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Date: November 4, 2022
You don't care about the attention but you care about followers? Isn't that contradictory. How would you feel if the roles were reversed and some girl hit on your bf and he didn't want to block her if you asked? I don't post on Insta anymore but when I did and the times I got hit on I just shut it down and if it continued I blocked them, not at the request of my SO just because I felt that's appropriate way to handle it
If there's no mutual respect in a relationship at some point it won't work she shouldn't be upset for respecting you in this light .
You know, I think he's really looking for a maid with benifents.
If you don’t like being with your boyfriend, break up with him. You want to do it, do it. 4 months is nothing in the spans of your life
So what you're really saying is that you eventually want him to support you?
I'm dying ?
I appreciate your advice.
Stop playing the victim. You and your boyfriend had a public fight in front of his friends. It was ugly and embarrassing. You said awful things within earshot of these people. Of course, they now have questions about the health of this relationship and your viability as a partner to their friend. They witnessed the event and judge you to be at fault. That's why they have blocked you. I am sure that your friends would have reacted similarly had they witnessed your BF behaving like you did.
You expect your BF to console you because his friends don't approve of how you treated him. It is his friendships that have been affected by the incident.
Have you sat down and had a conversation about it without shouting? That’s on her too btw I don’t just mean yourself. If she can’t sit down like an adult and talk about it without getting mad, sounds a bit like a lost cause. She has no right to shout at you like that especially if she goes off at you about doing the same thing. Conversation is the first step.
You are a certified badass, dude. That is a really SHIT-T situation to be in and for you to handle it the way you did was valid. Others may do it differently, but you did your part and i support that.
NO MAN should ever be grabbing your shirt, extra kudos for the fatlip you served that guy.
This guy is practically a rapist. He should be locked up in a shared cell with Bubba.
Lord almighty, tell her you love her and don’t want her to smash into a meridian. My boyfriend wants glasses. Knows how desperately he needs them. Will he make an appointment to go get ‘em? Nope.
Admittedly, he didn’t go into specifics at first and didn’t have much of a chance, because i was ranting at him. I assumed he was in a “wait room” if there is such a place in a brothel and it wasn’t until I specifically asked where he was that he told me that he went in with his mate. So I said ok – your mate has paid for the both of you? But in fact you paid and he is going to pay you back? And he said he assumes his mate paid (with borrowed funds) for both but his mate is a regular and spends a lot of money there that maybe he didn’t have to pay for him.
But yeah, what was the purpose of going in? Was my partner just going to shut his eyes and pray to the lord?
This was my first time ever. I just went to the restroom and shed a tear or two ?
I think you should be more concerned he's hurt rather than thinking he's left. Who would leave and take nothing they own with them?
Unless you are leaving a lot out of this story, I'd be extremely concerned he's hurt somewhere and can't get to help.
Keep him locked on everything, flag and block his phone number with your carrier. If he tries to contact you again, time for a restraining order.
Good god, what if the dog walked in?
Get rid of him
My first marriage ended because she was a serial cheater. But aside from that your point is valid. I have been in therapy and I’m learning to put up boundaries. It’s been a rough road though. Sometimes things are great. But sometimes the control stuff comes out and it’s hard to separate my own issues from hers.
Oh no! You do not take her back! You absolutely did the right thing! Stand your ground. You do not need a evil stepmom for your daughter. Move on to someone else because this woman is not it for you.
I think if you include a card that mentions that you hope she's doing well regarding her recovery from her depressive episode, hope that she's doing well in general & that you hope when she's ready, that she'll be open to hanging out every now & then again, as friends.
Additionally, it'd be better if you looked up flowers that symbolize friendship, then send those kind of flowers with the card (so there's no misunderstanding & so she knows you're not pressuring her into anything).
I don’t really get the first part of what you’re saying. Why wouldn’t it be possible for him to have a strand of hair on him in a picture?
To clarify, I didn’t really think he was cheating when I thought I saw a strand of hair on him. I asked him about it because it did look like a woman’s hair and the photo was taken in bed, but there are a lot of situations where you can have a strand of hair on you.
I only started to think he was cheating when he said it was a lamppost. That made me think he was covering up the hair with a very poor lie (which was not the case), and I know it was wrong to accuse him of this.
The moment I found out about my ex-husband's affair, I instantly lost love and attraction for him. It was a huge turn-off to know he could hurt me like that. Ultimately, I left him because he was still lying to me about stuff. I gave it six months, but I kept falling more and more out of love with him. Maybe, if he had put in the work, I would have stayed. Maybe I would have loved him again. I don't know. I do think reconciliation is possible after infidelity, but it comes down to the wandering partner's ability to have true sorrow and empathy for what they did, work hard on their boundaries to prevent it from happening again, and THEY have to rebuild the trust in the relationship. Is your partner doing any of that? Maybe the lack of love is a sign he is not doing any enough to earn back your love, trust, and respect?
