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In your defense, you were at least completely up front about your insecurities. Still, that's something you really need to work on, because it's unhealthy.
Now, have you spoken to him about any of these things?
I totally agree and understand what you're saying. I actually went into this dinner with him feeling confident enough to make a move or have the conversation (depending on whatever felt right in the moment) but this conversation sort of derailed my plan/made me second guess our relationship.
Knowing he's comfortable telling me these very intimate details about his life makes me think maybe we are just very close friends and I misread the situation. Or maybe he has lost interest. I guess I was just curious if anyone else agreed this kind of dialogue was indicative of something more platonic than romantic because that is how it felt to me — which was really surprising and jumbled my brain a bit.
I was inclined to shoot my shot but feel kind of like an idiot after this interaction.
Wow. Please break up with this guy. He is a horrible person and so are all his friends.
He is not worth hanging on to. He's not only non-apologetic, but he's accusing you of not being 'fun' enough while you're literally the 'butt of their joke.'
You're not alone to think that this was a mortifying experience you had. I'm so sorry you had to go through what you have gone through.
If you're living together, and the lease is under your name, you should let him know via text that he will have 30 days to leave the premise and that to pack his bags after he gets to your place.
Well now you know she has no problem lying to you. Question everything.
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Age gap wow ??
Did that feel good to get off your chest? A little victim blaming? You have no fucking idea the level of abuse I’ve been through.
You sure you just didn’t get held back a year? Even if a December born started a year later than others of their year they’d graduate at 18.
In your defense, you were at least completely up front about your insecurities. Still, that's something you really need to work on, because it's unhealthy.
Now, have you spoken to him about any of these things?
I totally agree and understand what you're saying. I actually went into this dinner with him feeling confident enough to make a move or have the conversation (depending on whatever felt right in the moment) but this conversation sort of derailed my plan/made me second guess our relationship.
Knowing he's comfortable telling me these very intimate details about his life makes me think maybe we are just very close friends and I misread the situation. Or maybe he has lost interest. I guess I was just curious if anyone else agreed this kind of dialogue was indicative of something more platonic than romantic because that is how it felt to me — which was really surprising and jumbled my brain a bit.
I was inclined to shoot my shot but feel kind of like an idiot after this interaction.
Wow. Please break up with this guy. He is a horrible person and so are all his friends.
He is not worth hanging on to. He's not only non-apologetic, but he's accusing you of not being 'fun' enough while you're literally the 'butt of their joke.'
You're not alone to think that this was a mortifying experience you had. I'm so sorry you had to go through what you have gone through.
If you're living together, and the lease is under your name, you should let him know via text that he will have 30 days to leave the premise and that to pack his bags after he gets to your place.