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Date: January 3, 2023
Most relationships fail. Welcome to dating.
I'm not repulsed with the idea of having sex, I just don't qualify it as an important part of life, or my day to day actions. With the choice of having sex with my boyfriend, or reading a book or playing a video game, I'd much rather do the second choice. That isn't to say that I wouldn't have sex with him, I just don't feel the need or desire to.
If he wanted to curl up and watch a movie, I'm more than happy to do so. Go to a museum (I don't like museums), sure. Paint a ceramic turtle while listening to classical music? Sign me up. I'm just, not interested in sex. Kisses, sure. Snuggles, I live for them.
I just don't know whether it's such a large issue that I should dedicate more time to developing a larger sex drive, or if me participating in every other activity is enough.
I'm 33 and won't go lower than 30. I just can't handle the immaturity.
The point is, she has to make the decision of whether having regular sex is something she wants to do to satisfy her husband or she doesn't, and either okays him having sexual partners or she leaves the marriage. It's not that his needs are more important, but relationships take compromise. Her husband is obviously sick of his needs going unmet
you got a teenager pregnant and ruined her life. now she’s old enough to see that and she wants to leave(:
It was my point too, this.
And how many days do you let her have a few hours to do something with no kids interrupting her?
While I appreciate your sentiment.. the relationship was becoming toxic. We had no spark once we realized we wanted to go in opposite directions in life. Arguments started piling on. It kept going for 5 months like this every argument worse than the last. We defaulted to being friends rather than a couple.
We used to be soulmates i should say. We love each other as people. Being together doesn’t work and never will work for us.
Appreciate the concern, its not quite a surface level thing
I wouldnt rule it out even if he is a doctor; they are human same as us all. What field is he in? A doctor specialising in eyes for example wouldn't necessarily know a lot about psychiatrics
In his head and percieved reality he probably thinks that he is but that doesn't seem to be the case.
Why don't you ask his family or others close to him to all sit down together and try and get through to him about how this behaviour isn't rational. Is it only at you in private that he behaves this way? How is he in other stressed situations?
Bottom line is if this isn't an undiagnosed disorder and you're at the stage your asking Reddit for it's opinion and its getting violent (even if the violence isnt directly aimed at you) you should really be leaving the relationship.
You’ve been cheated on in the past and still getting cheated on now. How did you get out of your past relationship? You need to get out of this one. If he threatens then you call the police or get help to get him out. Focus on your safety and the safety of your child. Get a child support order. You’re single. Since he loves hotels so much he can stay in one permanently.
This is what I would do in your shoes. Do not confront him about it. It’s a waste of time and energy. I would carry on acting as if I’m still in the dark. Collect all the evidence. Screenshot everything, open a secret google account and store everything on that drive. Go to a bank and open a separate back account. Make sure it’s not the bank you use with your husband. Pull out cash every time you go to the store and start squirreling it away little by little.
Start collecting every document that covers your assets. Meet with a few lawyers. You will be working closely with this person for years seeing you have children together. Make sure they are a shark but also someone you can trust.
Start building your support team. Call in trusted friends, let them know what’s happening.
When all that is done, you hand him divorce papers with printouts of all the screenshots. Tell him he has 30 days to move out. If you want to be extra petty, find this woman and send her the printouts too. Tell her you are leaving him over his obsession and lack of involvement of your marriage. Tell her it basically a heads up he might come looking for her and good luck.
Op, ever wonder if your depression was because you are living in an unfulfilled life with a dud of a husband?
Sex is a two way street love the fact you allow him to explore but sex for the sake of one person is awful, it builds bitterness. Tell him no more or just tell him goodbye.
Statistically, couples who move in after being together for less than a year are doomed to fail. You can't possibly truly know someone in that time, as you are learning. It didn't go unnoticed that the first nice things you say about her are that she cooks and cleans, is a nurse and would be a good mother. None of these are personality traits, these are actions. You don't actually like her! You like what she does for you! Do both of you a favor and end this, you aren't happy and as long as you're still in this, you're wasting both yours and her time.
Narcissistic abuse too
Was she raised by fucking cavemen lol
You can’t
Girl, the age gap should have been your first red flag, and this is your second. This is a big red flag. Someone who doesn't respect your body, your health and your decisions is not someone you should be with. Also, trying to penetrate you without your consent is a sexual assault.
I thought that was a nice touch personally but hey I am a graduate of Petty Crocker Baking School sooo I mean.
Lazy, unreliable, immature, defensive, procrastinator. I mean, these are some really problematic qualities.
You aren't going to change who she is at her core, but you can certainly ask to have an adult conversation about the split of chores. If she gets defensive, remind her that you're just trying to solve a household problem. If she's still defensive, you need to reevaluate if you want to live the rest of your life with someone who you can't communicate effectively with.