I recommend your post this over at r/AsOneAfterInfidelity. They are a sub for both wandering and betrayed partners to post and seek advice as they work through reconciliation after infidelity. They were incredibly kind to me both when I chose to work on my marriage, and also when I decided it was time for me to leave. I wish you the best of luck, my friend.
I have a slightly different take to the top comments. Interestingly, you've left an important part out in your post….what do you want to do? Not from a mother's perspective, but from the perspective of a person who deserves to be loved in their own right for being a good person? It's important you consider what this means to you.
Do you even want to get back with him?
I agree with most commenters that there is a decent chance he thought things would be better if he separated but there are a plethora of reasons that can drive us to make bad decisions. It comes down to if you both genuinely love each other or is this an act of desperation?
One piece of advice, if you are thinking of getting back together for your child, this is a horrible reason. Kids don't do better when parents have shithouse relationships. Either you both genuinely love and trust each other or you don't. All the best!
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Absolutely this. Rehome the puppy. Find a home for it while you’re overseas and just line it up to be picked up when you get home.
Fuck, I briefly scanned the post, and then I read it again. You weren't talking about clothes, OP.
I would love to do that but I feel like it would make things worse I’m just very scared and terrified to be honest with you I’m just stuck
He abused her cat that’s the only reaction. Wtf is up with ppl thinking this is acceptable behavior. It’s literally an elderly cat their bones are brittle
My favourite suggestion so far. My Father is married to someone younger than I am and he would be disgusted if I took a 70-something man as SO to meet him! Even better if you can brief the man to be quite ‘touchy’ with you when your Dad’s about – he will hate that. The thing to remember is that this might just be one of a number of girlfriends but you will always be his daughter. My Father has had 3 wives and countless girlfriends during my lifetime. The thing I learned is to never let on that you do or don’t like them – just play nice and keep time spent together to a minimum.
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My husband does this to me. Every touch, every word is sexual. I can’t leave because my son is special needs and I can’t care for him on my own.
Definitely do NOT go for it. She’s in a relationship. Don’t be THAT guy.
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You have “protection in place” that you call “family money” to protect you incase the marriage ends. Does he also have this for him? If not, then I would assume that's where the money went.
Uhh, why would he care if she was with other men while she was away, if they were not in a relationship at the time?
Why do you think she’s so willing to believe his nonsense?
Bring up? Brush it? What about breaking up for good?
You were groomed and you're incredibly naive.
i made a grammar error i meant
he said stuff that you would say if you like someone but idk if it's just him being nice
The part that gets me is her cognitive dissonance. They had an agreement, she was going to get rid of it, and backed out and expected dad to completely fucking take up the reins and expects him to be active. You can't make people play house with you especially when there's an actual child at stake here
The part that gets me is her cognitive dissonance. They had an agreement, she was going to get rid of it, and backed out and expected dad to completely fucking take up the reins and expects him to be active. You can't make people play house with you especially when there's an actual child at stake here
Well who to share with if not brothers? Sharing is caring
You've only been together a month, end it. Save yourself the heartache and the trouble.
I don’t think he’s done anything that needs forgiving here – just understanding and appreciation.
Lol your chance to contact nev from catfish
Why would you have this man around your child? This is a huge problem.
Lovebombing.. feels good after discard!
When he told you not to speak to him again and then he came to speak to you, it gave you some validation. He made you believe that you are worthless and then he comes back so it's hard to resist the urge to talk to him.. Also he hoovered you but you didn't let him get close to you, ahole couldn't pretend to be someone else for two weeks and showed his true colors! You were smart enough to recognize it and block!
Anyway, now you know who he is and you don't want to have anything with him. He's nothing, empty inside, user and abuser. He maybe looks good outside but inside he's ugly.
Keep working on yourself, it's a bump on the road but don't let it bother you, stay focused on yourself and you'll be fine. It's ok to have a withdrawal period after but he doesn't deserve to be in your head so let it go!
Did he pay you back the money?
I suggested counseling because I don't think random internet strangers should be determining what's abuse and what's not. We don't have a complete picture. A therapist, especially someone who specializes in child abuse can help determine what isn't abuse as much as what is. Especially when culture is a factor I don't want to condemn someone. I also don't want to accidentally downplay abuse. This situation isn't clear.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
If you want to chat my inbox is always open.
Thanks for the blow on the age gap, I get where you’re coming from but I’m not looking for advice on the age of my partner
Your ‘club’ story is difficult to believe. What did the pictures show? Who took the pictures of you and why? If you were in a club apparel looking for a wallet the pictures of you should be pretty dull and support your story- is that the case?
