Your friendship will not be the same after this. It doesn't seem like you're that close these days anyways, since you've been able to date him for 6 months and she doesn't know.
Some people might go about the girl code, but I think it's your choice to date whoever you wish, just be fine with how others will choose to deal with it.
If your relationship progresses as you believe, it's unlikely that she'll want to hang out with you as a couple, so you might only want to let her know out of respect, so she doesn't hear it from other people or gets shocked if she runs into you.
It will be uncomfortable but it needs to be done. You can ask her out for coffee, you can write her a letter, just be honest and tell her the truth about how it happened and how you feel. Just own it and be kind.
Talk to your boyfriend just so he knows you'll be reaching out to her and be on the same page in case she reaches out to him etc.
Why can’t he have kids with women his own age? Because they see him for what he is and know to stay away. Don’t throw away years of your life for this groomer.
Yes,it is hopefully he means what he tells you,and you have nothing to worry about, have faith!!
Your friendship will not be the same after this. It doesn't seem like you're that close these days anyways, since you've been able to date him for 6 months and she doesn't know.
Some people might go about the girl code, but I think it's your choice to date whoever you wish, just be fine with how others will choose to deal with it.
If your relationship progresses as you believe, it's unlikely that she'll want to hang out with you as a couple, so you might only want to let her know out of respect, so she doesn't hear it from other people or gets shocked if she runs into you.
It will be uncomfortable but it needs to be done. You can ask her out for coffee, you can write her a letter, just be honest and tell her the truth about how it happened and how you feel. Just own it and be kind.
Talk to your boyfriend just so he knows you'll be reaching out to her and be on the same page in case she reaches out to him etc.
Divorce the insecure man. Now.
Why can’t he have kids with women his own age? Because they see him for what he is and know to stay away. Don’t throw away years of your life for this groomer.