Honestly you are fine, and do more than most guys I’m buddies with by wanting and working to put in solid effort.
Don’t feel bad, but I would feel frustrated.
If you want something specific done that hasn’t been done yet so far, she’s gotta be specific, ask for that.
If she doesn’t like how you clean it and can’t be, there are plenty of jobs to do around the house where you can better contribute, and she can do it.
I’d also be frustrated because even if it’s not perfect, you put in solid time and effort and got met with not good enough rather than I appreciate it but do better next time.
Gotta communicate to fix that, because it’ll grind you down over time.
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So, first and foremost my partners original gender is female. However, as to respect their recent coming out. I will be referring to them with male pronouns or they/them. Obligatory, yes this is an alt account.
TLDR: Partner came out as trans, and I'm not sure how to move forward, as I'm not attracted to their new gender.
We've been together since I was 21 and they were 20. Last year I proposed and he said yes. We talked about children, houses, future plans, the entire nine yards of conversations and not once did it come across that they were transgender. I genuinely thought they were just a Tomboy (on of the main reasons I was attracted to them, they liked all the same outdoor hobby stuff as me).
Our wedding day is only a few months away, and he sat me down last night to inform me of their 'true gender identity' informing me that they couldn't continue to lie to themselves or me. Now I personally, am not attracted to men in the slightest, dating a man just isn't for me. I however do still love my partner deeply.
We talked for a few hours about what led them to this choice, how I am apparently blind as a bat, and how we were supposed to move forward. I told him that I really needed some time to think about our future, because while I still loved them, I'm just not into men. They then talked about our wedding day, and about lying to our family until AFTER the ceremony, and then taking hormones, and getting the FULL surgery to transition.
I shut down, I informed them that I needed time to think about our future. I just felt gross, I fell in love with the most beautiful woman I've ever seen, and it turns out they're a man a couple months before our wedding date. I packed up a backpack, and told them I was staying with a buddy of mine for a night or two to figure things out, which they seemed okay with.
Despite it barely being a day after this bombshell was dropped on me, I just can't think about going forward with the relationship. I'm just not attracted to men, I want biological children, and I can't lie to my family, nor his family on our wedding day.
What advice do you have reddit? I can't go to my friends or family, because I don't want this spreading like wildfire through their gossip lines.
Have you looked into tele mental health therapy? I wish you well in your new life. Going no contact for now will help with your healing. They are who they are and that’s not going to change. Now that you are an adult, it’s not about them anymore. It’s about developing your own path. Open communication is key with your partner and lean on each other for support, value each other’s feelings, and prioritize each other. If there are unresolved issues with your core beliefs in your relationship then address them now work on solving it before you marry. Try not to ever go to bed angry. Sometimes it takes shitty parents to make you determined to be a great one. I hope that that you’ll get that opportunity one day. No rush though.
There’s no rule that says you can’t have both.. or share a part with both of them.
Or cheat on her to show her that it’s not the same
If she's not ok with it it's cheating and she shouldn't tolerate any of it. If she said she didn't want it in her relationship no it's not tame, it's blatant disrespect.
If she's not ok with it it's cheating and she shouldn't tolerate any of it. If she said she didn't want it in her relationship no it's not tame, it's blatant disrespect.
I didn’t know that
That's the oddest thing I've ever heard in my fucking life. I'm a lustful person but I'm not about to wife up a girl who decided to fuck my friend right after I asked her out. THAT'S SO ODD, OP.
Oh, wow. Well, I'd just let her have him at this point, it's not worth another 12 years of misery tied to someone who can be so nasty towards you just to impress his little work wife. I find it ESPECIALLY disgusting that they're calling you qeak over symptoms of medication, for SEIZURES. That's not love. That's not worth salvaging. They deserve each other, and you deserve better.
My wife with ADHD loves going down on me, so I’m calling BS on him using that as a crutch. Your boyfriend sounds like a selfish & lazy lover. You’re only 18, you deserve to have a sex life you’re fulfilled by. If he’s not willing to prioritize your pleasure, you need to find someone who will.
Lol..word. Either a troll or vapid piece of complete shit.
Cheating is cheating no matter who is with
It sounds like he was entertaining other women while dating you. He held on to you until he found someone better. Whether it's this girl or someone else, he was never going to stay with you. Someone who was going to stay wouldn't break up with you that easily.
Help you what?
He's not going to change and if you're not going to leave him, this will continue until he decides to leave you.
What sort of talking to other women were you doing? Because there are different levels of that. It's totally fine to have friends who are women but it's important to keep reasonable boundaries and not talk to them like romantic and sexual interests.
It's not good that she went through your phone, and it's probably a sign that she doesn't trust you. How justified it was depends on how much reason not to trust you you've given her. Regardless though, you two really shouldn't be dating if you can't trust each other and discuss concerns like adults without sneaking around.