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That’s all fine and dandy but at the end of the day he is actively choosing to stay with his wife. Whether he works on the marriage or not is another story, as of now he is deciding, daily, to physically stay with her.
Its unclear wether you were expecting some kind of physicality by the 3rd date, or wether there had been many more dates.
Many girls are not interested in physical stuff quite so early asypu seem to be, and regardless of wether there would be asd or not, a good many people need to feel emotionally comfortable and conne ted before they can get to the point where they engage in any physical stuff.
It sounds to me like you've been expecting way too much, too soon. She may not even be interested in you as a romantic partner, plenty of people go to concertswoth friends and it doesn't indicate interest.
You are highly analytical of her behaviour without stopping to consider if perhaps you've come on too strong too soon. But as I said earlier, its unclear just how many 'dates' you've been on, and wether she is even thinking about then interns of romantic dates.
Re read your last comment. He wants a submissive slave to buy food, pay bills and force sex on.
You are not trapped into this. Plan to leave safely. Get some support because the mental abuse causes a lack of self belief.
If you are not sure then write down all the positives and negatives and decide if you want this for your life for the next year, two or three. If you don't then you know what to do.
I’m with you. These folks that don’t have an honesty-first policy are the sand ones who find themselves in this sort of situation and let themselves “off the hook” on technicalities they themselves determine.
It’s not smart. What would happen if you, heaven forbid, have an accident with life altering injuries or get diagnosed with a serious illness? He has given you the gift of knowing that he will reject you if you do not his standards, and you cannot trust him to be by your side in hard times.
If you are okay with him only being with you in the good times, it’s your call but go into it with open eyes and knowing that you can not depend on him and he will not change.
Even when we are talking about our day, he'll be gaming. For example, when i was talking to him about work yesterday, he had his headset on one ear. Once I stopped talking, he put the headset back and said, “Sorry, X, what was that?” I know it sounds weird but it's like he only indulges me so that I won't complain about his video game usage. he agreed to put away the game. I told him I want to completely get rid of it but he doesn't want to.
Get into therapy. You have so much to unpack, between your relationship and addiction. Do not go back to him. He refuses to get sober and will drag you down with him and you'll relapse.
When you get clean you can no longer be around the people you were using with. You have to permanently cut them off. I know you love him, but he's not someone you can build a life with. Again, he refuses to get clean. In time with therapy, you'll get over him and be able to move on.
If you did not want comments, all comments, you should not have posted. Because the comments are spot on. But apparently they are not what you WANT to read. Ponder that.
That’s all fine and dandy but at the end of the day he is actively choosing to stay with his wife. Whether he works on the marriage or not is another story, as of now he is deciding, daily, to physically stay with her.
Its unclear wether you were expecting some kind of physicality by the 3rd date, or wether there had been many more dates.
Many girls are not interested in physical stuff quite so early asypu seem to be, and regardless of wether there would be asd or not, a good many people need to feel emotionally comfortable and conne ted before they can get to the point where they engage in any physical stuff.
It sounds to me like you've been expecting way too much, too soon. She may not even be interested in you as a romantic partner, plenty of people go to concertswoth friends and it doesn't indicate interest.
You are highly analytical of her behaviour without stopping to consider if perhaps you've come on too strong too soon. But as I said earlier, its unclear just how many 'dates' you've been on, and wether she is even thinking about then interns of romantic dates.
Same.
Re read your last comment. He wants a submissive slave to buy food, pay bills and force sex on.
You are not trapped into this. Plan to leave safely. Get some support because the mental abuse causes a lack of self belief.
If you are not sure then write down all the positives and negatives and decide if you want this for your life for the next year, two or three. If you don't then you know what to do.
Hahahahahahahha. Sorry. I mean HAHAHAHAHAHAH. You’re unbelievable. Leave your poor ex alone.
I’m with you. These folks that don’t have an honesty-first policy are the sand ones who find themselves in this sort of situation and let themselves “off the hook” on technicalities they themselves determine.
It’s not smart. What would happen if you, heaven forbid, have an accident with life altering injuries or get diagnosed with a serious illness? He has given you the gift of knowing that he will reject you if you do not his standards, and you cannot trust him to be by your side in hard times.
If you are okay with him only being with you in the good times, it’s your call but go into it with open eyes and knowing that you can not depend on him and he will not change.
Seems like he is into existentialism as well. Which is a good thing. Go on, learn more about those topics. Nothing to worry about.
Even when we are talking about our day, he'll be gaming. For example, when i was talking to him about work yesterday, he had his headset on one ear. Once I stopped talking, he put the headset back and said, “Sorry, X, what was that?” I know it sounds weird but it's like he only indulges me so that I won't complain about his video game usage. he agreed to put away the game. I told him I want to completely get rid of it but he doesn't want to.
I would find him on social media and send it to his wife
Get into therapy. You have so much to unpack, between your relationship and addiction. Do not go back to him. He refuses to get sober and will drag you down with him and you'll relapse.
When you get clean you can no longer be around the people you were using with. You have to permanently cut them off. I know you love him, but he's not someone you can build a life with. Again, he refuses to get clean. In time with therapy, you'll get over him and be able to move on.
“He’s wonderful when he’s not being horribly toxic.” ?♂️
You will find someone amazing who cares about you more than you can imagine. Stay strong girl!
Him working a constantly away lifestyle must contribute to your relationship problems.
It’s hard to have a bond with someone not present consistently.
So don’t take it too personally.
What do you mean by “driven away”?
Sounds like he's the weak one for not defending his own wife.
It’s over. You’re coping with the fallout now. She wants the financial stability but not you.
Oh come on that’s leap. Just because they are homophobic doesnt mean they will get violent
Your instinct is right. Just moved your paycheck back to your personal account.This won't be a one time thing.
If you did not want comments, all comments, you should not have posted. Because the comments are spot on. But apparently they are not what you WANT to read. Ponder that.