Someone that actually knows what love is would not do this to you. His abusive version of love equals how well he can threaten and manipulate you to do what he wants while gaslighting you to think it’s your fault he is out of control. Abusive people often look for younger people because they may be unaware how an actual loving healthy relationship looks vs the horrific version he has to offer. Get out as soon and as safely as you can. I wish you a happier future.
Well, since you said any advice would be helpful: I'm with your boyfriend, promise rings for adults seem silly, and the fact that you want one because your ex gave you one isn't a great argument (sounds like that “promise” didn't end up panning out, eh?).
The post has been up for 3 hours and you’re clearly not reaching these hoards of people you’re targeting.
4 bloody months. I live in London, it’s be been wet and cold since September. We get sun for about 3 weeks during what is apparently Summer. We are currently going through a massive cost of living crisis where everything is absurdly expensive that even those on a good income are struggling to get by in the most expensive city in the UK. Our government is a shit show.
You’ve known this dude for 4 months. You probably barely know him, you’ll most likely regret it. But it’s your life. Do whatever you want.
Nah, its literal abuse.
You are literally abusing the child for the mothers sins.
It is the behavior of someone who needs intense therapy.
Someone that actually knows what love is would not do this to you. His abusive version of love equals how well he can threaten and manipulate you to do what he wants while gaslighting you to think it’s your fault he is out of control. Abusive people often look for younger people because they may be unaware how an actual loving healthy relationship looks vs the horrific version he has to offer. Get out as soon and as safely as you can. I wish you a happier future.
Well, since you said any advice would be helpful: I'm with your boyfriend, promise rings for adults seem silly, and the fact that you want one because your ex gave you one isn't a great argument (sounds like that “promise” didn't end up panning out, eh?).
I know most woman can be crafty when it comes to trying to change a womans mind in a relationship
This statement is not factual. Men can try to get your girl just as much as a woman. Bisexuality has nothing to do with it.
What?
What exactly do you think the definition of boyfriend/girlfriend means?
And what is the definition of commit to you?
If you say you are boyfriend and girlfriend, then you are committed to each other.
If you are not committed. Then you are just penpals.
Wow it’s really that hard to admit you just missed it huh? It was there the whole time. But I’m not touching this conversation anymore
Username checks out lol
The post has been up for 3 hours and you’re clearly not reaching these hoards of people you’re targeting.
4 bloody months. I live in London, it’s be been wet and cold since September. We get sun for about 3 weeks during what is apparently Summer. We are currently going through a massive cost of living crisis where everything is absurdly expensive that even those on a good income are struggling to get by in the most expensive city in the UK. Our government is a shit show.
You’ve known this dude for 4 months. You probably barely know him, you’ll most likely regret it. But it’s your life. Do whatever you want.