you with what he was feeling that led to this?
Where is your current level of intimacy? It can often be completely gone for couples going through a pregnancy and often men feel neglected or abandoned by their wives BUT at the same time feel guilty for feeling that way because she's freaking pregnant and as much as we absolutely are completely in love with our wifes, want them, need them and all that – the lack of intimacy or the loss of it is EXTREMELY detrimental to our state of mind and being. We often feel like we must stuff those feelings down and be strong, never express that we're hurting in this way because again – you're pregnant, with our child or you just gave birth and the last thing you need is to worry about US. We're supposed to be strong, we're not supposed to need anything.
My ex's pregnancies were really rough on me in this way. I tried to communicate that the loss of intimacy was hurting me a great deal and I was basically told to fuck off, can't you see what I'm dealing with here?
She was kind of right – she was dealing with a lot, she had some postpartum depression going as well and it was ROUGH. Intimacy didn't really return until a couple of years AFTER the first was born. So from my perspective, it ended about 2 months into the pregnancy – I was no longer allowed to touch her. My skin temp was too hot, she hated it. Then it didn't return until she wanted to start working on #2, two years after the birth of our first. So at that point we're fucking like bunnies but it's toward a goal and she's a task master about it and it sucks! It took another two years and as soon as she got pregnant again – back to the routine of 'DON'T TOUCH ME!' No matter how kind I was, no matter how much I helped, no matter what I did – she did not want any intimacy with me. It fucking sucked. I'm surprised I didn't cheat. I threw myself into work which didn't take me out of the house because i worked from home but I ended up working on stuff after she'd go to bed and she would resent me for staying up and working but if I didn't do that (because I didn't do it every night) she wouldn't want any intimacy with me. I was damned if I did and damned if I didn't. It is a VERY Common theme that couples deal with around the challenges of pregnancy and child birth.
Your feelings are valid, what your husband did was wrong. His attempts to hide it are a product of shame very likely and it's possible he's redeemable I imagine and if he is redeemable in the face of these mistakes – that redemption starts with trying to understand why he made the choices he made.
Well sexting him and talking about all the position he would get her into. That’s not respect. Please tell his wife she deserves to know.
Your options are talk to him and try to come to a compromise where he does cook, you decide it’s not a big deal, or you decide it is a big deal and break up.
I don’t understand all these people telling you to be petty. Tell him how you’re feeling and if he can choose whether learning to cook is worth it to keep you
Can you even have a phone without a lock pin? Like how did he actually get to the series of texts without having a passcode?! Who TF has phones without it locking after three minutes?!