my man you gotta be a special kinda dumb, you didn’t just call her sister hot, you told her to pretend to be her sister during sex with you, think about that
Reading and processing information is clearly not your forte. Or rather you're quick to judge. Begging to stay as in not go off alone. Why the hell would I want my mom to suffer alone. It was all clearly to stand up against her because he was even in denial that it wasn't a scammer as if that was what matters. Take a moment to reflect on your quick judgement and not make stupid comments such as this.
I think it's the closeness of living together that bothers him. It's like your male friend gets to play house with you, and he is left apart to watch. Loosing out on being close to you in a daily setting will have an impact on your relationship no matter how innocent the arrangement is
It sounds to me as though, whatever your views are about gender roles within society as a whole and your relationship in particular, your bf has a different view based on the culture he grew up in.
As a result, the fact that you do most of the cooking and he earns most of the money equals him being the “husband” in your relationship, and you being the “wife”, except for when it benefits him to see things another way.
So basically, “know your place beneath me” when that is what suits him, and “be my equal” when that is better for him.
I think you need to have a serious deep Convo with him about your concerns.
And if you can't, or if he blows you off, or insinuates that you're…crazy… that's another couple of flags
Remember you are beautiful. You are still young. Life is worth living more so with someone who is your best friend. Honesty, open communication, transparency, all necessary things for a long healthy relationship.
Then you obviously didn't read the post
my man you gotta be a special kinda dumb, you didn’t just call her sister hot, you told her to pretend to be her sister during sex with you, think about that
The moment a bitch would spit in my face, they're lucky divorce is all they would be getting.
And why so? Communication is bad?
Reading and processing information is clearly not your forte. Or rather you're quick to judge. Begging to stay as in not go off alone. Why the hell would I want my mom to suffer alone. It was all clearly to stand up against her because he was even in denial that it wasn't a scammer as if that was what matters. Take a moment to reflect on your quick judgement and not make stupid comments such as this.
I think it's the closeness of living together that bothers him. It's like your male friend gets to play house with you, and he is left apart to watch. Loosing out on being close to you in a daily setting will have an impact on your relationship no matter how innocent the arrangement is
That first sentence of yours is my favorite thing on Reddit today. Cracked me up like an egg!
Fixing his high sex drive is no less ridiculous than fixing her low sex drive.
Neither needs fixing.
I’m glad you know your worth and are leaving, but before you do ANYTHING else—tell her husband. He needs to know how easy his wife is.
It sounds to me as though, whatever your views are about gender roles within society as a whole and your relationship in particular, your bf has a different view based on the culture he grew up in.
As a result, the fact that you do most of the cooking and he earns most of the money equals him being the “husband” in your relationship, and you being the “wife”, except for when it benefits him to see things another way.
So basically, “know your place beneath me” when that is what suits him, and “be my equal” when that is better for him.
Interesting that he goes there regularly
I think you need to have a serious deep Convo with him about your concerns.
And if you can't, or if he blows you off, or insinuates that you're…crazy… that's another couple of flags
Remember you are beautiful. You are still young. Life is worth living more so with someone who is your best friend. Honesty, open communication, transparency, all necessary things for a long healthy relationship.