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Date: October 22, 2022
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Forget not being accusatory. Accuse away. You believe he's intentionally letting the baby cry because he's resentful that you're asking him to care for the baby while you take a bath. And based on what you wrote, I think you are absolutely right.
You know what he's doing. He knows what he's doing. What he doesn't know is that you know that he knows and you find it unacceptable. If he can't get the baby to stop crying, he can take the baby outside for a few minutes until you're done.
I wouldn't break up with the mother of your child over something she said while pregnant. Tell her your concerns now, tell her it's a deal breaker for you, and then wait until after the baby is born to see how she feels. And not right after, obviously. Newborns are tough, post-partum is tough, it'll take a year or so for her to get back to her pre-pregnancy hormone levels (after breastfeeding).
I'm not saying wait a year, but this is your child and she hasn't done anything catastrophic. You owe it to your child to give this relationship your best shot. That means waiting to see if your girlfriend returns to some version of her pre-pregnancy self after pregnancy.
She'll never be the same, but hopefully you'll change with fatherhood, too. And hopefully you'll both grow into people who can fall in love again and raise a child together.
Unfair??? You're working for your money. The only unfairness here is the lack of support from him.
Yikes
It’s totally reasonable, IMO, to expect SOMETHING for Xmas, birthday, and maybe Valentine’s Day—particularly when you let your partner know that it’s important to you. If he can’t get you small gifts or a card even after you make it plan that gift giving is your love language, then he’s just not a good partner.
She asked if she’s being paranoid. The answer is no, she’s not being paranoid, because they haven’t had sex for 2 years and she won’t address it. Humans have needs and he’s satisfying them somehow. If she wants to control her paranoia, the answer is to talk to him and come up with a plan they can both live with, not to look into his shaving habits.
When you point out your only problem with the post, it can be explained a million different ways and it won’t get to the heart of the issue.
Whether him shaving is indicative of cheating is irrelevant.
Might i recommend a divorce?
If anything happens, it will not be your fault.
Clearly they need help, and it isn't fair on anyone to completely depend on someone else to live who is not equipped for that.
You aren't a doctor or a therapist, but what you can so is call someone for help and explain that you're worried about this person.
Prioritise your own well-being
It sounds like your girlfriend is an alcoholic or well on her way to becoming one. Does she want to continue her behavior with her like minded “friends” or can she recognize her drinking behavior is problematic? If she can’t, you need to reassess the relationship.
love bombing, age gap, manipulation. all red flags. Age gaps like this aren't much of a big deal once both people are post college (22-25 age range), but when one is as young as you, it's a problem.
Cut and run.
Being broke forces you to share a room with someone ?
Sorry strip club lol
Thank you for saying this..
Yeah I don't get the whole stashing comment? Like.. what for and why? Just move on at this point.
Well, yes he is
You also said that it's weird that he's insistent she doesn't (it's not) and that it may be because he has a woman barber and is afraid she'll be jealous… which is a nutty assumption about a common practice
I wouldn’t get too excited about that.
He could’ve done that on his own long ago and he chose not to.
There’s nothing for him to understand, it’s a routine that you’ve created for yourself and for your health. If he can’t grasp that, then… so be it.
He can sit and pout and obsess over it or he can figure out something to do on his own.
You have had a 2 month relationship with this woman. You should not be needing a 1 2 or 3 month break from a 2 month relationship.
While you were trying too hard to force a relationship (please don’t do that again, it’s creepy since you’ve been together no time at all), she’s looking to keep you on standby in case the other guys she wants to date aren’t better than you. Don’t let her.
You don't.
You are compromising on your own integrity and self-worth. You don't need to be complicit in his devaluation of you as a person. He's taken advantage of you and influenced your lack of self-esteem long enough.
He wants to stay with you for the convenience of having an inexperienced girl with little to no prior history with others to sniff around and rely on as a backup if he can't get a quickie elsewhere.
Honestly, if he's been with you for 5 years already, sounds like you're aging out of the relationship and he still wants a teen to make him feel good about himself as he approaches his 30s.
Dump.
You don't think she wants to pray away the gay? I don't trust church groups or offers to attend them.
I think you should say what you suggested above and see what she says. Maybe she is into you.