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Honestly you shouldn't be dating if your self esteem is in the toilet, this is how abusive relationships start. They can see your weak and take advantage of it to gain what they want and it could take you years to get out of a situation like that. You should really take some time to get to know yourself, what kind of boundaries do you need to set? What kind of standards do you want for your partner? What do you like about yourself and what do you think you need to change? You should figure out this stuff and more before pursuing someone or your bound to get hurt
Women and men’s mental health issues can present extremely different, so they are both totally different beasts to tackle. It sounds like their isolation plays a big role, it is so important to have community and be able to interact with other people you can trust and love. I know the situation is frustrating, but try not to villainize wife when you may not understand her issues. It’s important to try and keep compassion for both of them.
I think you should try reaching out and being upfront. Even reaching out to wife about what she is going through and how she feels/can get help. Maybe suggest therapy, meditation, red light therapy, new hobby and maybe monthly dinner nights or something! My main point is at least try to approach it from a positive light and give his wife a chance. If you make her the villain in your mind it may be hard to hide that if you want to approach them about the subject.
But I do think in situations like these it can help to have an outside perspective from someone who is a loving friend/family member. Life is really hard right now for everyone and I don’t think anyone has been the same since covid, so it’s important that we try and love/show compassion for one another more than ever before! But obviously there are healthy boundaries and toxic behavior should not be tolerated.
Personally, I treat people with cluster B personality disorders the way I treat animal-rescue pit bulls: they may be lovable furballs that won't rip your face off and murder you, but I prefer not to take that chance.
My advice is to bail. Decide whether you want to keep the baby and raise it yourself, but bail.
Many abusers have a sweet, sensitive, lavishly romantic side.
if they hated the idea of us being in a relationship so much they wouldn't have let him come meet me even once. he lives with them, they could have stopped him. i personally talked with his mother about him coming again next month, she had no problem with that.
I think you know the answer. How can you ever trust him again? Bring a happy confident mom is what’s best for your child. Children do not need both parents together – they just need them happy and there for them.
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Well then her son has been intoxicated since he was a kid for taking meds for ADHD. I see where she is coming from but that doesn’t mean the mom is right. That is very outdated thinking and she has no right to treat someone who is not her child the way she did. Being upset, fine. Yelling at her, absolutely not fine.
i never claimed it.. i was just happy for the both of us..
It sounds like he doesn't want to put in the effort to make your relationship work.
He has every excuse in the book why he doesn't want to put in that effort. It's almost as if he would prefer to use excuses so he didn't have to actually try. The therapy would help with the depression, but you cannot force him. When you told him the relationship would fail if he didn't get therapy, he turns around and tries to paint you as the villain. The talking over you and wanting everything his way shows he doesn't value your opinion. It's all about compromises and at least hearing the other person out.
I was slightly leaning towards this isn't going to work since he can't put any effort into it and one person doing all the works never can carry a relationship. Once he started cheating online, I changed my mind and figure it's time to end it without doubts.
I don't think you can save this alone….and I don't think he can put the effort into it.
This wanst a dumb mistake, this was premeditated.
really makes me wonder how they made it all the way to marriage and baby
Huge life changes like having a new baby, a loss or gain of a job, a big move, an accident or illness, etc tend to bring out sides of people you've never seen before. It's really easy to live in that honeymoon phase for a while until you have to adult up and wake up to reality of the day to day work of being an adult. Especially with the added responsibility of a child on top. Some people don't adjust well at all.
For most people, with the exception of your children there are always conditions, on men or women. If my husband became a serial puppy murderer, the love is gonna be pretty much gone. lol
So stop enabling her, go out if she’s behaving like this, stop pandering to her little diva strops
Sounds like you guys might need to have a discussion about boundaries… clearly this is something she doesn’t view as cheating, but if it was over the line for you that’s a valid response. The gender of the third person is irrelevant here.
Info: does your wife wanting to forget it ever happened and move on mean that she doesn’t want to go to police but wants to end friendship with “picture thief” or does it mean she wants to pretend it never happened and stay friends with this guy? I would be very suspicious if she wants to continue this friendship. I would happen to show up when you’re not expected often, etc. I’m sorry—this really sucks!
I guess honesty is not one of those things to you.
35, it doubled. Down to twice a day and cuddling in between
I see, okay then need a better phrasing next time
Sorry not quite sure what you mean in what you said. I'm newer to reddit so still trying to get the hang of it. Took me awhile to even figure out how to make a throwaway account lol. I was actually trying to post on my main account but reddit wouldn't let me.