Dad wanted to hear the usual “im so sorry this happened to you” ect, 19 year old bf of his daughter says something reasonable while acknowledging how awful it is for both sides and that triggered this defense mechanism.
I think the dad is still very hurt about this incident and can't talk about it like that yet. He doesn't have a clear view.
Sad how a grown man who's in a powerful position feels the needs to treat someone different (exclude them) just because they see the bigger picture without judgment.
He's a cop, not a judge.
Every story has more sides to it, how bad it might be, there's always a reason.
Maybe he needs some time to think about it.
He should apologize to the bf imo.
You kid deserves either two parents who are all in for them. Or one who is all in for them. Being with his mother so she can be manipulative is only going to hurt him in the long run. If she is at the point where she is saying I'm only going to parent our kid if I can fuck other men then she is no longer a parent. Shes an egg donor.
You are being selfish. You’re using your son as an excuse. The reality is that he will suffer being raised in a home as toxic as this. So you choosing to stay is you choosing to ignore the reality and continue on for whatever reason you are determined to.
Is it just that you don’t want to parent? Children go through hard situations like divorce all the time. You know good parents do? Put him in therapy and reassure him of your love.
You choosing to stay is for no one but you.
She sounds like the type who will try to hurt your business eventually, especially if things go south
“I can't believe I have to deal with this”
Holy shit I'm glad I'm married to my life partner. You seem more concerned about some hangup you have instead of your husband's mental health.
I don't really have any advice cause honestly nothing can be said to magically give someone empathy, trust me I've tried.
Good luck to your husband
Surgery, even a day procedure when you are not admitted, typically is a big deal. If someone has to drive you home that means you need to be monitored.
Feeling hurt that your boyfriend did not keep this in mind is natural. Talking about it in a manner that is not accusatory is important. Take a “so this happened. How do we be sure that we can be there for each other when important stuff like this happens in the future?” approach. Coordinate with a shared calendar?
It is a bit of a karma thing that his teaching gig fell through. Don't rub it in.
Damn that was beautiful.
This relationship is unbalanced. I’d consider getting your losses before getting any more vested.
Be careful OP
Just saying, it’s very possible. Not all dudes can do it, but some definitely can.
Watersports is a legit kink, and a lot of the dudes who are into it are perfectly capable of pissing with an erection.
Your comments to me and everywhere about women are incredibly, incredibly sexist. I am not surprised you have persisted in harassment against me and other women on this site given your sexism but I do hope someday you throw up that red pill you swallowed.
Nah they sound like a pedo. Wouldn't a pedo try to turn it around on you? Deny, Attack, Reverse role of Victim and Abuser.
This person continually made sexual comments about children. You said this was disgusting and you didn't want to be their friend. Suddenly they are the victim and are blocking you?
Have you seen him actually put it on? He should be able to get it on by rolling it down with no lube. Makes me wonder if he opens it all the way first and then uses the lube to slide it on ?
Imma be honest, I only made it to having to read her mind. Dump her. That shit is too manipulative, too exhausting, too toxic. Just get out
This is how you can tell if your relationship is worth maintaining:
(1) decline his request to move in. If he takes “no” for an answer, then he at least respects your boundaries, and that’s something. If he pleads incessantly and brings it over and over again, then he DOES NOT respect YOUR boundaries, and will therefore transgress again.
(2) postpone the wedding for 1 year, pending couples counselling. If he agrees and attends, it means he’s aware there are issues to work out. If he declines, then you know he truly believes YOU ALONE are the root of your relationship issues.
Next, be sure to let EVERYONE know of his behavior. Your silence will only protect him, not you. Your community needs to be aware of the type of person he is so that they can afford you some level of protection.
You are 31.
Assuming you want to be married and potentially start a family, your ideal timeline will put you at 33-34 BEFORE that is a reality.
Raising a family is backbreaking work, and your relationship is already exhausting you. If you are to be a present and emotionally available parent, you require a partner who you can trust so that you don’t have to unnecessarily expend emotional energy on him.
These men exist out there. Why waste your time on a little boy who isn’t invested in you?
It sounds like he’s trying to get you pregnant in my opinion
You probably give really good head, that’s why he wants it so much.
Exactly my point which is why I asked the question.
That should have been nothing to hide
smart – and I think you have the best bet of an ongoing cordial relationship with this approach
Know your sex terms before asking for help
They are fake profiles.
If he steals from you and your relationship is generally shit, then valentine's day won't fix anything. You're focusing on the wrong thing.
Most people don't like that. It's not unreasonable.
If you don't ever accept that boundary. Don't.
