He's going through a really massive life change. Sit him down, and make him clarify whether he's panicking or genuinely giving you an ultimatum. If it's the latter, he has to go. If it's the former, and he's dealing with the loss of your life together as he knew it or some childhood trauma resurfacing, see if he's open to couples therapy. If he's otherwise worth it, see where his head is.
Are you living the American way of life or just residing there? It sounds like your still practicing old cultures way of life.
If your that unhappy doing what your doing you can leave you know? Same as your husband has the right to go find someone that wants the things you no longer want.
OP, get a good lawyer, best advice I can give you.
He's going through a really massive life change. Sit him down, and make him clarify whether he's panicking or genuinely giving you an ultimatum. If it's the latter, he has to go. If it's the former, and he's dealing with the loss of your life together as he knew it or some childhood trauma resurfacing, see if he's open to couples therapy. If he's otherwise worth it, see where his head is.
You know what, you got a point. It is weird for her to harbor feelings for four years.
Are you living the American way of life or just residing there? It sounds like your still practicing old cultures way of life.
If your that unhappy doing what your doing you can leave you know? Same as your husband has the right to go find someone that wants the things you no longer want.
Your children will adjust to a split family.
Sad to say that you are right. It seems that he is losing interest. It may be time to move on. Sooner is better than later.
Just saying you're not interested in that sounds fine to me.