That's fine we can agree to disagree on how many times you think I've asked. Doesn't really matter to me, take all the salt you want.
We have discussed his scars before together. He mentions he wants to get Laser treatment and also how he has used bio oil on them. All hes said is that its itchy.
The new interest was from the most recent time I asked. We were watching tv and the show mentioned a surgery that men sometimes get. And he told me he had gotten that surgery and we discussed why. It was quite a personal surgery so I then asked about these scars to which of course he didn't answer. So there you have it, that my interest.
I mean It is ultimately your body thus your choice. Though, have you asked her why she wants you to get a vasectomy? Maybe she wants to start having penetrative sex with you.
No, it's not true. I was just frustrated and used it to lash out at her.
You are in an unhealthy relationship heading towards being toxic. You know there is no happy future in this relationship. So totally block her on everything to allow yourself time to heal and move on.
You should not be scared being alone temporarily and accept if you want a healthy and happy relationship it is not with your ex-gf.
Your boyfriend has some anger issues. It’s just not something to blow up about. Now you know how he handles mildly frustrating situations. Do you want to figure out how he handles legitimately difficult situations? I wouldn’t.
Thank you!
19 is old enough to know not to cheat on your significant other. Why do y'all treat someone at that age like a child who has no control over his or her actions? All that says about you is you either cheated or accepted cheating from your partner.
he is trying his luck with your more attractive sister
Solid and reasonable advice. There’s no profit in going ballistic.
If she would have been madly in love with you, she would have been all over you and not some rando in a club. You just fast forwarded to find out how deep her feelings really are. That’s actually a good thing.
Hey thanks for your response, can I ask why you think that?
Send him a break up text, block his number, block him on social media and private your account. Change your locks if he has a key to your place. Let your friends/family know incase he reaches out to them and keep them aware incase he starts harassing you because it will come in handy later for a restraining order. If you have to meet him for any reason do it in a neutral public location where other people are there.
As others have said that relationship is over. As you've said it was really over at least 7 months ago. Perfect example of why one shouldn't get financially entangled with romantic partners. You need to talk to the least company for the car and your apartment, explain that the person you were on the lease with has fled the country. Hopefully they can work something out with you. Meanwhile you sell her stuff on craigslist, or go donate it to Goodwill. Don't give her anything to come back to when / if this doesn't work out. Unfortunately nothing any of us can say is going to make you feel any better. You were wronged in every way shape and form. That's going to take time to get over. So in the future when you're ready and you get into a new relationship do your best to keep money totally separate from it. Split the checks when you go out. Don't pay for elaborate vacations or huge gifts like that. She took massive advantage of you and that breach of trust will take time to move past. You have my condolences
For her to have any chance to rebuild trust and save her marriage she needs to immediately go zero contact with him, not travel out of town with him, and resign.
She made this mess and destroyed your trust. Only she can fix it .
Resigning and zero contact is a consequence she brought on herself.
Good luck. I WFM and mine has been off work almost 6 weeks. He just drinks, sleeps til noon and it took him 5 days to clean the bathroom.
Well you're not in her position. If your feelings and intentions are about her then the past does not matter.
Well you're not in her position. If your feelings and intentions are about her then the past does not matter.
Good luck! ?
I will always support her, I love her. Thank you so much for your help
That’s probably true.
OP said she had a job
When my dog was dying I was gutted but, I still was able to use a phone. It's one thing to have a bad day and be busy and just not be able to talk. It's another to ghost you and to cancel you staying with him. Like canceling alone is weird. His dog won't be worse off because you're there – to the contrary it'd probably help it if you were there to help out on occasion.
I think your BF just wants to break up but is a coward, honestly.
Jesus get your car and break up with the crazy chick. Your 18 she's 26 and your the more mature one her life doesn't get better from here, you need to walk away. Jesus christ you let her leave in your car? Stupid.
Probably because she's an abusive groomer.
They tried to under the basis of friends wanting to hang out but they were with another friend too
Thank you alot for actually staying and responding to this thread still It makes me feel a lot better man. Ive been playing the new resident evil non stop, she broke up with me on release day of the game……
Press charges and have her removed from the home. Once she is out, then tell her she will not be welcome back until she gets individual therapy and completes an anger management course.
Not marriage counseling. This is on her.