But she also doesn't have to be with someone who does things that she doesn't like.
Think about what is more important to you.
She sounds alot like my ex. Constantly snapping, berating me, moving goalposts. Nothing I did was ever good enough. Dumping her was the best decision I ever made and now I have a girlfriend who is much more reasonable and understanding. You do not have to accept this kind of treatment. Regardless of the reason for it, your girlfriends behavior is emotionally abusive
I never said anything about money wise. I said law wise. You need to read more carefully dummy
? this. I’m still reluctant to ask but may bite the bullet. I was so unhappy in my previous relationship and this is the first time in 6 years I actually want to kiss someone. Thank you.
Yes you would think. My mother has darker pigment around her eyes. Her entire life people randomly hand her DV cards or ask if she needs help. I also think people are grossly underestimating aggressive white women. I am still traumatized by some this crazy lady saying that my mother should think of me and get out of this situation and how she is no longer a victim because there are children at play. While my situation is a little different than OP’s I 100% believe people are talking shit and ostracizing him.
Yes you would think. My mother has darker pigment around her eyes. Her entire life people randomly hand her DV cards or ask if she needs help. I also think people are grossly underestimating aggressive white women. I am still traumatized by some this crazy lady saying that my mother should think of me and get out of this situation and how she is no longer a victim because there are children at play. While my situation is a little different than OP’s I 100% believe people are talking shit and ostracizing him.
You can control who you are interacting with. And stop telling then you are hurt. Thats bargaining. They betrayed you and broke your trust. Everything over “do not contact me” is you wanting them to interact with you. Its your decision but dont say its out of your control because it isnt.
Honestly you shouldn’t have kids with that reaction you had. Like having kids isn’t just taking your name. They are work and kids will test you how are you going to be when your 8 year old gets mouthy? You going to stomp off too? Like you need coping skills.
You, like many young people, don't seem to know what a “boundary” actually is.
Boundaries are for yourself and not so you can dictate another person's behavior.
For example: I have a boundary that I don't want to date a person that smokes, so I don't date smokers. If I was dating a person wanted to start smoking, I can't say “you can't smoke because my boundary is that I don't date smokers!” I can say “I don't want to date a smoker, so I will leave the relationship.”
Additionally, relationship boundaries are whatever the people involved in the relationship agree works for them.
For some couples, this may be an agreement that neither of them can spend any time alone with a person of the opposite sex. This is unhealthy, but if that's what both people want and agree to, then that is their boundary.
For others, a Tuesday night orgy is a common thing, and their boundary is that protection is always used.
You need to discuss with your partner(s) what you find to be acceptable behavior in a relationship. There is no “one size fits all.”
It's nonsense, but I'm sorry as it looks like your bday will be awkward.
Go to your graduation. I missed mine because nobody was going to show up. But you know what. I regret it to this day. Mine definitely wasn't freaking med school. Congratulations on all your hard work.
Re-home the dog and/ or leave him. My ex hit our dog a couple times or threw small things at him. But it was open hand to the dogs side or a bonk on the nose. His father was abusive to pets. I sat him down and showed him information and asked him to stop and he did. I never saw him hit our dog again. I don't have reason to believe he was doing it behind my back because he wasn't that way. If he hadn't stopped hitting the dog I would have left. Not just for our poor dog, but because I won't tolerate an abusive asshole who doesn't listen.
Your brother didn’t care enough about your accomplishments to check the date why would you care about his wedding?
Fuck that. If the brother (& her family) is that selfish, I suggest not even talking to golden boy & attend my own graduation & go No Contact with her asshole family.
Working from home
omg
it is so pathetic
find a more mature guy
Wait what! I live in Australia and whenever I’ve been tested it’s all added?
Thank you?
Is this even real?
Easy. Get off your ass and do half the chores. Get a better paying job. Basically everything she just asked you to do. ?
Since when are psychiatrists free in Canada?
originality level checks out.
Not that it matters, but if 29 refers to your age it's been my real-world nickame for almost as long as you have been alive and is a varient phonetic spelling of the word “control”.
Or perhaps she doesn’t want to play host and make sure her bf is comfortable and looked after when she herself is not happy and likely has mixed feeling about going.
She may just want to look after herself and her feelings.
Ding! Ding! Ding!
Although I couldn't disagree more with your first sentence (lol), I totally agree with you on the timing comment.
This takes “cold feet” to another level. It's almost like she's asking him to break off the wedding, whether consciously or subconsciously.
I couldn't think of a better way (other than straight up cheating) to throw a wrench in the gears of my wedding and relationship than to tell my fiance I'm falling for someone a month before walking down the aisle.
So he knows you need 4 more years for school?
???????